[soc.feminism] Feminism's ill effects on men?

) (09/24/90)

In article <653402616@lear.cs.duke.edu> gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) writes:
>If to judge by what the feminist movement has done in the last 15 years,
>then it is pretty obvious that a feminist-dominated system will be even
>more oppressive toward men.
>
>It will just find kinder gentler ways to blame the men in their own
>oppression.

Please explain what it is that the 'feminist movement' has done in the
past 15 years that is oppressive to men.  I'm curious...

-Leslie

gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) (09/25/90)

In article <7094@darkstar.ucsc.edu> (fOoDFoOdfOoDiTYfooD!) writes:

>Please explain what it is that the 'feminist movement' has done in the
>past 15 years that is oppressive to men.  I'm curious...

Here are some examples:

1) Affirmative Action.  It is a legal discrimination against men 
   that has gotten feminist support.
   
2) Child's custody.  There is a feminist support in women's
   priority of child's custody.

3) Child's support.  There is a feminist support in the laws
   the say (for practical purposes) that the man should pay, no matter
   what the circumstances.  
  
   The idea is that a break in condom should mean 18 years of child's
   support, if the woman wants it.  Period.

4) Presenting men as negative, evil creatures.
   "Indeed, one of the earliest forms of male bonding must have
   been the gang rape of one woman by a band of marauding men."
                                 -- ("Against Our Will", Susan Brownmiller)
   is a typical feminist approach toward men.


Hillel                                              gazit@cs.duke.edu

"The continuation of earnings gap between men and women, the decimation of
affirmative action in order to protect white men from `reverse discrimination',
the rise of male victories in child custody cases - all of these attest to the
need for a way to galvanize women's opposition and women's power in the 1980s."
            --  ("Caught Looking", Kate Ellis, Barbara O'Dair & Abby Tallmer)

falk@peregrine.Eng.Sun.COM (Ed Falk) (09/26/90)

In article <7094@darkstar.ucsc.edu> carioca@ucscb.ucsc.EDU (fOoDFoOdfOoDiTYfooD!) writes:
>In article <653402616@lear.cs.duke.edu> gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) writes:
>>If to judge by what the feminist movement has done in the last 15 years,
>>then it is pretty obvious that a feminist-dominated system will be even
>>more oppressive toward men.
>>
>>It will just find kinder gentler ways to blame the men in their own
>>oppression.
>
>Please explain what it is that the 'feminist movement' has done in the
>past 15 years that is oppressive to men.  I'm curious...

I think mainly it did a lot of damage to men's superior economic
situation.  (All together now: AWWWWW)

Saw something in the paper the other day that offended the shit out of
me.  A woman columnist was going on and on about how women with babies
shouldn't have to go to war, that women and men are inherently
different and that women should be staying home to take care of their
babies because they're the ones who gave birth to them.  She went on to
say that she *likes* all the aspects of the women's movement like
better opportunity and all, but enough is enough.

I wonder if this woman considers herself a feminist.

		-ed falk, sun microsystems
		 sun!falk, falk@sun.com
		 card-carrying ACLU member.

judy@altair.la.locus.com (Judy Leedom Tyrer) (09/26/90)

In article <7094@darkstar.ucsc.edu> carioca@ucscb.ucsc.EDU (fOoDFoOdfOoDiTYfooD!) writes:
>
>Please explain what it is that the 'feminist movement' has done in the
>past 15 years that is oppressive to men.  I'm curious...
>
>-Leslie

There is a strong tendency among some feminists to blame men for everything
that they don't like about our society while giving them no credit for
anything right.  A lot of women use the banner of feminism to further isolate
the sexes from one another by "man bashing".  I hate to see all feminists
blamed for this but I can't help thinking of the funeral in "The World 
According to Garp".  

