jlh@loral.UUCP (06/12/84)
Well, when I have lots of fireworks to shoot off I tend to light up a cigarrette because the punk sticks designed for that job don't work well at all. Other than that, I too see no reason to smoke. Of course, I assume you are talking about tobacco. Jim The opinions expressed herein are the sole responsibility of the author and probably have nothing to do with reality.
plunkett@rlgvax.UUCP (Scott Plunkett) (06/12/84)
"..dad saying no isn't going to cut it.." ... it depends on *how* you say no. I know a chap, of Polish extraction, who once told me how his father convinced him never to smoke. Understand that his father had the strength of several bulldozers, was the size of a house, and had hands the size of shovels. Father once said to son slowly with unflinching eye contact: "Son, if I ever catch you smoking," he said, "I will break both your legs." To reassure his son that this was not infact an act of mercy, he continued, "..and if that doesn't make you stop, I'll kill you." Son never smoked, never particularly wanted to, after that heart- to-heart. -- ..{allegra,seismo}!rlgvax!plunkett
labelle@hplabsc.UUCP (06/12/84)
I used to smoke 2 packs a day, I have quit for 3yrs now. I originally started because "everyone else did". Later I continued (until about 31 yrs old) because 1) I was hooked and 2) I enjoyed it (probably due to 1)!! Honestly, if you're a smoker, there's nothing like sitting back after doing something and having a smoke. If it didn't bother others so much and didn't carry such a health risk, I WOULD STILL SMOKE! I respect the rights of others to smoke (or anything else they may wish to do for that matter) so long as it dosen't infringe on someone elses right. I have two teenage kids. One smoke lightly probably for the same reason I started. She is 17 and old enough to know what she is doing to her own body. There is a point beyond which you no longer have control over your children and they reach that individual status. All you can do is advise! She is not allowed to smoke in or around the house because we as her parents feel an obligation to her as a child (until 18 or moved out of the house) to protect her health. At this point example and education are the only tools we have to work with!! My advise to you is 1) If at all possible, educate your children as to the health risks, bother to others, and expense of smoking such that THEY DON'T START IN THE FIRST PLACE!! 2) Do not condone smoking even if you know that they are smoking anyway. I started smoking at about 14 and heavily smoking at 16 WHEN MY MOTHER DISCOVERED I WAS SMOKING AND GAVE UP TRYING TO DISCOURAGE ME!! I must reiterate however smoking was pleasurable and I respect other adults right to indulge. P.S. I like cheap wine GEORGE
heahd@tellab1.UUCP (Dan Wood) (06/12/84)
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john@plx.UUCP (john butler) (06/12/84)
<Here's a rolled-up line for the line-smoking bug!> This is in response to Jerry Nowlin's request for information on why people smoke. I feel particularly qualified and interested in responding to the subject for the following reasons: 1. I smoked a pipe for 3 years. 2. I smoked cigarettes after that for 5 more years. 3. My wife smoked cigarettes for 10 years. 4. I had a 1-1/2 pack-a-day habit. 5. My wife had a 3-pack-a-day habit. 6. We quit smoking together last summer (July 1983). I am going to present two sets of reasons for smoking: 1. Why do people start? 2. Why, in the face of such overwhelming evidence, do they continue? (In other words, why don't they just quit?) Before I begin, I want to clear up a misconception in the original article. Nowlin states that he won't give credence to the excuse that "I'll gain weight if I quit." He calls this substituting one lack of willpower for another. There is now physiological evidence for weight gain in people who quit smoking. A certain enzyme has been isolated, the amount of which can predict how much the quitter will gain. The national average weight gain for people who quit smoking is 15 pounds. The higher the level of this enzyme *before* the subject quits smoking, (I don't remember the name of it--it just came out in a medical journal a month ago) the more weight the person will gain. The lower the level, the less the gain. Let's stop beating people over their body chemistry. Now to the subject: Why do people start smoking? One barrier to this answer is that until medical professionals acknowledged the seriousness and strength of tobacco, nobody gave a rat's ass and therefore never researched it. Research is just now beginning to surface. 1. It's a drug. Nobody seems willing to admit this, but when you first start smoking, it makes you high after a fashion. It gives you a "hit". When you first start smoking, and suck burning nicotene into your lungs, it jolts your system to constrict the blood vessels, raise the blood pressure, and speed up the heartbeat. When I first started smoking, I couldn't believe it was legal to smoke and drive. I damn near blacked out a couple times when I took a hit from a non-filter Camel. Later on, the effects are nowhere near as pronounced, but by then you're hooked. 2. A recent study has shown that nicotene desensitizes a person (or a rat) to random sensory input. I can vouch for this. As a writer, I found it much easier to concentrate in a noisy, open office when I smoked than I do now. This may indicate a cause-effect relationship between the higher incidence of smoking found in urban dwellers and workers. It may also explain the higher rate in non-professionals, since they tend to live in more cramped living conditions and with larger families than the professional, suburban types. 3. Nicotene stimulates the colon somewhat like coffee does. I had a small constipation problem until I started smoking a pipe. After a bowlful at night, however, I was always then ready to "lighten my load" and then go to bed. 4. Cigarettes serve as a mood enhancer. Studies have shown that even though nicotene physiologically speeds up the metabolism, it can have the opposite effect under certain circumstances. As I noted in item 3, above, it helped me calm down and go to sleep. 5. Although this is diminishing rapidly, smoking has several social aspects: Lighting someone else's cigarette, offering a light or match, offering a cigarette, sharing a pack, etc. all denote familiarity, courtesy, generosity, or intimacy, depending on the context. Smoking makes extra opportunities to be generous or grateful. No such phenomenon occurs among non-smokers (Hey, can I offer you a pair of Adidas shoelaces?). 6. Cigarettes are a boon to self-conscious people. It gives them an outlet for venting random anxieties, allowing them to speak more directly and forcefully in situations wherein they might otherwise be intimidated. I speak from experience. You may call this a "crutch", but it enables self-conscious people to function in circumstances they would otherwise avoid altogether. 7. One of the strongest reasons to start smoking is pre-addiction. My wife's mother smoked 2 packs of unfiltered Pall Malls while pregnant with Renee, who is now my wife. Thereafter, for the next 20 years, Renee shared 988 square feet with her mother and step-father who each smoked at least two packs of cigarettes per day. When Renee took up smoking at about age 17, she was simply following a craving she'd had all her life. It's like craving eggs if you have a protein/cholesterol deficiency. When my wife took up smoking, it also desensitized her to the asthma, allergies, and other respiratory irritations she'd suffered all her life (from secondary smoke). Now, here are the barriers we encountered when we quit smoking. 1. Couldn't wake up all day. We had come to depend on nicotene to wake us up in the morning and regulate our metabolism throughout the day. We doubled our coffee intake, and still felt sleepy all day. In fact, after a month of total body shock we felt like we had defective voltage regulators: we'd alternate periods of hyperactivity with lethargy. There was no normal pace for the first 3-4 months. 2. Weight gain. We each gained 15-20 pounds within the first 2-3 weeks after quitting! That is nearly impossible through simple overeating. So two weeks after we quit, NONE of our clothes fit. We both had to buy new tops, bottoms, and underwear. The only thing we could keep was our shoes. This cost at least $500 just to get some lightweight, low-budget stuff, as we didn't want to buy nice clothes for our F-A-T selves. So if quitting smoking is going to save money, don't count on it for at least a year. Our top weights, Me: 5'9", 200 lbs (normally 165-170). Renee: 5'2", 147 lbs (normally 115-120). If you don't think this would alter one's self-esteem and send most people back to their cigarettes, guess again. 3. Anxiety-induced ailments. We had major intestinal gas problems. Sometimes I nearly knocked myself off my own chair. Renee had it so bad she got a spastic colon and went to the doctor. He prescribed Tranxene, which cleared it up. Stress produces illness. Quitting smoking creates much stress on the body. (Nicotene is the most addictive substance known to man, both in terms of the quantity required to addict, and the persistence of the addiction after quitting.) We both got sick and had to stay home more last summer than we had had to in the previous five years. The stamina just wasn't there--for AT LEAST SIX MONTHS!!! 4. The irritability factor is phenomenal. I almost punched out a co-worker because he knocked over some of my papers. Nearly every weekend my wife and I fought over something really stupid, to the point where we began to doubt the soundness of our marriage (that is, until we got the Tranxene). 5. We were unable to make rational decisions for at least six months. We hired a landscaper to put ground cover on our yard. He hosed us for $3000 which came up weeds. It would not have happened under any other circumstances in my life. 6. For all the above reasons, it jeopardized my job. Who wants an employee who doesn't wake up all day, who is distracted very easily, who doesn't have the stamina to work a full day, whose attendance record is suspect, who is surly and irritable? One final note: to add insult to injury, the medical insurance company disallowed our claims (a total of eight-five piddling dollars) for the doctor's visit for the spastic colon, the diagnosis (nicotene withdrawal), and the treatment (Tranxene, a mild tranquilizer) even though they cover illness (spastic colon?), drug treatment (but nicotene's not a drug??), and anxiety and nervous disorders (but since it was just cigarettes, it couldn't have been too bad???). Would the insurance company have paid for a coronary bypass or lung removal? You Betcha! So quitting smoking is possible, but not easy. I lost a year of my life to quit smoking. I wasted $4000 from buying clothes to fit, making irrational decisions, and experiencing medical problems. There is no immediate reward in spite of the BULLSHIT the American Cancer Society spews out. I lost wind and stamina for six months. I lost my sense of health and well-being. I continued to refrain from smoking because I knew I'd be better off in the long run. And now, nearly 12 months after I quit, I am finally beginning to feel the benefits.
