Vixen@f11.n203.z1.fidonet.org (Vixen) (10/26/90)
Index Number: 11302 [This is from the Blink Talk Conference] Hi Henry, I sometimes think that many of us who are disABLED sometimes get so carried away with the notion that we are entitled to have the same reactions and feelings as all people, that it becomes very easy for some of us to really chops someones head off should they dare to offer us some type of help we may not really need or ask a question that we self rightiously determine is stupid and respond with verbal insult. The sad note here is, that I have seen this attitude displayed more than I have a more tolerant one. Whatever happened to plain old courtesy. Even abled bodied people offer un-needed assistance to each other now and then and they don't usually chop each other off for it. Even abled bodied people ask all kinds of questions without fear that they have to be insulted because an answer or explantion isn't clear to them. I agree that people should expect disABLED individuals to be superhuman in their efforts to maintain a good humour and positive outlooks, but neither do disABLED persons have the right to expect that all people should have a Herculean ability to know how and when to help disABLED persons or know all the answers and ways we are able to perform certain tasks. Do we, as blind people, know all the proper times to offer help to all other types of disabilities, do we know the ways they all deal with certain life problems and perform certian little personal tasks. I very much doubt it. I agree with those who say we are only human and have a right to the same feelings as all people, but it is pukey little excuse for jumping down someones throat who's only crime is to ask if they can help or who took a minute to ask a question, even if it does seem a silly one. I think the matter is, there is a world of difference between just being disABLED and in a bad mood and just being plain rude. I think you raised a very good point. Keepin' the faith! . Vixen -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!203!11!Vixen Internet: Vixen@f11.n203.z1.fidonet.org
Steve.Bauer@f6.n291.z1.fidonet.org (Steve Bauer) (10/31/90)
Index Number: 11378 [This is from the Blink Talk Conference] In the office building where I work, I sometimes hear people talking about where an office or department is located. It is obvious they are confused and don't knwo which way to go. I usually offer assistance and they are realy appreciative. I wish I could see the looks on their faces cause I bet they really think it's strange that a blind guy could do something for them. Believe it or not, I've even had some people (sighted of course) stop me and ask for directions. That's pretty cool. HUH! Steve/ -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!291!6!Steve.Bauer Internet: Steve.Bauer@f6.n291.z1.fidonet.org
Ann.Parsons@f207.n260.z1.fidonet.org (Ann Parsons) (11/02/90)
Index Number: 11469 [This is from the Blink Talk Conference] Hi Steve, Couldn't help replying to this one. I have a firiend who's dislexic. This means that she can not tell where she's going when driving unless she's been there many times. So, I am the one, who gives her directions. That right, me, the blind woman who can't drive. <grin> See you on-line. Ann P. -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!260!207!Ann.Parsons Internet: Ann.Parsons@f207.n260.z1.fidonet.org
Tandy.Way@f6.n377.z1.fidonet.org (Tandy Way) (11/02/90)
Index Number: 11475 [This is from the Blink Talk Conference] SB> In the office building where I work, I sometimes hear people SB> talking about where an office or department is located. It is SB> obvious they are confused and don't knwo which way to go. I SB> usually offer assistance and they are realy appreciative. I SB> wish I could see the looks on their faces cause I bet they SB> really think it's strange that a blind guy could do something SB> for them. yes I know what you mean. I work in an eight story building and use the elevator and it really fractures people when I stroll in the elevator and without looking at the button pannel and with true shot gun action press the button I want. That slays them then when I get off the floor without someone saying "you are at the 4th floor" that really kills them. I hear them talk as the door closes "how does he do that?" love it love it love it. ... I wish humans would leave me alone! Arc, Arc -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!377!6!Tandy.Way Internet: Tandy.Way@f6.n377.z1.fidonet.org