Judy

gl8f@astsun9.astro.Virginia.EDU (Greg Lindahl) (09/27/90)

In article <654196708@lear.cs.duke.edu> gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) writes:

>>Please explain what it is that the 'feminist movement' has done in the
>>past 15 years that is oppressive to men.  I'm curious...
>
>Here are some examples:
>
[...]
>2) Child's custody.  There is a feminist support in women's
>   priority of child's custody.

Could you please provide a reference for any occasion where NOW has
advocated that women should receive priority just because they are women?

>3) Child's support.  There is a feminist support in the laws
>   the say (for practical purposes) that the man should pay, no matter
>   what the circumstances.

Could you please provide a reference for any occasion where NOW has
advocated that men are more reponsible than women for child support?
There is the additional question of whether or not a man has any say
in abortion, but that is a different question to most people.

I'm not hung up on NOW, I would just like proof of any sort that
Hillel isn't just speaking about a "straw man", so to speak. We've
seen claims in the past that "feminists don't want equal
responsibility in a draft", without proof. I prefer to talk about
real, live feminists instead of theoretical, nonexistant feminists.

-- greg

dgross@polyslo.CalPoly.EDU (Dave Gross) (09/27/90)

according to gl8f@astsun9.astro.Virginia.EDU (Greg Lindahl):
>In article <654196708@lear.cs.duke.edu> gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) writes:
>>2) Child's custody.  There is a feminist support in women's
>>   priority of child's custody.
>
>Could you please provide a reference for any occasion where NOW has
>advocated that women should receive priority just because they are women?
>
>>3) Child's support.  There is a feminist support in the laws
>>   the say (for practical purposes) that the man should pay, no matter
>>   what the circumstances.
>
>Could you please provide a reference for any occasion where NOW has
>advocated that men are more reponsible than women for child support?
>There is the additional question of whether or not a man has any say
>in abortion, but that is a different question to most people.

Gee, whenever Hillel points out something nasty that any national or
regional feminist group has done, people jump all over him and say "Group
X doesn't speak for feminism.  Feminism is more diverse than that.  There
are a lot of feminists who don't agree."

Now when he comes up with a list of things that these diverse feminists
support, he is asked to name something a particular national group has
done.

I'll go one step further here, though, and give you a name:  Wolgast.
A name taken very seriously in the feminist movement.  She says that there
is an "inherent asymmetry in parenthood, one that does not stem from
institutions but from reproduction itself.  As parents mothers have a
primary place, one that cannot be occupied by a father."

And:  "At bottom of my argument is the conviction that justice requires men
and women to be treated differently, not in all areas but in some important
ones."
 
Wolgast believes that sex roles have come about because of woman's position
as the "primary" parent, and that law and society should recognize woman's
inherent difference because of that position.  It would be unfair, she
argues, to treat women -- who have this special relationship with children
"that cannot be occupied by a father" -- as equals to men.

This is the kind of logic that allows the feminist movement to masquerade
as an egalitarian or social justice movement, yet strongly oppose (as the
NOW did) joint custody legislation because it would take away woman's
power.


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gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) (09/28/90)

In article <1990Sep27.030210.3654@murdoch.acc.Virginia.EDU> 
gl8f@astsun9.astro.Virginia.EDU (Greg Lindahl) writes:

>>2) Child's custody.  There is a feminist support in women's
>>   priority of child's custody.

>Could you please provide a reference for any occasion where NOW has
>advocated that women should receive priority just because they are women?

There was a strong feminist support in a surrogate mother who changed
her mind (Whitehead); there was public pressure by NOW to free from
jail a woman who disobeyed custody decision (Dr. Morgan).

*I* see these cases as support in women's *priority* in custody,
you may see them as you like.

>>3) Child's support.  There is a feminist support in the laws
>>   the say (for practical purposes) that the man should pay, no matter
>>   what the circumstances.

>Could you please provide a reference for any occasion where NOW has
>advocated that men are more reponsible than women for child support?

I expressed the opinion that a man should have some way out in case
of birth control failure.  You, Trish and zillion other feminists
roasted me over this position in alt.flame.

