[net.nlang] Replacement for he/she

asa@rayssd.UUCP (01/27/84)

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   I would like to hear some thoughts on solutions to the gender elimination
problem in writing. Here are some of my own thoughts:

	1) substitute the word 'one'. This has the advantage that lthe word
		exists, and that a similar formation occurs in other languages
		(see African and Amerindian). It has the disadvantage of
		stretching the semantic field of an existing word, thus
		demanding more attention to context.
	2) substitute the word 'it'. This has the advantage that it makes use
		of an existing singular form, thus involving only the deletion
		of the other two forms now used. It has the strong disadvantage
		that it makes people feel that they are being referred to as
		objects, and is therefore highly resented.
	3) collapse the singular/plural distinction, in a manner similar to
		the collapse of the singular/plural 'you' distinction. This
		has the advantage that the process has been used before, and
		that those who want a plural can add '-all', as Souterners
		have done for the 'you' form. Thus, 'they' becomes the neutral
		singular, and gender disappears.
	4) do a back-formation from the plural, to form a consistent set with
		the 'I/we' forms. For example, we might use 'thai/they' or
		'thee/they'. The latter would be interesting, because we
		could resurrect a perfectly good word, puting it to use in
		a different way. This has the advantage that it emphasizes
		the neutrality of the form, and that the precedent already
		exists. It has the disadvantage of psychological newness.

These are the only rational solutions I have thought of so far. It seems
to me that we need to do something, to get out of the current endless
tug-of-war over whether the default for the general case shall be 'he'
or 'she'.

jlg@lanl-a.UUCP (02/05/84)

I vote for using 'HE'!!!  That is standard english usage an there is
no reason to change.

brat@gatech.UUCP (Steven Goldberg) (02/06/84)

Using "they" is a bad idea, although it's a widely used word in spoken American
English, but it confounds the idea of singular with plural - something we'd
always like to get away from doing.  It seems people have a hard enough time
keeping their subjects agreeing with their verbs.  I vote for 'he' (the current
rule for this case), or 'one', which is probably best, if sexism is to be
totally eliminated(?)....

								Steven

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delph@tesla.UUCP (02/07/84)

I much prefer s/h/it.

julian@deepthot.UUCP (Julian Davies) (02/08/84)

This is definitely a controversial one.  Personally I like to
have the option of using "they" in a singular sense, sparingly.
I don't feel that any important confusion over singular/plural
distinctions results.
   However, last year I was editing text, Organization and
Procedures description for a religious body, with a view to
removing 'sexist' language while keeping a decent style.
My suggestion that we have the flexibility to use "they" in the
singular sense was objected to by someone who felt that the
words "they" and "them" have an intrinsic depersonalizing and
distancing aura (to use my own words for his point).  It was
decided not to use "them" etc.   I still use it in my own
writing at times.   Nearly all the time, a sentence can be
reorganised to avoid needing to use a sex-linked pronoun,
but not always neatly.
			Julian Davies
			...!utzoo!uwo!julian

james@alberta.UUCP (James Borynec) (02/08/84)

If we actually want to eliminate sexism in language, I recommend that
we eliminate one of two sets of words entirely from the english language:
   
   1) he, his, man, Mr, him, etc...
   2) she, her, hers, woman, Miss, Mrs, Ms, etc...
 
    In the interests of saving ink, I suggest that we eliminate catagory 2.
 
                                      -- Jim Borynec
note: we should probably keep "male" and "female" around for situations that
     *have* to have a sexual bias.

decot@cwruecmp.UUCP (Dave Decot) (02/12/84)

Article A follows:

The only apparent purpose for pronouns is to allow brevity of expression.
That is, some person P uses a pronoun so that P has a convenient way to refer
to a thing whose specification may long.

A's author I points out in A that a referential mechanism M exists, and
that M is already heavily employed in computer science and in mathematics.

The readers R may have noticed I's peculiar habit H of using variable names
instead of pronouns in A.  H is equal to M.

I is Dave Decot		 "Non-Americans are people, too."
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wombat@uicsl.UUCP (02/12/84)

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uicsl!wombat    Feb 10 11:22:00 1984

Many people think there is a reason to change. I've felt left out
for too long already. I used to prefer the s/he constructions, but
it seems like the they/them/their forms are being used more and more
in conversation, so, although they look funny in writing at first,
I've switched.
							Wombat

ken@ihuxq.UUCP (ken perlow) (02/12/84)

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>>> >I vote for using 'HE'!!!  That is standard english usage an there is
>>> >no reason to change.