fish@ihu1g.UUCP (Bob Fishell) (06/13/84)
(oo) <- a healthy set of lungs.... Nice horror story, John, but you've made the mistake of projecting your own experiences on others. Just because you had a horrible time kicking, there's no reason to assume everybody does. I'll try to relate my own experiences: I started smoking at age 17 for the usual stupid reasons. At the time, it seemed like something I was supposed to do, just part of becoming a man. Why not? Both my parents smoked, as did many of my friends. I really got hooked when I went away to college and discovered that smoking is a way to relieve tension. It gives you something to do when you don't know what to do next, a real boon to the activity addict. Needless to say, there're a lot of times when I don't know what to do next, so I smoked a lot, as much as three packs a day, with a mode of 1.5 packs. It probably averaged out to 2 packs per day, and this went on for 13 years. My decision to quit came about as part of the traumatic process of turning 30. I realized that I was not really going to live forever and that my health was nothing to screw around with. Now, I couldn't climb two flights of steps without getting dizzy, and couldn't swim a length of the pool underwater. What really did it for me, though, was realizing just how offensive my habit was to others. My breath and clothes stunk, I had a yellow sheen all over everything I lived with, and I polluted the air around me for several yards every time I lit up. I used to think that it wouldn't bother anybody as long as I didn't exhale in their direction. What put the cap on it was my non-smoking office mate's remark that his wife could smell my cigarette smoke on his clothes when he got home from work. He was never nasty about my smoking, either, just civil as could be. I quit cold turkey in late February, 1980. The experience was very uncomfortable, but not unbearable, and the worst of it was over after three days. For a period of about three weeks, my sleep and bowel habits were disrupted, but that, too, was not unbearable, and it passed altogether after a few months. I did gain about 15 pounds, but I lost all of it and more thanks to watching what I ate and riding a 10-speed bicycle. I have not had a cigarette in over four years now, and I feel better for it by several orders of magnitude. Nowadays, cigarette smoke offends me just as much as the most vehement, never-smoked, anti-smoker, thanks to the quick return of my sense of smell after stubbing out that last butt. In short, it's the biggest favor I ever did myself. So, for any of you out there who are contemplating quitting, DO IT! It's well worth whatever temporary discomfort you might experience, and not as bad as some people would have you believe. -- Bob Fishell ihnp4!ihu1g!fish
dgary@ecsvax.UUCP (06/13/84)
<> >From: plunkett@rlgvax.UUCP (Scott Plunkett) Tue Jun 12 09:38:23 1984 >... "Son, if I ever catch >you smoking," he said, "I will break both your legs." To >reassure his son that this was not infact an act of mercy, he >continued, "..and if that doesn't make you stop, I'll kill you." >Son never smoked, never particularly wanted to, after that heart- >to-heart. Who says health warnings aren't effective in discouraging smoking! By golly, those packs ought to say WARNING: The Surgeon General has determined that he will kill your ass if you smoke. Thank you. Call this Damned Assured Distruction (DAD). :-) (if you need help) D Gary Grady Duke University Computation Center, Durham, NC 27706 (919) 684-4146 USENET: {decvax,ihnp4,akgua,etc.}!mcnc!ecsvax!dgary
falk@uiucuxc.UUCP (06/14/84)
#R:tellab1:-25000:uiucuxc:2700005:000:2098 uiucuxc!falk Jun 14 12:33:00 1984 {*} Smoking is definitely an interesting phenomenon, and "by rights" I should be a smoker, but luckily I am not. Both of my parents smoked, my father heavily. In fact, my father died this last February of cancer (however, I make no judgement as to the cause). When I was about 11 or 12 a group of my friends and I (whose parents also smoked) collected butts or swiped a few whole cigarettes from our parents and tried smoking in a nearby cemetary behind some large headstones (interesting that we chose that spot!). We got to the point of occasionally gathering up enough money to buy a pack on our own from the local mom-and-pop grocery who would sell it to us because we often came in to buy it for our parents. Somehow, though, I did not "get hooked" (maybe I don't have an "addictive personality") and eventually got in the business of trying to stop my parents from smoking (flushing their cigarettes down the toilet, making nasty comments, coughing loudly whenever they lit up, etc.-- my father was not a violent man, but I do believe I risked my life on a few occasions). Needless to say, that did not work. I did not try smoking again until college where alot of my friends did it to help stay awake for "all nighters" or to relax, etc. I really tried to start smoking for those "benefits", but it never did anything for me, so I stopped again. As an interesting, but sad (to me) side-note, after my father found out he had cancer, he stopped cold- turkey. He never said anything about it, he just never picked up another cigarette in the last 6 months of his life and did not have the normal with- drawal problems (although, he was obviously going through other problems). Nobody told him to stop (including his doctors, he probably wouldn't have listened to them). Now, I am firmly convinced of the hazards, undesirability as well as expense of smoking, but I am not a crusader against it-- people have to make up their own mind about what is good for them. -Connie {uiucdcs!uiucuxc!falk}
hosking@convex.UUCP (06/15/84)
#R:tellab1:-25000:convex:55700002:000:429 convex!hosking Jun 14 22:14:00 1984 For those who want to quit, but can't quite seem to do it: Some museums have displays of badly diseased lungs which were removed from smokers. Actually seeing one of these can do far more to convince you to quit than any amount of preaching could do. It's one thing to HEAR about what smoking can do to you; it's another thing to SEE it. Doug Hosking Convex Computer Corp. ..{allegra, ihnp4} !convex!hosking
emjej@uokvax.UUCP (06/18/84)
#R:tellab1:-25000:uokvax:18700005:000:572 uokvax!emjej Jun 18 10:21:00 1984 /***** uokvax:net.followup / plx!john / 8:31 am Jun 13, 1984 */ 1. It's a drug. Nobody seems willing to admit this, but when you first start smoking, it makes you high after a fashion. /* ---------- */ Just wanted to insert a little historical evidence to corroborate: lyrics from a madrigal of about 160[0-9], "Come, Sirrah Jack, Ho"... Come, sirrah Jack, ho! Bring some tobacco; Bring a wire and some fire... Fill the pipe once more! My brains dance trenchmore; It is heady, I am giddy... Maybe this should have gone into net.music :->? James Jones
rasp@bmcg.UUCP (06/19/84)
I'm curious about something: Are ex-smokers more sensitive to second hand smoke than non-smokers? In my own case I smoked from ages 13 through 32. In the ten years since I quit, I've taken up running. I can't stand second-hand cigarette smoke! Physically, I find it very uncomfortable and psychologically, I feel that it is threatening to my own health. I think that I avoid being a jerk about my anxieties; but, I don't hesitate to ask people not to smoke in my office. The question is, do any other retired smokers think that THEY might be even more sensitive than those who have never smoked? Has there ever been any clinical examination of this phenomenon? I am curious, but no longer yellow (fingered) Ron Perloff
archiel@hercules.UUCP (06/20/84)
Where did the idea that smoking "in moderation" is not harmful come from? It sounds like something in a full-page ad from the Tobacco Institute, and we all know what their stake in this is! Medical studies have shown that light drinkers (one drink, beer, or glass of wine a day, on the average) are healthier than tea-totalers. This has been attributed to the tension- relieving properties of alcohol, which is a depressant. I know of no studies concluding that smoking in any amount is anything but harmful to one's health! Smoke if you must, but don't try to claim that it is a harmless habit when done in moderation. Think of how many more heavy smokers could get started "to be cool with the guys" if they are told, "hey, a few a day won't hurt you a bit." -- Archie Lachner Logic Design Systems Division Tektronix, Inc. uucp: {ucbvax,decvax,pur-ee,cbosg,ihnss}!tektronix!teklds!archiel CSnet: archiel@tek ARPAnet: archiel.tek@csnet-relay
gsp@ulysses.UUCP (Gary Perlman) (06/21/84)
Perhaps this belongs in net.flame or net.smoke. {:-) People who smoke politely consider themselves harmless. This is false. 1. We are paying for their medical bills. 2. We are paying for their higher sick rate at work. Similarly, we all pay for people who do not wear seat belts. A while back I thought of starting a movement for `responsibility' but too often, I often find myself driving without my seat belt on. And how could I give up excesses of ice cream? Face it, playing `more holy than thou' makes everyone look bad. Gary Perlman BTL MH 5D-105 (201) 582-3624 ulysses!gsp
bobgian@psuvax1.UUCP (06/21/84)
