[net.nlang] Second person singular

dmr@dutoit.UUCP (09/09/85)

I know several Philadelphia-area Quaker families who use
"plain speech" when addressing family members.  The nominative
of the second person singular, among them, is "thee," as in,
"Ben, if thee doesn't stop that, I'm going to hit thee."

As you might guess from the example, I knew them best when
we were kids together 30 years ago.   I wonder if they are
teaching it to their own children?

Aside from "thee is", the rest of the declension (and conjugation)
was as expected (thy book; this is mine, that's thine).
I don't remember if I ever heard *thee's.

	Dennis Ritchie

bill@utastro.UUCP (William H. Jefferys) (09/10/85)

> I know several Philadelphia-area Quaker families who use
> "plain speech" when addressing family members.  The nominative
> of the second person singular, among them, is "thee," as in,
> "Ben, if thee doesn't stop that, I'm going to hit thee."
> 
> As you might guess from the example, I knew them best when
> we were kids together 30 years ago.   I wonder if they are
> teaching it to their own children?
> 
Reminds me of an old story.  Two Quaker children were having an
argument, and finally one in her anger came out with the ultimate
insult:  "Thee...Thee...Thee...*YOU*!!!"

-- 
Glend.	I can call spirits from the vasty deep.
Hot.	Why, so can I, or so can any man; But will they come when you
	do call them?    --  Henry IV Pt. I, III, i, 53

	Bill Jefferys  8-%
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betsy@dartvax.UUCP (Betsy Hanes Perry) (09/10/85)

> I know several Philadelphia-area Quaker families who use
> "plain speech" when addressing family members.  The nominative
> of the second person singular, among them, is "thee," as in,
> "Ben, if thee doesn't stop that, I'm going to hit thee."
> 
> As you might guess from the example, I knew them best when
> we were kids together 30 years ago.   I wonder if they are
> teaching it to their own children?
> 
> 	Dennis Ritchie

The usage is still current among Indiana Friends;  my best childhood
friend's family plain-spoke one another.  I have never felt quite so 
included as when her four-year-old brother thee'ed me.  
 
Incidentally, I have heard "thee's", usually in contexts like "Thee's
going to be quite surprised one of these days!"
 
Friends themselves are ambivalent about the "plain speech";  it was
adopted to be inclusive (Friends used "thou" to everybody, even the
King!), but has gradually shifted into exclusiveness (we talk funny,
but only among ourselves).  A story Friends often tell on themselves
is of the little girl who was giving a scolding to her doll:
"Thee's been so bad!  I don't know what to say to thee --  "
"thee --  thee YOU, thee!"
 
-- 
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gadfly@ihuxn.UUCP (Gadfly) (09/11/85)

--
> > I know several Philadelphia-area Quaker families who use
> > "plain speech" when addressing family members.  The nominative
> > of the second person singular, among them, is "thee," as in,
> > "Ben, if thee doesn't stop that, I'm going to hit thee."
> > 
> > 	Dennis Ritchie
 
> Incidentally, I have heard "thee's", usually in contexts like "Thee's
> going to be quite surprised one of these days!"
>  
> Elizabeth Hanes Perry                        

Fascinating--the pronoun has been retained in both these instances,
but the declension ("thou"=subject, "thee"=object) has been lost.
And in the face of a grammatically irreproachable model (the Bible).
If this sloppier usage is real, Mr. Ritchie, how does thou explain it?
If it's sloppy reporting, Ms. Perry, shame on thee.
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cjdb@sphinx.UChicago.UUCP (Charles Blair) (09/11/85)

> If this sloppier usage is real, Mr. Ritchie, how does thou explain it?

> ken perlow

This should rather be, ". . . how *dost* thou explain it?" 

bill@utastro.UUCP (William H. Jefferys) (09/13/85)

> --
> > > I know several Philadelphia-area Quaker families who use
> > > "plain speech" when addressing family members.  The nominative
> > > of the second person singular, among them, is "thee," as in,
> > > "Ben, if thee doesn't stop that, I'm going to hit thee."
> > > 
> > > 	Dennis Ritchie
>  
> > Incidentally, I have heard "thee's", usually in contexts like "Thee's
> > going to be quite surprised one of these days!"
> >  
> > Elizabeth Hanes Perry                        
> 
> Fascinating--the pronoun has been retained in both these instances,
> but the declension ("thou"=subject, "thee"=object) has been lost.
> And in the face of a grammatically irreproachable model (the Bible).
> If this sloppier usage is real, Mr. Ritchie, how does thou explain it?
> If it's sloppy reporting, Ms. Perry, shame on thee.