>>> One reason to change should be obvious!  There are a number of 'she'
>>> people around who are NOT included in standard english usage.

If you see any merit to the Sapir-Wharrf hypothesis--that words are
the tools which shape the way you think--then you'll have to admit that
using 'he' as the generic third person must contradict any ideals
of sexual equality.  This situation may not have a good remedy, and
some may believe that it doesn't need one, but that does not invalidate
the problem.

An imaginative non-sexist third-person pronoun was developed by the
Twin Oaks Community in Virginia.  Highly committed to a philosophy of
co-operative living, they use "co".  Declension: "co, cos, co."
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janel@uo-vax1.UUCP (02/12/84)

>I vote for using 'HE'!!!  That is standard english usage an there is
>no reason to change.


One reason to change should be obvious!  There are a number of 'she'
people around who are NOT included in standard english usage.  Perhaps
you don't think that is a problem, and that women should be invisible
in mixed-gender references in our language.  If you feel the choice of
gender pronoun is trivial, try changing all 'he' references to 'she' and
see how reading it makes you feel.

                                           --Jane Laursen
                                             .../uoregon/janel

gam@proper.UUCP (Gordon Moffett) (02/13/84)

>>I vote for using 'HE'!!!  That is standard english usage an there is
>>no reason to change.
>
>One reason to change should be obvious!  There are a number of 'she'
>people around who are NOT included in standard english usage.  Perhaps
>you don't think that is a problem, and that women should be invisible
>in mixed-gender references in our language.  If you feel the choice of
>gender pronoun is trivial, try changing all 'he' references to 'she' and
>see how reading it makes you feel.
>
>                                           --Jane Laursen
>                                             .../uoregon/janel

(hoo! Isn't it getting warm in here?)

While it is obvious that `he' is the masculine pronoun, it is less
obvious that `he' is also an English word meaning `[def 2.] the
person; the one; anyone...' [from Webster's New World Dictionary].

This is not to say there is no problem here, but to illuminate the
intent of usage.  `He' is sexist to the interpreter of the word --
the word itself, in one of it's meanings, is in fact inclusive.
-- 
Gordon A. Moffett
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	hplabs!intelca!proper!gam

ed@unisoft.UUCP (Ed Gould) (02/13/84)

I vote for coercing the singular/plural and using they.
-- 
Ed Gould
ucbvax!mtxinu!ed

ark@rabbit.UUCP (Andrew Koenig) (02/13/84)

I have taken to avoiding the whole he/she problem in technical
writing by adopting second person pronouns:  "with this program,
you can ..."

grw@fortune.UUCP (Glenn Wichman) (02/15/84)

	Let's face it; emotional issues aside, it would be very useful
    to have a personal pronoun which did not involve a specific gender.
    The problem with using 'he' (regardless of whether it is sexist) is
    that it is ambiguous:  it is the same as the masculine personal pronoun.
	I use 'they' 'them' and 'their' as genderless personal pronouns.
    these are also ambiguous because they are the same as the plural pronouns.
    However, it is easier to make oneself clear using 'they' than using 'he'.
	It would be nice to come up with three brand new never-before-used
    pronouns (or we could borrow some from Old Norse), but unfortunately
    launching a new word or set of words is a very difficult and complex
    business.  'They' has the advantage of being currently understood by
    most people (even those that don't approve of this usage).
	On the other hand, this seems as good a place as any to start
    up some new words.  Let's make up three new words, for the nominative,
    objective and possesive forms of the NEW genderless pronoun!  Then
    we'll all agree to use them.  The words should:

	1) Be short (what's a pronoun for, eh?)
	2) Be euphonic
	3) Sound like English
	4) Fit in well with eachother & with their sibling pronouns

	Maybe there should be some other rules as well, but these seem
    to fit the bill.  I will see if I can come up with anything.  If
    you have any suggestions for pronouns, mail them to me, I'll summerize
    and we can vote.  If you think this is a stupid idea, you may be right.
    Still, we have to start somewhere.


	"You remember me, I'm the one with no cute signoff message"

						-Glenn

saj@iuvax.UUCP (02/15/84)

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iuvax!brennan    Feb  8 22:25:00 1984

'HE' loses.  I'm all for 'THEY'.  It's already in the language and
should not be hard for people to get used to.  There is no reason
to say that just because HE is currently used that it is fine. 
Sexism in language perpetuates sexism in society!