> I'm curious about something: > > Are ex-smokers more sensitive to second hand smoke than > non-smokers? In my experience too, the answer is a strong YES. When I was a kid both my parents smoked, and I don't remember it bothering me too much. I smoked for about a year in college, and now (even though he smokes much less) I can barely stand to visit my father because of his smoking. Maybe it's because ex-smokers thought SERIOUSLY about what smoking was doing to them, and what second-hand smoke STILL does. Bob Giansiracusa Penn State Univ -- soon to be at St. Joseph's Univ
goran@erix.UUCP (G|ran B}ge) (06/26/84)
> I'm curious about something: > > Are ex-smokers more sensitive to second hand smoke than > non-smokers? > > In my own case I smoked from ages 13 through 32. In the ten > years since I quit, I've taken up running. I can't stand > second-hand cigarette smoke! I have roughly the same background, although I took up smoking later. I now feel the same way about cigarette and cigar smoke, I DEFINITELY can't stand it, especially not cigar smoke (aimed at Mike and Bjarne :-}). As I remember it I didn't mind it that much before I started smoking, but it was a long time ago and memories fade away. Our kids complained a lot about us smoking, which was partly why we stopped. Running is, by the way, a very good way of keeping you from taking up smoking again, running and smoking just don't go together (of those two vices, running is definitely healthier). Goeran Baage @ L M Ericsson Stockholm Sweden goran@erix.UUCP or ...{philabs,decvax}!mcvax!enea!erix!goran PS Pipe smoke can sometimes be rather pleasant, I think.
nowlin@ihu1e.UUCP (Jerry Nowlin) (07/02/84)
. The following are the text portions of the messages I got in response to my posting "Why Smoke?". All the replys that actually dealt with the smoking question are included. Even the ones that didn't take it seriously. The only messages I omitted were the ones telling me that net.general was or wasn't a good place for it. I got lots of requests to have this list posted and only one person ask me not to. It was also requested that it go to net.followup since some don't get net.misc. Read and think. Some of these are very good. 45 messages ============================================================================== Simple - nicotine is physically and psychologically addicting. People smoke for the same reason that some people shoot heroin or OD on barbiturates. The only difference is that one is legal and the other is not. If you come up with any ideas, particularly ones to use against people who currently smoke, let me know. I have some friends who still insist on smoking despite their having lost a close friend to lung cancer a few months ago. ============================================================================== cigarettes are medicine. if i don't smoke for a few hours, i get jumpy, irritable and abusive. a few puffs off a coffin nail and i'm back to my old self (jumpy, irritable and abusive, but less so). instant cure for nicotine starvation. ============================================================================== The main reason for smoking is addiction. The main reason for starting smoking, as a teenager, is peer pressure. This is at an age when there is a natural rebellion against authority in general and parents in particular. Their friends smoke and it's a way to be accepted. The solution is education. While they are young, make sure (over and over) you explain to them why smoking is terrible. If you can visit a cancer ward or someone with a stoma in their throat it may help make an impression. Do it again as they near the age. ============================================================================== Why start smoking? Peer pressure and adolescent ignorance of the real issue: To wit, that nicotine is PHYSICALLY ADDICTIVE. Some users have reported that they found it easier to quit heroin than cigarettes. This is undoubtedly the main reason that many, if not most, adults continue to smoke in the face of much pressure to quit. For an excellent discussion of the issues, read Licit and Illicit Drugs, published by Consumers Union. ============================================================================== I am a very adament non-smoker. I wish to point out perhaps the main reason that people smoke, although you are probably aware of it. Niccotine is a very effective drug, and as with most drugs an equally effective poison. Some recent studies have shown (and I'm sorry but I don't have the sources with me at my terminal), that quiting cigarretes can be as difficult for some individuals as quiting 'hard' drugs like heroine. Because of this, once someone has started on the path to addiction, it is obviously difficult to stop; excuses for the non-harmfulness of tobacco eoriginate by people who need a psychological cushion for their own weaknesses. A prime example of the effectivenes of this drug is the spreading use of chewing tobacco. ( I know a little something about this as chewing tobacco was allowed where at went to highschool). Chewing tobacco is a very nasty and yucky thing to do. I really don't think that the people who do it will disagree. they do it because it provides a significantly greater nicotine intake than smoking. It is an 'effective' drug. The reason for using tobacco products are similar to those of alcohol in our society. This is probably not what you] needed to hear, you probably know all this. I hope I haven't wasted your time. Good luck on your information collection. ============================================================================== The only reasons I've ever heard *for* smoking are: 1) I like it. 2) It's too hard to give it up. The latter carries some weight since giving up an addiction is rather traumatic, especially if you go ``cold turkey''. My grandmother (aged 82) finally gave up smoking last year when her doctor gave her an ultimatum. She has quite a case of bronchitis. My father, on the other hand, gave up smoking in the 'sixties, and has never looked back. ============================================================================== I don't smoke any longer, but I did for about 27 years. I was smoking 3 packs of cigarettes a day just before I quit. The reason I smoke and the reason other people smoke is because smoking is psychologically and physically addictive. The body becomes used to a certain level of nicotine and becomes very uncomfortable without it. The act of smoking, of carrying cigarettes and paraphenalia around, of lighting a cigarette, of having a cigarette at a certain time - when on the telephone, after meals, etc. becomes behavior that is hard to break and is tied into your perception of yourself. It is very difficult for most people to quit smoking because of these reasons. The important question is why do people start to smoke. When I was a child I was told that smoking would stunt my growth. That's the worse thing I knew about smoking. OK, so I didn't start until I was all grown up. People I admired smoked, it was an important part of their lives. Humphrey Bogart smoked, Couples in romantic movies smoked, oh so romantically. I started smoking in college, it was a rite of passage. I don't know why people today start to smoke knowing what we know now about the effects of smoking. I suspect it still is because it makes them feel grown up. I think probably the message "smoking is dumb" "smoking stinks" would be just as effective as "smoking causes cancer." ============================================================================== I still remember my dad saying to me. "I can't stop your from smoking but because you can always smoke behind my back. But I think your smart enough to realize smoking is stupid." It made me feel that it was my choice and I wanted to do the right thing. I was about 12-13 at the time and I chose not to smoke. In high school most kids that smoked had parents that smoked. So the fact that you don't smoke is a step in your kids favor. ============================================================================== This reply will probably miss your point. Certainly there are no logical or sensible reasons to smoke. I think you won't find a smoker who can give you one. Nicotine, and maybe other drugs in tobacco, gives a transient relaxing pleasant high. It is also very addictive. Of course there are psychological factors too. Smoking involves sucking, like the breast or bottle. And the image is associated with adulthood and independence. Those who defend smoking usually say something like "You're not going to live forever", and there is something to that argument. I smoked at most four cigarettes/day many years ago when I also played with other drugs. Now I am somewhat of an anti-drug fanatic. I have been known to insult people who smoke in public places. Yet my brother and my best friend are heavy smokers. Random thoughts. ============================================================================== I have been smoking since I was 12 years old; I am now 37, so that gives me 25 years of experience from which to answer your questions. There are really two of them: why I started, and why I continue. At age 12, my younger brother and I started doing it out of a sense of adventure. Both our parents smoked (My dad Roi-Tan cigars, mom