Now you try to tell us that feminists should not be blamed for
this position...

*I* don't buy it, but please feel free to sell it...

>I'm not hung up on NOW, I would just like proof of any sort that
>Hillel isn't just speaking about a "straw man", so to speak. We've
>seen claims in the past that "feminists don't want equal
>responsibility in a draft", without proof. 

Well Greg, please tell us what the national leadership of 
NOW did when the registration for draft started.

>I prefer to talk about
>real, live feminists instead of theoretical, nonexistant feminists.

So why don't you list the actions that show that the 
(post 1975) feminist movement gives a damn about men?

It's not too long, you know...


Hillel                                gazit@cs.duke.edu

"The continuation of earnings gap between men and women, the decimation of
affirmative action in order to protect white men from `reverse discrimination',
the rise of male victories in child custody cases - all of these attest to the
need for a way to galvanize women's opposition and women's power in the 1980s."
            --  ("Caught Looking", Kate Ellis, Barbara O'Dair & Abby Tallmer)

kaveh@ms.uky.edu (Kaveh Baharestan) (10/01/90)

judy@altair.la.locus.com (Judy Leedom Tyrer) writes:

>There is a strong tendency among some feminists to blame men for everything
>that they don't like about our society while giving them no credit for
>anything right.

That's because so little is right. And what is is generally an accident.

kaveh-
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gcf@mydog.UUCP (Gordon Fitch) (10/03/90)

Does feminism oppress men?

Well, what is oppression?  We might say that it is the reduction
of the victim's freedom -- freedom being the ability to do what
one wants.  Perfect freedom would be the ability to do anything
one wanted, but such freedom runs into a problem on the social
plane: people's wills impinge upon one another, and often 
conflict.  Those who prevail impose upon, oppress, those who
don't.

Ideally, we would like to believe that there is some kind of
arrangement which would be perfectly fair to everyone, probably
a symmetrical one: my freedom to swing my fist stops at your
nose, and vice versa.  The problem with this solution is that
people are different, and want different things, so that their
wills fit together in many non-symmetric ways.  Thus in practice,
rights are generally worked out as individual and group wills 
confront one another in some specific arena.

But this means that every individual, and every group,
"oppresses" the others, by attempting to restrain their freedom,
by pushing against their will.  Since this pushing and shoving
offends our idealistic view of freedom, we value-load the word
_oppress_ and reserve it for cases in which we believe the
victims should be getting a better deal, for one reason or
another.  One of the favorite reasons is that the victim is
oneself, or one's category. 

For example, let us say that, in 1955, 95% of all engineers were
male, but in 1985, 65% were male, and that this change took
place entirely as a result of feminist agitation.  Were those
males who wished to be engineers, but were pushed aside by the
women making up the 35%, oppressed?  Of course.  In a more
extreme example, slaveholders of the Old South were oppressed by
Emancipation.  We have no sympathy for the slaveholders because 
we think relationships between people of different races should 
be symmetrical, and that overt slavery is an excessive form of
dominance.  Our sympathy for the frustrated male engineering 
candidates is problematical.  We're not sure whether relation-
ships between different sexes should be symmetrical or not;
on the other hand, failing to get into RPI, though a disappoint-
ment, is not often the end of life.

I am sure some readers of this article will think this view of
"oppression" is silly.  But in the last few weeks, upper-caste
people in India have burned themselves to death to protest a
form of affirmative action which would guarantee lower castes a 
substantial proportion of government jobs.  The upper castes 
have based their lives on a theory and practice of caste 
dominance; the government, probably afraid of a burgeoning 
lower-caste political movement, is leaning on them.  (Had the
Indian government been more ingenious, it would have set the
lower castes against one another, American-style.)  Those who
have had "privilege", which they often see as hard-earned
success, do not find its loss anything but oppressive.  One's 
pain is not less because another might have greater cause for 
pain.

