[bit.listserv.christia] JEK: on the term "Mother of God"

JEK@NIHCU (James Kiefer) (01/16/90)

Often disputes are caused less by disagreement on points of fact
than by the use of a term in two different senses without the
disputants' realizing it. Thus, we had a brisk exchange a while back
over the posting of a statement something like, "A majority of those
who abort are Christians," which was intended by the poster to mean,
"More than 50% of all women who seek abortions would check the first
blank on a questionaire that read Religion: [ ] Christian [ ] Jewish
[ ] Moslem [ ] Atheist [ ] Other," but was taken by many readers to
mean, "Over 90% of all physicians who perform abortions are devout,
church-going born-again types who divide their time between praying,
Bible-reading, and ripping little babies limb from limb." Once a few
terms (like "majority" and "who abort" and "Christians") were
defined, the uproar died down immediately.

More recently, we had a dispute about whether a given statement was
a "Christian statement," by which some parties meant a statement
that a Christian could make, and others a statement that ONLY a
Christian could make. Once again, things got a little calmer when it
became clear what the disputants meant.

Many Christians who are not accustomed to the term "Mother of God"
are uneasy when they hear it, since they reason somewhat as follows:

   "When we say that John and Susan are the parents of George, we
   mean that they are jointly the cause of George's existence and
   that his being is derived from theirs, that they existed at a
   time before he began to exist, and that they are in some sense
   his superiors. Now God has no superiors, and no beginning in
   time, and his being is not derived from or caused by anyone
   else. Therefore God cannot have a parent, and speak of the
   Mother of God is to turn Christianity into something like Greek
   polytheism, in which Aphrodite is the Mother of Eros, or
   Alcmena the mother of Heracles."

It is therefore necessary to state clearly what the phrase "Mother
of God" means.

Nestorius taught that Christ was not one person, but two: the man
Jesus and the Divine Son of God, both in the same body. He taught
that the man Jesus was holy and sinless, and that therefore the
Divine Son dwelt in his heart, but not in a way different in
principle from that in which God may be said to dwell in the heart
of any good man, only more so in Jesus, because he was an especially
good man.  (Okay, so his position was a little more subtle than
that. I am giving you the Reader's Digest version.) Nestorius's
opponents saw that this undermined the whole basis of Christian
faith, that it turned Jesus into a man completely guided by God, but
nothing more. They looked for a formula that would express the
Christian doctrine about Christ in such a way as to exclude the
position of Nestorius and his followers, and settled on two turns of
phrase. The first was, "Christ is one person." The second, perhaps
adopted because it was felt that a Nestorian might agree to use the
first, but interpret it in his own way, was, "The Virgin Mary is the
Mother of God." By this we understand that it is one and the same
Person who is both God and Man, that He Who was confined in the womb
of the Virgin Mary for nine months is the same as He Who fills
heaven and earth, that He Who derived His first nourishment from her
body is He Who is the Living Bread that gives life to the world,
that He Whom she held in her arms when His neck was not strong
enough for Him to lift His head and gaze around Him is He Whose hand
flipped the galaxies through space like so many frisbees. Between
God and man, between the Infinite and the finite, between the
Creator and the created, there is a vast abyss. It is bridged only
by Him Who is in Himself both God and man. And if He is not truly
one, if the voice that says "I" through His lips is sometimes God
and sometimes man, but not both, if He Who calls Mary His creature
is a different person from Him Who calls her His mother, then the
bridge is still unbuilt, the gulf between God and man remains, and
out faith is in vain.

And this is what Christians have meant by calling Mary the Mother of
God.

On the other hand, I can understand why the formula causes aversion
and bewilderment to those who do not know its background. They
think it means that the Divine Essence was somehow derived from the
Human Essence of Mary, that Deity evolved out of Humanity. And this
they are right to repudiate. Perhaps a new formulation of the
doctrine is called for, one that would be less open to
misunderstanding.  Mary the Surrogate Mother of God? Or would that
simply create new difficulties?

 Yours,
 James Kiefer