Salems), but they always told us how terrrible it was to smoke. We never understood their logic: if its so terrible, why do *you* do it, and all that. Well we didin't smoke regularly, but we did enjoy the camaraderie and derring-do we were exhibiting by violating a stated parental rule. When we were caught, we were punished by being made to smoke one of dad's cigars, and I must say it was not at all pleasant. We stopped then, and there was no problem doing so because neither of us were hooked. At age 17, I began again because all my friends were smoking. It was a simple matter of wanting to belong to a group I considered sophisticated and grown up. Besides, we were living in Germany where it is permitted for youths to purchase liquor and tobacco products, so it was easy to get, unlike in the States where you would probably get stopped even trying to operatea vending machine. The problem the second time was that it first developed into a habit, then an addiction, then I found it was hard to NOT smoke. I started by having one on the bus in the morning, and one on the way home at night. Gradually it worked up to three a day (one at morning break), then four a day (afternoon break), five a day (lunch) then I just started carrying a pack and having one whenever I wanted it. By the end of my first year, I was up to half a pack a day. After two years, I was up to a pack a day, a level I maintained until about 3 years ago, when I noticed some days I would run out near the end of the day, and go buy my second pack. Today I smoke about 1 and a half to two packs daily. I am addicted. I have tried quitting numerous times by many different methods. One method is in a little self-help book shaped like a pack of cigarrettes, and it holds promise for me because one of its requirements is to do what you have done: question the reasons for smoking. Each smoke is ranked 1,2,3, or 4 and plotted on a chart showing the time and reason. After doing that I found I smoke for these reasons: 1) Because I crave it, like sometimes I crave a Snickers bar. These are rar, and are usually the first smokes of the day. Later, I smoke fro the reasons on the rest of this list. 2) For company as I work. I sit at a terminal all day, and my cigarettes are as much a part of my work as the coffee (to which I am also addicted). 3) To alleviate tension. During heated meetings or in times of stress, my smoke seems to help take the edge off. 4) To cover bad odors. I *never* go to the men's room without a cigarette. I am extremely susceptible to bad odors, particularly others' bowel movements, dirty sox, and so on. (In fact, I have a hard time being in a gymnasium for this reason.) The real reason of course, is that I am addicted to nicotine, and perhaps other chemicals in the smoke. I smoke menthol cigarettes, and think I am addicted to menthol, too, because if I buy a pack of unmentholated smokes, then I usually get a pack of Halls Mentho-Lyptus to satisfy that craving. And all tied up with that are th physical habits of reaching for the smoke, lighting it, drinking some coffee, all that. I realize that you were sincere in your request for this, so I have been sincere in answering it. I truly want to be drug-free, but so far all my efforts have been unsuccessful. I will not try hypnotism, acupuncture, or therapy. It is not a question of will-power, as you have insinuated. I have a great deal of that, and am not a weak person in most regards. When I have tried to quit, I have had the most success in totally changing my surroundings: going camping to a remote area, for example. What happens is that as long as I keep my mind off cigarettes, I do OK, but as soon as the thought is there, it is imbedded in my consciousness, and I can't get rid of it. I become nervous, fretful, can't concentrate, pace around, and my body feels incomplete and itchy until I get a smoke. I realize if I could get beyond that, I would be over the worst of it, but there you have. As you said, this whole topic doesn't lend itself to logic always, and when your body is craving something, no matter how strong your will-power, you don't think logically: "I'll have one, then pace myself the rest of the trip", knowing full well that as soon as you buy the pack, you're off and running again. I hope this has answered your questions, and given you some arguments for when your kids ask "Why not?". Let them read this. If I had read this at 17, I would be a happier (and richer) man today. I figure I've spent about $10,000.00 on smoking in my life. ============================================================================== I believe that there are two major reasons why people smoke: (1) peer pressure (2) addiction I'm a nonsmoker, and share your views. ============================================================================== I don't smoke and never did (tho' I've tried it). The "reason" I always heard was, "It relaxes me" or "It's cheaper than a nervous breakdown." These were totally serious reasons. Let me also suggest that tobacco users try "smokeless tobacco". It's more obviously disgusting. (First time users often get a nicotine "high", which at its best is pretty good. It's like drinking a little, without the risk of getting too drunk. I used to do this in math class in high school. It often causes nausia the first few times.) ============================================================================== Well, since I was a two-pack-a-day smoker for seven years, I can tell you that nicotine is one of the most potent drugs around. It is an extremely unusual drug, in that it is simultaneously a tranquilizer and a stimulant. I'm not aware of any other drug that has this combination of properties. Furthermore use of nicotine isn't incapacitating, the way that use of, for example, alcohol is. Of course use of nicotine in the form of tobacco causes emphysema, lung cancer, heart disease etc. I quit smoking about fifteen years ago, and the improvement in my health was well worth the effort. It was HARD! for me to quit, although I know some smokers who were able to quit with less effort. I suggest you get your kids "addicted" to sports that require healthy lungs, like running, swimming, bicycling etc. It's almost impossible to do this type of thing and smoke cigarettes. ============================================================================== The answer is simple: nicotine, especially in the form in which it exists in cigarettes, is psychologically (and, to a lesser extent, physically) addictive, and is taken in in a way that gives a jolt (like the "rush" just after the injection of heroin, on a smaller scale). That's why people \\continue// smoking ("will power" is seriously overrated, since there's never a measurement of what the will is contesting---like any physiological reaction, nicotine addiction varies widely among individuals). Why they start is that they're taken in by image (and to some extent by peer pressure, which is something parents are well advised to handle with the lightest of touches). There's also the outright lie, of course; HARVARD Magazine published detailed explanation of much of the above a year or so ago, and got a nasty letter from a graduate who now runs R. J. Reynolds, saying -"Evolution/////////smoking carcinogenesis is just a theory"-. ============================================================================== I think that many smokers continue to smoke because they are physically addicted to nicotine, not due to lack of willpower. which doesn't answer your question of why anyone would start smoking. ============================================================================== Being an ex smoker who stopped several years ago for health reasons, and because of the pressure brought on me by my wife, colleagues,..etc I may suggest the following reasons why people smoke: 1- To start with, people start smoking usually because they associate the act of smoking with some psychological value conveyed to them by their peers, role models or society in general (ads!). These values range from virility, macho for males to liberation and sexism for females. 2- Once they are hooked, it is too difficult for them to quit, even when they realize the health hazards of smoking. 