In the currently popular social arrangement of dog-eat-dog, 
devil-take-the-hindmost capitalism, I do not call my rela-
tionship with those feminists who accept this arrangement 
"oppressive" because I find the connotations of the word 
excessive; but in fact we oppress, we push against, each 
other's will and interests, at least some of the time.  It's 
just business.  And those who are my competitors can't 
expect me to join them or support them on all occasions, so I 
don't call myself a "feminist" in this sense.  (On the other 
hand, I don't share the keen resentment of those who feel 
that feminist organizations have failed them because the
feminists have been watching out for the interests of their 
constituents, instead of, say, leading the fight against a 
nonexistent military draft.  Business is business, and it's 
nothing to get outraged about.  I have accepted the fact
that NOW ain't my mom.)

Of course, if someone wants to run up the flag for a different 
arrangement, I might be interested.  I definitely think many
of our great leaders and institutions could use a dose of
femininity.  They seem to be dying of testosterone poisoning,
probably from failure to make proper use of it.  But at last 
report all the "rad-fems" had moved to Academia or the woods, 
while I'm stuck here in the suburbs, reading Usenet.  Little
money, big mouth.  Dreams of Goddess Communism.  Onward....

regard@hpsdde.hp.COM (Adrienne Regard) (10/05/90)

In article <87443@aerospace.AERO.ORG> uunet!hombre!mydog!gcf (Gordon Fitch) writes:
>   (a thoughtful posting answering in part the question:)
>Does feminism oppress men?
>
>For example, let us say that, in 1955, 95% of all engineers were
>male, but in 1985, 65% were male, and that this change took
>place entirely as a result of feminist agitation.  Were those
>males who wished to be engineers, but were pushed aside by the
>women making up the 35%, oppressed?  Of course.  In a more

Extend that: Were those males who didn't wish to be engineers, whose
wives are now engineers, oppressed?  The benefits women have reaped
because of their agitation don't devolve merely to those women.  Their
families benefit, their loved ones' benefit.  I would maintain that
the country as a whole benefits.

That's not much of a consolation to the poor fellow who wanted to be
an engineer and got competed out of the position.  But perhaps he goes
home to his med-school girlfriend for comfort.  Or places a collect
call to his lawyer mom.  You know, people who can sympathise with his
struggle, advise and support him.

Cuts both ways.
Adrienne Regard

gazit@cs.duke.EDU (Hillel Gazit) (10/05/90)

In article <87443@aerospace.AERO.ORG> uunet!hombre!mydog!gcf (Gordon Fitch) writes:
>Of course, if someone wants to run up the flag for a different
>arrangement, I might be interested.  I definitely think many
>of our great leaders and institutions could use a dose of femininity.

I wonder what makes you think so.

One Golda was enough for *me* for the rest of my life, but since most
readers don't know too much about her I suggest to look on the
feminists in the U.S.

The feminist movement had had nice achievements when there had been
anti-draft riots, etc., but let's look what it did in the last 15
years.

It lost the ERA, even though it started in 90% majority in Congress.
It let the abortion issue to rest on a single Supreme Court decision,
for 15 years, while the conservatives "took over" the Supreme court.

After all these loses the feminist movement did not get rid off its
leadership, so I guess that that's the best they can find...

pepke@ds1.scri.fsu.EDU (Eric Pepke) (10/05/90)

In article <1990Oct04.155651.27377@sdd.hp.com> Adrienne Regard <hp-sdd.sdd.hp.com!hpsdde!regard@hpsdlo.sdd.hp.COM> writes:
>That's not much of a consolation to the poor fellow who wanted to be
>an engineer and got competed out of the position.

Well, if he just got competed out of the position, that's just tough.
If the reason the competition is higher is because women's role has
changed, that's just tough.  Actually, no matter what the reason for
the increased competition, it's still just tough.

