[misc.handicap] CANES VERSUS DOGSOffered Seat

Walter.Siren@p18.f5.n396.z1.fidonet.org (Walter Siren) (10/26/90)

Index Number: 11295

[This is from the Blink Talk Conference]

 WS>      Yeh, there is one thing worse.  When she offers her seat  
 WS>      to the blind man, and he insists that she stay there, and  
 WS>  that he is fine standing up, and she still insists, getting  
 WS>  everyone elses attention, and then in order to end the  
 WS>  problem, you have to take her seat to shut her up.  I have  
 WS>  seen this happen several times.  
 DA>  
 DA> Walter:  The scene you describe certainly does happen.  However, 
 DA> I am not sure
 DA> of your position.  Should the blind person take her seat to shut 
 DA> her up, keep on
 DA> insisting, or walk away.  

My position is one thing, and what finally has to be done is
another thing.  I think I would rather stand, but when I can't get
out of the situation anyother way, there is nothing left to do, but
sit down to quit drawing attention.  When a person gets up, and
refuses to sit down, and practically pushes you in the seat, there
is nothing left to do.  I don't think that is worth drawing all
kinds of attention to.  As far as walking away, where are you going
to walk to on a crowded bus.

               Walter 

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Donna.Siren@p19.f5.n396.z1.fidonet.org (Donna Siren) (10/26/90)

Index Number: 11305

[This is from the Blink Talk Conference]

 DA>   WS>  that he is fine standing up, and she still insists, getting  
 DA>   WS>  everyone elses attention, and then in order to end the  
 DA>   WS>  problem, you have to take her seat to shut her up.  I have  
 DA>   WS>  seen this happen several times.  
 DA>   
 DA>  Walter:  The scene you describe certainly does happen.  However, I am 
 DA>  not sure
 DA>  of your position.  Should the blind person take her seat to shut her 
 DA>  up, keep on
 DA>  insisting, or walk away.  

I know that I couldn't take a ninety year old man/woman's seat even
if it did cause a scene.  I think that the people watching would
think more of me for refusing the seat and insisting that he/she
stay there.

               Donna

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