3- Strangely enough, they do not consider quitting as a challenge to their free will. ============================================================================== Isn't it obvious? Because it is fun, natch. Just like being self-righteous is fun for you, smoking is fun for others. ============================================================================== Hi! I just read your piece on "Why Smoke?" I've been wondering the same thing. I've been trying to figure out a way to ask the same question, but I was afraid I'd receive more flames than answers. I won't bore you with my feeling on smoking. Suffice it to say that NONE of my friends smoke; and I tend to avoid most of the relatives who do. When I ask my brother or my mother why they smoke I get useless answers. I'm sure you've heard them all. In all sincerity I, too, would be interested in the responses you receive. In fact, I wouldn't be too suprised if other readers of net.misc would be interested in your responses, too. If you don't plan to post the relies you receive, and if it isn't asking too much, would you please let me know what kinds of answer you get? ============================================================================== It's an interesting question you ask, one that smokers are forced to answer almost every day of their lives, to themselves as well as others. I can't speak for everyone, but I can say that I honestly enjoy the taste of tobacco. A cigarette after a good meal, or while making conversation over drinks is a very satisfying thing. Very relaxing. As for the health risks, that is also a personal thing. Eubie Blake, one of America's premier jazz pianists, smoked from his early teens, and lived to be 100. So who's to say....? As I say, I can't speak for anyone else. ============================================================================== I used to get back at people who smoked (at a party, say) by bumming a cigarette from them and blowing smoke back at them. I discovered that one can get HIGH on tobacco. At one party I was heard to exclaim, "Wow, this is better than pot!" However, I am told that as one gets addicted to nicotine, the high goes away and one is left with just an annoying, unhealthy bad habit. Another reason for smoking is that in some cliques, it is the "in" thing to do. Incidently, at that same party (about 13 years ago) I discovered a good reason not to smoke--I got very sick to my stomach--and I have not had a cigarette since. ============================================================================== I think the reason should be obvious - the inhalation of certain substances gives certain species (not only man) a tangible sensory pleasure. I used to smoke, first cigarettes in my adolescence, then a pipe throughout my twenties. When I married, my wife objected to it (I smoked a stiff Latakia and Yenidja mixture - rather tarry and verrry strong) and also, my insurance agent made me an offer that was hard to turn down - a non- smokers discount for my home owners insurance. There is a certain intoxication pleasure which also comes from smoking. I understand that one of the combustion by-products is carbon monoxide, especially when discussing cigarette smoke. I do not enjoy having smoke blown in my face (particularly cigarette and cigar smoke), and I generally regard smoking in enclosed public (and private) places to be unhealthy, inconsiderate, and just plain foul. But, there is definitely an olfactory and taste pleasure to be gotten from smoking, depending upon the quality of tobacco - and on your particular tastes. Many people do not enjoy the odour of tobacco or its smoke, some are even highly allergic to it. I do not rate smoking as healthy, but I (used to) enjoy it. I am no friend of the tobacco industry - especially the scum who are busy trying to use psychological tricks on kids to get them to smoke ("Smoking is for grown-ups only"). However, where no elses health is threatened, i.e. where the smoker is alone, or in the company of similarly afflicted creatures, I view the practice as a pursuit of pleasure and do not condemn it. ============================================================================== Yes, I smoke. No there is no valid reason. ============================================================================== I am a non-smoker. I have smoked about 100 cigars, 10-20 cigarettes. The cigars I smoked for the taste. I really enjoyed it, at least for a while. Then I got sick of the smoke, and the awful taste left in my mouth afterwards. Most people start smoking at a very young age. The tobacco tries very hard to encourage this. Young people are led to believe that smoking is ``cool'' or something. Also, there is peer pressure. Perhaps some smoke because it makes them feel older, since so many adults do. I smoked cigarettes for a different reason: I wanted to get the drug effect of the nicotine. Pretty silly, I know, but there was a time when I was into that sort of thing, and would try *almost* anything for a kick.(I did get an effect, but mainly got dizzy and sick). I know many children whom I don't believe will be smokers, because their parents smoke. They try (and I used to, and still do) to get their parents to not smoke, for the sake of the parents' health, and for their own health and comfort. Why do people keep smoking? I don't think most honestly want to, addiction is too strong. Look at all the devices and programs developed to help people quit. Most (if not all) smokers I know say that they wish they could quit, and do try from time to time. It may be an easier addiction to break than, say, alcohol or heroin, but it is not so obviously bad, so the pressure to quit is not so great. ============================================================================== I've thought about the motivation behind smoking quite a bit since my Dad died from cancer a year ago. He always said he smoked his Lucky Strikes because he liked to. My dad's death caused my elder brother to quit smoking, but he maintains that its unethical to try to force anyone to stop smoking. I feel that there is something wrong with this argument, but haven't been able to come up with a cogent counter-argument. I found a review of a book called *Smoke Ring: The Politics of Tobacco*, by Peter Taylor, in the April 5, 1984 issue of "New Scientist", that I found interesting, and that I will quote without permission here. It's worth noting that *New Scientist* is a British magazine. Governments like to say as little as possible about smoking and health. After all, tobacco taxes earn the British government $(read this as a pound sign)4 billion a year. Smoking may kill 100, 000 of its citizens a little prematurely each year, but their health care costs only a measly $165 million. The medical view is clear, superficially at least; smokers die younger, anyone who believes otherwise is a chump. Yet, doctors monitor the agreement between government and manufacturers to encourage smokers to shift to lower-tar brands. Implicit in the agreement is that tobacco promotion must go on. It is debatable at the moment whether a ban on promotion or vastly increased taxation would be most successful in reducing significantly the number of premature deaths, and uncountable working days lost, due to smoking. Some Scandinavian countries have had complete or partial bans for some years. The result has been a drop in the number of smokers, particularly among younger people. To take the tax route to preventative medicine sould cost the [British] government a lot of money. As Taylor says: "Consumers cannot be weaned form cigarettes unless governments lead the way...To do so requires an act of rare political courage." I realize that this isn't a direct response to your question about why people smoke, but I thought I would like to use the opening as an opportunity to take to the soapbox about an issue I feel strongly about, but haven't taken any direct action about before, except to speak to the occasional young person I see lighting up a cigarette. I would welcome further debate on what is essentially a question of free choice versus government control. Feel free to post this article in part or in whole as you see fit. ============================================================================== I smoke. The subject is a lot more complex than it is generally represented on both the positive and negative sides. I will do my best to respond to your query in a useful manner. 1. Why people start: for me personally, a number of factors were involved. I started when I was 17. The proximate impulse was a miserable season of swimming which I felt (not totally unreasonably) was at least partly the coach's fault. In short, I was pissed at the SOB and wanted to stick it in his eye, so to speak. Not too bright? You bet! I kept doing it for the first couple of years because it helped me feel more grown up. Additional influences at the initial stage were the fact that my father smoked and I associated the smell with cuddling with him. In other words I associate the smell with feeling safe and secure. In addition there was some peer influence, but I think that in my case that effect was quite limited. 