However, if the reason he didn't get the position is because somebody
has fixed the game, as a result of some sort of idea of compensation
for some sort of perception of statistics, so that he cannot win in
spite of his being able to compete, that's not just tough, it's sexist
and basically wrong.  It is wrong whether it is part of some 50's plan
to keep women out of industry or part of some 90's plan to compensate,
in some indefinable statistician-inspired way, for some 50's plan.

-EMP

dwp@willett.pgh.pa.us (Doug Philips) (10/09/90)

[This is drifting off the subject.  Followups should probably go to somewhere
else, maybe talk.politics.misc.                                         - MHN]

In <87443@aerospace.AERO.ORG>, gcf@mydog.UUCP (Gordon Fitch) writes:
> 
> Does feminism oppress men?
> 
> Well, what is oppression?  We might say that it is the reduction
> of the victim's freedom -- freedom being the ability to do what
> one wants.  Perfect freedom would be the ability to do anything
> one wanted, but such freedom runs into a problem on the social
> plane: people's wills impinge upon one another, and often 
> conflict.  Those who prevail impose upon, oppress, those who
> don't.
> 
> I am sure some readers of this article will think this view of
> "oppression" is silly.  But in the last few weeks, upper-caste
> people in India have burned themselves to death to protest a
> form of affirmative action which would guarantee lower castes a 
> substantial proportion of government jobs.

I think your definition is too general to be very useful.  My working
definition of Oppression does not speak merely of the dominance of one
individual over another.  It speaks to the systematic domination of
groups of people by other groups, explicitly for the advantage of
those "oppressing" groups and the detriment of the "oppressed" groups.
One reason your definition "the reduction of freedom" is too general
is that in encompasses non-human restrictions, such as gravity (i.e.
you can't flap your arms and fly, and therefore are "oppressed" by
gravity), weather (a bad growing season means that you are "oppressed"
by the weather).  It also fails to distinguish between situations in
which there is and in which there is not a benefitting subgroup.
(Circumstances such as pervasive religious beliefs that preclude the
use of certain sources of food for an entire community and thus lowers
the standard of living, i.e. the freedom to survive in certain ways, of
everyone in the community equally).

The upper-caste Indians are not upset about freedom, they are upset
about the issues of power.  In this particular case I cannot help but
wonder where India would be now if Gandhi had lived.  (Which is way
off the topic, so I'll stop here)

-Doug

RA04@Lehigh.UCAR.EDU (10/11/90)

re: "oppressed" by gravity

One of the issues Doug's post brings up is the predominant view
supported by our (white, masculine-mostly, Euro-American) culture:
that there are Man and Nature, and nature exists for the benefit of
Man.  So, in some very significant senses, the fact that humans are
"subject" to "natural laws" is looked upon as a challenge and an
obstacle.  As we "advance" and "make progress" (see, hardly anyone's
asking about the destination of this movement), more and more of
nature falls under our power.  We "tame" wilderness and build nice
little ordered subdivisions; we "harness" rivers and get electricity;
etc.  If we don't harness and tame and subdue and exploit, we won't be
"top dog," won't be "first in the pecking order."  And quite a few
feminists are noticing this "oppress or be oppressed" model that
(mostly male-gender) humans have in fact imposed on everything that
isn't mostly-male-gender-human.  The implications of the model are
amazing, and they account in part for the threatened, fearful, and
almost entirely arbitrary (!) responses by some men and man-identified
women to feminists' demands for a change.  According to the "oppress or
be oppressed" model (and only that model), men will have to lose power
if women lose their oppressed status.  Thing is, that's an eighteenth-
century, closed-system approach: one way to conceptualize, not THE way.

judy@altair.la.locus.com (Judy Leedom Tyrer) (10/16/90)

In article <655058917@lear.cs.duke.edu> gazit@cs.duke.EDU (Hillel Gazit) writes:

>[The feminist movement] lost the ERA, even though it started in 90%
>majority in Congress. 
>It let the abortion issue to rest on a single Supreme Court decision,
>for 15 years, while the conservatives "took over" the Supreme court.

