[net.nlang] no flames please

tiberio (01/20/83)

it could be that some folks just think they are getting a flame when
the sender had no such intention.  i have literally gotten into wars
via e.m. for what ultimately seems to be no reason.
someone mentioned that it is the spoken not written language
that is used on the net, i agree, but with no facial expressions to back
it up the spoken language is easily misinterpreted. also since people
cannot alternate sentences (at best we alternate paragraphs) there
is no real dialogue. without immediate feedback it is difficult to clear up
misinterpretations which lead to flames if the flaming party view
the misinterpretations as ommisions.

case in point, recently i submitted an article to net.med about x-rays
and vdt's. i recieved what might be called flames saying vdt's have
been shown to give off no x-rays, that the voltage was insufficient
to produce x-rays, etc. as it turns out i meant to include in the term vdt's
more than just vt-100's and adm-5's but things like our monochrome
megatek 7000 (vector refresh with no doubt a mutha of an electron gun
and deflection magnets, puts out enough btu's to heat a hanger) and our
color megatek 7250. i don't know who was `wrong' but it's easy to see
how flames get started.

has anyone formalize the funniness of `dialogue' via electronic mail?