2. Why people continue: the most basic reason for smoking is its influence on brain function. (Surprise?) A lot of people have a strong tendency to a brain malfunction that is corrected by nicotine. A lot of people discribe it as 'noise' in the head. My own analogy is of runaway processing, as though I kept getting caught in non-terminating processing loops. It also has some similarity with out of synch clock rates, as though the processor function had jumped itself to a faster clock rate without corresponding changes in the memory buss or peripheral controllers. The upshot is that one sits there with one's head running around in circles and nothing useful is coming out. A couple of puffs on a cigarette and the system settles down and starts functioning. A number of smoking friends have described the same effects. (I did try to stop smoking once while I was in college. I was completely fed up with the whole nonsense. The main irritation then, and now, was in allowing myself to be dependant on something that stupid. So I chucked the whole lot out at the start of a spring break. Felt great! Continued to feel great for a week and a half. Came the first day of classes. No sweat until I got a home- work assignment in measure theory. I sat and stared at the assignment all afternoon and most of the evening. Next morning, the same problem. I couldn't even start it. Went out and bought a pack and whipped it off in 45 minutes.) So there is a definate useful biochemical effect from nicotine. Most smokers also develop some dependance on the rituals that they built around the act. When my sister stopped, she said that her biggest problem was what to do with her hands. A female cousin made similar comments. Research on the effects of smoking, nicotine, etc. has mostly been pretty shoddy. A study, done in the mid-60s and studiously ignored since, found that nicotine, by itself, has a normalizing effect on the cardiovascular system. It tends to raise blood preasure when it is subnormal and it tends to reduce blood preasure when it is supernormal. It is also worth noting that nicotine/ tobacco is the most widely used drug on the planet. It is the only drug that people in a marginal food situation will actually give up food producing land to grow. Anyhow, the best thing that has come along since the discovery of tobacco is the nicotine chewing gum. The FDA fooled around about releasing it for 10 years, but it clearly eliminates the problems with the combustion byproducts. I plan to shift to it shortly. Hope that this has been of some use to you. ============================================================================== I could say "Don't be a fool", but I'll restrain myself. There IS no valid reason for smoking, except that tobacco (especially cigarettes) is one of the most addictive substances known to man. Once you start smoking, you will ***never*** be free of the habit, because permanent changes will take place in your body chemistry. Sure, people can quit, but so can junkies and alcoholics. Not without scars. It's not really a matter of will power, as some people so glibly assume. Do YOU have the will power to hold your breath until you pass out? It's not very different. If you have the good fortune not to be addicted to cigarettes, consider yourself lucky, but don't polish your halo in front of those poor bastards who are less fortunate. P.S. The more honest you are about it, the more chance you have of convincing your kids not to get hooked. I don't think anyone CHOOSES to start smoking, after about the age of 20, when they can make informed decisions on the matter. ============================================================================== Lets first start by saying that I do not smoke and never have. I have found a fairly common motivation for smoking from some of my peer however. Most people I know that smoke currently started in High School. They wish they could stop but cannot. The reason they started smoking in HS was because they had a low self confidence level or felt displaced (ie recently had moved into the area). Smokers in HS are a definable Group, which anyone can become a part of simply by lighting up. For some who feel isolated this provides a measure of security to know that they "belong" to some group, this is ESSENTIAL to the adolescent ego. I had Band and felt no other needs for a social tribe. The other group is the Drug Users. They are even more select and thus one needs a much lower self image or greater isolation from ones family or friends to commit to this group. Bottom line, it is a social issue from the start. Tobacco manufacturers know it, who throughs more money into Rock Concerts and Teen age activities. Yup, the cigarette and beer manufacturers. Won't be to long before the coffee companies catch up. "Start 'em young." that is the motto it seems of many corporations. Take a survey of teenagers in your area, ask them the following three questions : 1.) Do you spend a lot of time with your Family ? 2.) Are you a member of any clubs or organizations ? 3.) Do you smoke ? Answers seem to polarize into Y,Y,N and N,N,Y. It will certainly get you some statistically interesting numbers. ============================================================================== You have touched indirectly on a question that has always bothered me. I am myself a smoker, but I have no really good answer to your question. The simple answer is that tobacco is extremely habit-forming (addictive, really), so I guess that smokers smoke because they lack the willpower to stop smoking. Also, don't forget: the death rate is the same as it's always been - one death per person. Life is inevitably fatal, and some of us suspect that, if we always did what was most likely to give us the longest lifespan, we'd have few choices, and no fun at all. And probably get run over by a truck, to boot [:-)]. But the question that bothers me, is: why hasn't there been more research into finding out people's reasons for smoking? The Surgeon General's office has been engaged in an anti-smoking campaign since at least 1961, but all they've had to say on the subject is that smoking isn't good for you. It seems to me that a campaign to discourage smoking could be a lot more effective if someone studied why people smoke in the first place. If we knew that, we might be better able to discover safe alternatives to tobacco that would satisfy those mysterious cravings that lead to smoking. Perhaps a 'methadone for nicotine' could be discovered, or better methods of deconditioning people to tobacco. ============================================================================== Many people start smoking in their early teens (myself included) due to peer pressure as well as the "grown-up" look and illusion of sophistication associated with smoking. Most of the hazards of smoking are disregarded because of the apparent lack of harm to the peers that smoke and to the individual that tries it and experiences only a few coughs that are offset by the attention received from the peers and from the "high", or light-headed feeling from the nicotine. Later, after the initial novelty wears off, the stimulation from the nicotine becomes the reward, much as cafeine to the coffee drinker. Abstaining from smoking makes one feel uncomfortable from the lack of stimulation (depression, lethargy from suddenly not having the periodic stimulation) and from the nicotine craving that feels much like intense hunger, only sightly higher in the heart and lung area. The intensity of the discomfort grows; the dregree varying with individuals, the length of time smoking, the amount of nicotine they are accustomed to, and other, emotional factors. A non-smoker can hardly imagine the comfort and pleasure derived from pausing from, or finishing an intense activity and "relaxing" with a smoke. Doing so intensifies the relaxation. These are the "fun" years of smoking. Years of hearing, and perhaps, seeing the dangers of smoking finally start sinking in. The morning cough becomes a nuisance and concern. Perhaps the slight sensation of being short-of-breath becomes a concern. The nicotine stains on the fingers and on the car's windshield become annoying. To some (myself) the withdrawal experienced whenever one runs out of cigarettes becomes a fear, resulting in purchases by the carton, not the pack, becomes a major nuisance. Getting out of bed, getting dressed and going to 7-11 at 10:30 at night, just for cigarettes, is a sign of real slavery to tobacco. At this point, many individuals finally decide to quit. They are convinced of most of the negative aspects of smoking. SURPRISE!!! Its not as easy as one would think. After several hours, maybe a day or two, of suffering the nicotine withdrawal, the mind forgets most of the reasons for quitting and finds a way to justify *POSTPONING* it. They believe they'll quit AFTER the dinner party, or AFTER final exams, or AFTER the job interview, etc etc etc. This scenario repeats itself many (Mark Twain: 1000's) of times. Some people never quit, just continue the procrastination, all the time getting more addicted. A few, quit trying to stop. An increasing number do finally manage to quit, some easier than others. Some of those, start again after a significant period of time, something I never could really understand. Quitting was such a hassle & discomfort to me that I'll NEVER smoke again. I won't even have a puff for fear that it may rekindle the urge to smoke, which I still occasionally get after almost 8 years without cigarettes. (I smoked 2+ packs a day for 11 years). To summarize why people smoke, imagine quitting eating, with the intensity of the hunger continuing to build for a week or so, then gradually subsiding. That is why many people want to, but can't quit. The "hunger" feeling is similar when abstaining from nicotine, not to mention the psychological aspects of it. By the way, I've talked mainly about the PHYSICAL addition to nicotine. For me, the psychological aspects were not as severe because few people smoked around me. I've heard other smokers say the opposite, though. The two addictions are definitely different and apparently differ considerably between individuals. For what its worth, I quit cafeine with few problems. I went from 10-20 cups of coffee a day, to 0 with nothing more that a couple of days of feeling tired & sleepy. I stayed completely off it for several months, now I drink it on random ocassions & get more of a "kick" from it. The point I'm trying to make is that I don't believe I have an especially "addictive psychology". I did, however, have MUCH trouble quitting smoking and am amazed at my mind's ability to rationalize reasons for not quitting at the time. I'm getting repetative. I hope this answers your question. Addiction to anything is a real drag. DON'T GET ADDICTED! ============================================================================== I suspect that the main reasons most people begin smoking are: 1) They've been told not to. 2) Peer pressure. 