hochsted@UCS.INDIANA.EDU (02/22/90)
This is a bit of a twist on rachel's posting: I have a problem having close male homosexual friends. My problem is that if another gay man actually becomes a true, dear friend who I can honestly say I love as a friend, then I begin to fall in love with him as "more than a friend". Why is it that I can't stop this? It's happened twice now, and I must admit I don't think I deal with it appropriately. (i.e.--i keep my mouth shut and don't say a word) --Doug