[net.nlang] Rebuttal from a non-sexist viewpoint re: re: IT

ecn-pa.alexande (07/22/82)

I do not have any intention of forcing anyone to use non-sexist language.
But I do have a few comments on some responses to my article on the net:

     1) I try, (and I will not say that I am universally successful)
	to use non-sexist forms in all of my speech, unless specific
	reference to gender is called for.  My friends and associates
	do not say that my speech sounds awkward, ridiculous, or
	silly.  In fact, I think I can say that my use of language is
	regarded fairly highly.  If someone chooses, (for whatever ill-
	advised reason) to use non-sexist terms scornfully, without
	wanting to be using them, he or she will undoubtedly sound
	ridiculous spitting out those "chairPERSONs" and "he OR SHEs".
	I use them because non-sexism is an important goal to me, and
	the use of sexist terms in my language would be a betrayal of
	my own beliefs.  If you do not choose to use them, that is
	your choice, but you should be aware that this may say to
	someone who values non-sexism that you are not a supporter
	of this goal, or are at best a lukewarm supporter.  Whether
	this is true or not is immaterial:  you may be perceived
	in this light.


     2) Do not underestimate the power of words.  An inept choice of words
	has caused many politicians to lose their offices.  The lack of a
	word for a thing has often caused that thing to go undiscovered
	for decades, even centuries.  A wrong word can cause a person to
	appear uneducated, or a fool.  The manner of presentation of an
	idea can cause its acceptance or rejection.  Often a careful choice
	of words can cause a dismal performance to be presented in a
	glowing light, or can cause a fine performance to be poorly
	perceived.  I do not claim that the use of non-sexist language,
	of and by itself, can cause all sexist actions to disappear, or
	all discrimination to be ended, or all preconceived notions of
	the sex of any unknown professional, office-holder, or any other
	class of person to be entirely washed away.  However, I will claim
	that the use of non-sexist language will exert an effect in the
	direction of accomplishing these things.  A person who does not
	think in terms of sexist words will not be as likely to perform
	sexist actions.  A person who has not formed the habit of thinking
	of women as a sub-class of men will be less likely to discriminate
	against women.  And if people start thinking in terms of what
	*people* are qualified/available/running/present/etc. rather than
	what *men* are qualified/available/running/present/etc., they will
	begin to lose their preconceived, prejudiced opinions about what
	sex a person needs to be to accomplish a job that anyone could
	accomplish.  If one values non-sexism as I do, (and I recognize
	that not every one does, and I really am not speaking to those
	people), one should realize that the use of non-sexist language
	can help in the achievement of this goal.

				Alan Alexander-Manifold
				Purdue Library Systems
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