3) Emulation of idols. I don't have children, but if I did, I would tell them something like this: I would rather you didn't smoke; however, if you wish to, I won't stop you. I know lots of good reasons not to, and no good reason to. Personally, I don't even see how anyone can stand inhaling the stuff. (Not in so many words, though.) In case it matters: both of my parents smoked. My father had a pipe long ago, but gave it up. My mother smoked cigarettes (and died of a metastasized lung cancer). I tried one cigarette once, to see what it was like. One mouthful of smoke was enough to convince me I didn't like the stuff from the filter end either. My parents held an attitude similar to mine (that is, the part that says ``I would rather you didn't, but it *is* your life''). ============================================================================== The issue seems to me to be more why start than why continue. That's just an observation. My mother has what I've considered an interesting reason for having started smoking. While she was in X-ray training, they had a break area when they were putting in their hours in the department at the hospital. Whenever she was on shift and in the break area, the supervisor would come in looking for someone to do some work, and since everyone else had a cigarette, she got tagged. I don't know how much of this was her perception of the situation. The supervisor may just one time have said, "You go, you don't have a cigarette." It could also be rationalization for what she knows is a bad habit. I was occasionally tempted to start smoking in the Army in basic training. We had 3 minute breaks a lot, which gave me time to stand around or maybe sit down. I sometimes looked enviously at those folks who had something to do with their hands. For what it's worth, my intuitive feeling is that most smokers start from peer pressure or (inclusive or) a desire to appear older. If you don't post a copy of the responses you get to the net, I'd appreciate a copy by mail. ============================================================================== I VERY occasionally smoke a pipe. About 1 bowel a week, on average, so I am clearly not 'addicted'. Why do I do it? At one point I smoked cigaretts to LOSE weight -- about 5 years ago, but I just didn't like cigaretts. I ENJOY smoking my pipe. I LIKE the flavor. And frankly, I don't give a damn about the gov or religions - it (like everything else) should be my own choice. Caveat: I do this in the privacy of my own home, while reading, usually. I do NOT allow my smoke to invade on the rights of others to breath unpolluted air. I ALSO get annoyed when I am forced to breath someone's stale cigarette smoke. ============================================================================== Smoking is an oral compulsion, and most people have one or two. Fortunately for their health, a lot of people "suck" books; yes, compulsive reading is actually an oral compulsion! Heavy smoking sure as hell beats heavy drinking! I am a moderate smoker, but for a long time; I can't think of one good reason to smoke. You shouldn't have that problem with your kids if they encounter the right propaganda; mine , when younger, were always after me to stop smoking. I don't know why I replied; I almost never do. ============================================================================== I started smoking when I was eighteen when I started working in the computer business. I was real cool! Rites of passage to manhood, etc etc. It didn't take long to become ADDICTED. I quit once for nine months and went back to them. I last smoked a cigarette on January 6th, 1975. I STILL miss them on occaison (e.g. the three good things in life, the drink before and the smoke afterwards 8-)). My wife smokes and I dare not even light one up for her. Nicotine is a powerful drug. Tell your kids, that if they don't get hooked, it'll be one less thing to worry about. One thing that helped me quit was my constant obsession that I had enough cigarettes with me or where I could stop and get some if I ran out. At the time I last quit, I was working in a non-smoking computer room where I had to go outside every time I wanted a smoke. They were ruling a significant part of my life! And that's the reason most people smoke, however they rationalise it, they're ADDICTS. Hope this helps, An ex-junkie, ============================================================================== I am a non-smoker, I always will be. However, people in my family have been smokers, but quit. Among the reasons people start smoking is the social stigma. People generally start smoking around Jr High to High School -- a time of extreme rebelliousness. There are plenty more that I won't describe because it'll take too much space. People continue to smoke because 1) nicotine is about as addicting as heroin, 2) nicotine has pleasant effects on the nervous system 3) it is a mindless little task that can keep one amused when they have nothing else to do. Once again, I could go on, but for the sake of terseness, I think this is enough. ============================================================================== I started smoking in college when I had already been smoking pot for 5 mos. I was getting used to smoking a joint five times a day, and was too stoned to do my quantum mechanics assignments. A friend turned me on to my first Marlboro, and *bingo*. That's all she wrought! ============================================================================== Since I was eighteen (about 14 years ago) I had been smoking about one or two cigarettes a day until last November. I haven't had one since. Up until that time what little smoking I did, I enjoyed. I had a heavier rate of smoking once (about a half a pack a day) for a period of a few months when I was 20. I found that at rates greater than one or two a day I lost the enjoyment, and my body visibly suffered (coughing, yellow stained teeth, etc.). I didn't decide to quite until my doctor told me that nicotine stimulates stomach acids. Since I was battling an ulcer at the time it seemed like a good idea to stop. My point is that until I had some form of evidence that I was physically suffering I had no inclination to stop. Why? Because I honestly and truely ENJOYED IT!!! Of course I realize that I am in a minority. Most of the people that I know who smoke, can't hold themselves to one or two cigarettes a day. For me it was very natural and easy. I mean I kept it up consistantly for over 12 years. Another behaviour that defined me as a minority member, by the way, is that I refused to smoke in the presence of other people unless they were also smoking. I hope you find these comments helpfull even if they are from an atypical former smoker. Incidently I intend remain a non-smoker since what enjoyment got doesn't seem worth the overall price anymore. ============================================================================== I started smoking when I was 15. There were several contributing circumstances. First, I had permission. Both my parents smoked and thus were not in a viable position to tell us we couldn't smoke. The only stipulation, was that we bought our own, we could not grub from our parents. The second and third reasons had to do with peer pressure. I had a girlfriend who smoked, and she wanted company. Since I had permission, she put a lot of pressure on me to start. Then I had a boyfriend (I use the word loosely) who thought I was immature because I didn't carry a purse, or smoke. I took up both behaviors. Smoking made me feel more sophisticated, and eased awkward social situations. When I felt uncomfortable and didn't know what to do, I could pull out my cigarettes and light up. Thus, I wasn't sitting on a sofa at a party simply twiddling my thumbs and looking lonely -- I was sitting on a sofa at a party, smoking and looking cool. In retrospect, this all sounds silly -- but these were potent inducements to smoke as an adolescent. Now, for why smokers don't quit when they outgrow adolescent reasons. Smoking is addicting! The nicotine is a central nervous stimulant that produces drug dependence when used on a regular basis. When users do not get their dose of nicotine, they become nervous (I'll explain the paradox), irritable, and are subject to headaches. The paradox is nicotine is a stimulant and thus stimulates the nervous system -- produces nervousness. However, someone who has developed drug dependence to nicotine often ends up in a viscious cycle. When under stress (nervous system is stimulated) the body metabolizes nicotine at a faster