Oddly enough, it's "thee" that I have always heard in both cases.
I remember vaguely wondering about this once, but you don't get
to hear the Plain Speech very often here in Texas.  :-)

-- 
Glend.	I can call spirits from the vasty deep.
Hot.	Why, so can I, or so can any man; But will they come when you
	do call for them?    --  Henry IV Pt. I, III, i, 53

	Bill Jefferys  8-%
	Astronomy Dept, University of Texas, Austin TX 78712   (USnail)
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barryg@sdcrdcf.UUCP (Lee Gold) (09/13/85)

Here's what Baugh's HISTORY OF THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE has to say....

	"The 16th century saw the establishment of the personal pronoun in
the form which it has had ever since....Three changes were involved:  the
disuse of thou, thy, thee; the substitution of you for ye as a nominative
case, and the introduction of its as the possessive of it.

	"In the earliest period of English the distinction between thou and
ye was simply one of number; thou was the singular and ye the plural form for
the second person pronoun.  In time, however, a quite different distinction
grew up.  In the  13th century, the singular forms (thou, thy, thee) were
used among familiars and in addressing children or persons of inferior rank,
while the plural forms (ye, your, you) began to be used as a mark of respect
in addressing a superior....The usage spread as a general concession to
courtesy until ye, your and you became the usual pronoun of direct address
irrespective of rank or intimacy.  By the 16th century the singular forms
had all but disappeared from polite speech and are in ordinary use today
only among the Quakers.
	"Originally a clear distinction was made between the nominative ye
and the objective you.  But since both forms are so frequently unstressed,
they were often pronounced alike....In the 14th century you began to be used
as a nominative.  By a similar substitution ye appears in the following
century for the objective case, and from this time on the two forms seem
to have been used pretty indiscriminately until ye finally disappeared."

--Lee Gold

wmartin@brl-tgr.ARPA (Will Martin ) (09/13/85)

I've now gotten completely confused by the "Plain Speech", "thee/thou"
discussion.

Do the Friends use "thee" and "thou" to be formal and polite, or do they
use them to be "intimate" -- that is, are they using them because "all
men are brothers" and you address your close relations as "thee/thou"?

If they use "you", would they be being distant and indifferent?

Or do I have the meaning of these terms reversed? 

(I am aware of the German "du" and "Sie", being intimate and formal,
respectively. So does "thee/thou" fall into the "du" category, or the
"Sie" category?)

Will

lucy@prism.UUCP (09/17/85)

As a former Philadelphian, I can attest to the Quaker usage of "thee" where
the standard English declension of the personal pronoun would call for
"thou".  "Thee" is used in the nominative, not "thou".  My understanding is
that Friends use plain speech not only with family members, but also with
other Friends.  "You" is reserved for non-Friends (need I say more?) and is
a formal, distancing usage.  

The irony here is that the original Quaker usage of the second person singular
rather than plural was a political act, a defiance of the social code which
reserved "you" for conversation between the aristocracy.  As was (and to
a real extent still is) the case in most of the Western European languages,
the second person singular had a double edge.  It could indicate profound
intimacy, when used with family members and *very* good friends; but it also,
when addressed to social inferiors (or those perceived to be so), clearly
indicated the superiority of the speaker.
This usage is breaking down in western Europe, particularly among students.
But addressing strangers with the second person singular can still
be an insult.  I have seen cited as an example of racism in France 
the tendency of clerks to use "tu" when dealing with Arab customers.

That the social distinctions in pronouns meant a great deal in sixteenth
century England is indicated by the following tale (a counter-example to
that of the Quaker children).  During the treason trial of Walter
Raleigh, one of his accusers made a speech, addressing Raleigh in the
second person singular.  Lest there be any misunderstanding about his
motives (or his grammar), this fellow concluded with the fiery line,
"And I thou thee, thou traitor!"