Jeff Brennan	...ihnp4!inuxc!iuvax!brennan

saj@iuvax.UUCP (02/15/84)

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iuvax!brennan    Feb 12 21:41:00 1984

gatech!brat said:
> Using "they" is a bad idea, ..., ... it confounds the idea of singular
> with plural - something we'd always like to get away from doing.

"you" already confounds this idea.  "they" still conjugates as a plural;
it just does not, necessarily, refer to a plural.  And, as rayssd!asa said,
"all" can be added to specify the plural if needed.

alberta!james said:
> If we actually want to eliminate sexism in language, I recommend that
> we eliminate one of two sets of words entirely from the english language:
>   1) he, his, man, Mr, him, etc...
>   2) she, her, hers, woman, Miss, Mrs, Ms, etc...

We need to eliminate *both* sets!

Jeff Brennan	...!ihnp4!inuxc!iuvax!brennan

grass@uiuccsb.UUCP (02/17/84)

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uiuccsb!grass    Feb 16 10:31:00 1984


>From what I can tell from a semester and a half of Japanese, it has
virtually no pronouns at all.  There are several meaning "I" and "we"
(with or without gender marking, with or without formalness)
but I have asked and been told that the equivalents of "he, she, it,
they" exist but are virtually never used.  When you speak of a third
person, you use their name or names with a title (no gender clue
here, but it does carry social rank).  Otherwise, the subject of
sentences is supposed to be understood from context.  This does
not seem to create any problems.

Japanese doesn't have gender distinctions in noun forms, or in
any of the various forms of verbs and adjectives.  However, 
it is easy to tell from word choice and GRAMMAR (!) whether
a man or a woman is writing/speaking.  I am told that the
distinction is much less marked for younger women, especially
educated ones.  The language doesn't change to reflect
whether a man or woman is being talked about.

jack@rlgvax.UUCP (Jack Waugh) (02/18/84)

I prefer "she", except when talking about nurses, secretaries,
etc.

holmes@dalcs.UUCP (Ray Holmes) (02/18/84)

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	How about 'se'? It incorporates at least 50% of each of 'he'
and 'she' and is not already taken.

					Ray

decot@cwruecmp.UUCP (Dave Decot) (02/20/84)

Ray Holmes:
    How about 'se'? It incorporates at least 50% of each of 'he' and
    'she' and is not already taken.

Sounds ok, but what about him/her, his/her?
How about 		    ser  ,  se's	(SAIR, SEES)
			or  sem  ,  ser		(SEHM, SAIR)
			or  hem  ,  hir		(HEHM, HEAR) ?

Dave Decot		 "Women are people, too."
decvax!cwruecmp!decot    (Decot.Case@rand-relay)

riddle@ut-sally.UUCP (Prentiss Riddle) (02/22/84)

Jeff Brennan (iuvax!brennan) defends the collapse of "he" and "she" to
"they" and its confusion of plural and singular by pointing out that
"you" already confuses them.  This is true, but I don't think that it's
a convincing defense -- many forms of English feel the need to make the
distinction and have invented forms with which to make it: "y'all",
"you guys", and the like.  Who wants to bet that if the trend to use
"they" to indicate third person singular continues, we will soon notice
the form "they all" filling the role of third person plural?

Personally, I think that our language will probably remain sexist in
its pronouns, and, if not, that the change will be an unplanned and
largely unconscious one (probably to "they").  But as long as we're
playing with linguistic utopias, here is my vote for the new pronoun
scheme (with apologies to Ray Holmes and Dave Decot):

	O->	he	him	his	his
	O-+	she	her	her	hers

	O==	se	sim	ser	sers

I think that these forms are close enough to the corresponding forms of
"he" and "she" that they wouldn't confuse anybody for long.  (So that
they will seem equally familiar whether written or spoken, they should
be pronounced like the old sexist pronouns: "ser" rhymes with "her",
not with "hair".)

--- Prentiss Riddle
--- ("Aprendiz de todo, maestro de nada.")
--- {ihnp4,seismo,ctvax}!ut-sally!riddle

rh@mit-eddie.UUCP (Randy Haskins) (02/28/84)

This subject has been beaten to death N times, as N goes to nausea.
(Ad nauseum >> Ad infinitum).  Like a certain other annonying issue,
whose name I dasn't mention for fear of triggering a discussion, 
nothing gets accomplished in the flaming that accompanies this issue.
People who think "he" is sexist continue to think "he" is sexist,
and people who think "he" is perfectly okay continue to think "he" is 
perfectly okay.  Everything interesting and several things boring
have been said already.  Please think about this when submitting.

-- 
Randwulf  (Randy Haskins);  Path= genrad!mit-eddie!rh