rate. This reduction in blood levels of nicotine for some obscure reason (a scientist might remember the specifics) increases the excitability of the nervous system. Other than the addictive properties, smokers don't quit because they don't realize how offensive their habit is to other people. No matter how many people express revulsion to smoke, the smoker believes they are wimps. It just is not that bad. It's not the greatest smell, but then lots of things don't smell great. At the age of 25, I finally quit. I had tried many times before, but smoking is so addictive, I had been unable to do it. I don't think a nonsmoker can appreciate how hard it is to quit -- nearly impossible. It was only several years after I successfully quit that I began to appreciate how offensive cigarette smoke is. However, even though cigarette smoke stinks now, I still feel the urge to smoke. I quit seven years ago but am still addicted even though I find the habit nauseating. I hope your kids pass through adolescense without picking up the habit. ============================================================================== I smoked for @ 12 years and stopped two years ago. So much for my qualifications. The reason for smoking is it 1) Gave me something to occupy my hands. and 2) tasted wonderful. Hardly a week goes by that I do not crave a cigarette after an especially good meal. In addition I gained 30 pounds after quitting and that is a tempting reason to start again, (assuming I would take the extra weight off). Hopefully I have given you some insight into an ex-smokers motivations. ============================================================================== As a non-smoker (but not a religious fanatic about it), let me state that most of my friends who smoke started as teen-agers. The reason was peer pressure to be "sophisticated." That sort of motivation is not easily put off by parental logic. Why do they keep smoking? Most don't want to! However, tobacco IS physically addictive. That suggests the need for some serious treatment, as for other addictions. I suspect that those who stop by themselves are simply less sensitive than most to the addictive effects. (Last is my own speculation.) ============================================================================== There is one and only one reason people smoke: drug addiction. I don't know how much you know about drug addiction, but that is what is going on here. The body gets so used to the presence of this drug (in this case, nicotine) that the metabolism, digestive and excretory systems, etc. actually (in a sense) re-tune themselves. If the body is suddenly deprived of this drug, all systems are suddenly out of whack. The body realizes this, and creates a strong craving for the drug that is very difficult for the addict to resist. There is an order of magnitude difference between the amount of will power required to overcome an addiction and that required to, say, cut down on food intake (unless the food cutdown is quite extreme), so it really isn't fair to compare the two. The only way to quit smoking is to endure the craving long enough for the body systems to re-tune themselves, which they never really completely do, so there is always this craving in the back of the addict's mind. People do not ever recover from addiction. They simply stop doing the drug. This accounts for the old saying that there is no such thing as a former alcoholic (or junkie, or smoker, ...), just alcoholics who don't drink. Hope this is what you were looking for. P.S. For the record, I do not smoke and am a fairly radical anti-smoker. While I realize that it is difficult or impossible (in some cases) for the smoker to quit, I do not feel that their weakness gives them the right to pollute *my* air. ============================================================================== I actually like the taste of cigarette, cigar and pipe smoke. I enjoy the rituals involved with smoking and sharing smoke. I would rather smoke a cigarette than stop what I'm doing and go try to find something to eat and smoking does suppress hunger, if only termporarily. I am addicted to nicotine. I have listed the above reasons in descending order of importance. Note that I don't suggest for a moment that anyone begin smoking based on any of the above reasons. Rather, I heartily recommend that people who don't smoke should not start. Nicotine is a HIGHLY addictive drug. Some people think it is THE MOST ADDICTIVE drug known. It is not the kind of thing to take up as a pastime. Nicotine addiction is a way of life. However, even if I didn't have to, I would still smoke. ============================================================================== The only anthropological thought experiment that does any good to satisfying me as to why people smoke goes like this: People feel comfort or security in the process of enhaling smoke because the human animal as it now exists evolved through many thousands of years of finding that a nearby fire enhanced it's survival. Those proto-humans that used fire as a tool survived longer and reproduced more than their peers out in the cold. The fire is a good thing in that it produces heat; it also is a bad thing in that it produces smoke. In evolution the advantages of the heat where greater than the disadvantages of the smoke. In fact the evolutionary process started to adapt the proto-human and human to a smoky environment, such that these people became somewhat fond of the comfort and security feelings found in the presence of smoke and the biological mechanisms of coping with smoky air were somewhat evolved. The idea could be adapted further, use your imagination. The bottom line is that humans (as a statistical phenomena) can more or less tolerate smoke and it also more or less can produce positive feelings. Other animals as a rule did not use fire as a constant environmental element. If a behavior of any sort is found universally spread around to a significant percentage of a species, that behavior has a genetic component. This observation can lead to interesting insights into several controversial human behaviors. It's all statistical of course. Unfortunately the English language likes to speak in absolutes, so we get easily confused when trying to think or speak about statistical processes. Good luck with your efforts to figure out this puzzle. Let me know how it goes. ============================================================================== In response to your question of how a nonsmoker can help a smoker quit, I can tell you how a friend helped me. One day Polly brought me a baggie and a story about how her photographer boyfriend was putting together an ad and needed a bunch of cigarette butts for the picture. Since neither she nor he smoked, would I help out and save all my butts for her? I thought this was rather strange, especially since one visit to a bar would yield all the butts he could want, but I did as she asked. Well, as this bag of butts in my purse filled up, it got more and more disgusting. It stank. Yeggh. I didn't quit immediately, but within a month I made the big decision. That was five years ago. Polly never did ask me for that bag of butts. ============================================================================== My input: I started smoking almost 20 yrs. ago...quite twice cold turkey when I was pregnant, then started after having my babies. I have just tried to quit again...my husband and I spent 2 weeks in Hawaii (glorious Maui & Kauai), and I didn't have one cigarette. Theoretically, I was unhooked physically. The first day I did little but think about cigarettes & bitch at everyone. Let me tell you...there is a REAL withdrawal. It got better & better, but I still wanted a cigarette, esp. after dinner. When we returned home & I went back to work, I started again...just one, then just another, then another. I'm ashamed to admit to my husband that I've "fallen off the wagon"...as well as admit to my coworkers the same, as I'd declared my office non-smoking on Monday. So I sneak, even at work. As for what a non-smoker can do.....my husband is very allergic to smoke. We're both very athletic, & I know my stamina would be so much better if I quit for good. But this doesn't seem to matter when I want a cigarette. Another drawback to quiting (at least for me): weight gain. It's not that I'm eating more...I'm not...and I'm exercising more than ever...but I've gained 7 lbs. in 3 weeks. Luckily, I've always been thin (I'm now just 2 lbs. underweight), so disaster has not yet struck...except most of my pants won't fit. My best friend, who is a nurse, told me that your metabolism really does change when you quit smoking...you WILL gain weight. When I wasn't smoking at all (this time & in the past), I was a smoker who wasn't smoking at the time. I doubt this ever goes away. I drifted away from the thought of what a non-smoker can do that really helps: nothing I feel guilty when I smoke behind my husband's back...and when I smoked in front of him...always OUTSIDE the house, by the way. I NEVER smoke in the house or in my car...he has been very supportive, but the guilt I feel negates his support. ==============================================================================