Nadine.Thomas@p1.f7.n300.z1.fidonet.org (Nadine Thomas) (11/17/90)
Index Number: 11758 Hi everyone! I'm home! Surgery went well and I am back in my wonderful home. The doc said that it was better then he expected and I know it was better then *I* dared to expect. Now, on to the healing. I have one last surgery on the 30th of this month and I do mean LAST. That one is the one on my wrist, tendons, and fingers. But till then my job is to HEAL! The best decision I made was the one I made about two months ago. At that time the doc told me he wanted to do this surgery in two weeks (from that day). I told him I was not mentally in good place and that I wanted to put it off for about 2 months - doc told me it was okay, and whenever I was ready as long as I didn't put it off too long (he was afraid of an abcess or two coming back before the surgery). In that time I was able to take a trip to Georgia and visit Betty Draughon. When I got back my primary doc told me that my attitude had taken an 180 degree turn. With my willingness and footwork and Betty's help I was able to get myself in a sound mental, spiritual, and physical position for this surgery. The surgery doc was so great that I had complete trust in him. He promised me that I would not be in a lot of pain and that no one would mess with the pain meds (like decrease them before it was time). He kept that promise when a nurse decided to play doctor and try to make me take the oral pain meds less then 24 hours after surgery. Doc went to her and told her to knock it off. She, in turn, told the resident who came to see me and wanted to do the same thing that the Doc said NO and he too laid off. I have never had a doctor who had so much respect for me and cared about how *I* felt. He not only made promises, he kept them. When I thanked him for his patience with me he told me it was an honor. Can you believe that?????? Well, I need to skim my mail and answer a few posts to me. I want to also take this time to thank those of you who called me and sent posts of well wishes. I have never felt so special, cared about, and loved as I have this past few days. You will never know what it has meant to me and what it has done for me. I wish there were words that could adequately express the depths to which you have touched me. Thank you. Hugs to you all. Nadine -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!300!7.1!Nadine.Thomas Internet: Nadine.Thomas@p1.f7.n300.z1.fidonet.org