(Asbestos suit on...)

Some feminists (me) also believe in minimum federal government and actually
believe that such things as ERA and Abortion Rights legitimately belong
at the State level.

(Asbestos suit off...)

Judy

gcf@hombre.masa.com (10/16/90)

Adrienne Regard <hp-sdd.sdd.hp.com!hpsdde!regard@hpsdlo.sdd.hp.COM>:
>That's not much of a consolation to the poor fellow who wanted to be
>an engineer and got competed out of the position.

pepke@ds1.scri.fsu.EDU (Eric Pepke):
>Well, if he just got competed out of the position, that's just tough.
>If the reason the competition is higher is because women's role has
>changed, that's just tough.  Actually, no matter what the reason for
>the increased competition, it's still just tough.

>However, if the reason he didn't get the position is because somebody
>has fixed the game, as a result of some sort of idea of compensation
>for some sort of perception of statistics, so that he cannot win in
>spite of his being able to compete, that's not just tough, it's sexist
>and basically wrong.  ....

I think this approach to the situation is a bit naive.  Groups compete
for advantage, just as individuals do.  Part of the way one gets
advantage is getting to write the rules, or at least affect the way
they're written.  This can be called "fixing the game."  In the
1950's, it was widely believed that if Yale, Harvard, and Princeton
admitted students purely on the basis of merit, a majority of their
student bodies would have been Jewish.  For various reasons this was
thought undesirable.  The rules were adjusted accordingly[1], probably
without overt discussion.  The universities explained that they were
looking for a "diverse, balanced student body of well-rounded men."
I'm quoting from memory, but I think I'm about right.  The phrases
still bring a smile to my face.  "So round, so firm, so fully
packed...."

Now, it would be nice to believe that we could just set all this sort
of thing aside, and have some kind of admissions plan based on merit
alone.  The problem is, no one knows what "merit" is.  If we really
wanted to level the playing field, we would devise an engineering
certification test, and say that anyone who passed it was an engineer,
whether they got their knowledge from RPI or the public library.  That
we do not do this -- "we" meaning those of us who are important --
shows that we do _not_ want a level playing field, that we want to
jury-rig the populations of our middle and upper-level hierarchies.
Given that condition, and given that out-groups find it very difficult
to change the meta- rules (like how come the admissions committee is
staffed the way it is, or why there's an admissions committee at all)
there's a lot of effort to change the lower-level rules.  This effort
is sometimes called "affirmative action" or "civil rights" -- or
"discrimination" by those whose interests are threatened by the
effort.

The attempt by an out-group to win a better position for itself can
_always_ be called "racist" or "sexist" or "nationalist" because the
out-group was _constituted_ by racism or sexism or nationalism -- as
practiced by others.  Out-groups are involved in a structure of
discrimination or prejudice, or they wouldn't be out-groups.  There
would be no "out."  It is silly to require them to be egalitarian when
there is no equality.  First, they have to find a place to stand;
then, they can work out deals with competing groups which can be
called "equal" or "fair", meaning the parties involved are about
equally dissatisfied with the results.

I'm tempted to say this is "just tough" -- that it's the inevitable
outcome of a competitive system -- but in fact I'm not much taken with
the just-toughness of things.  I think we can ask whether things have
to be this way.  If there's blood in the water, it's best to be a
shark; but why is there always blood in the water?  However, that's
another subject.

[1] In my opinion; I have no proof.  I draw my conclusions from
the peculiarity of the results and the language surrounding them,
and many have drawn similar conclusions.

--
Gordon Fitch  |  uunet!hombre!mydog!gcf

mittmann@ral.rpi.EDU (Michael Mittmann) (10/16/90)

In article <11109001:30:33RA04@lehigh.bitnet> RA04@Lehigh.UCAR.EDU writes:
>
>re: "oppressed" by gravity
>
>One of the issues Doug's post brings up is the predominant view
>supported by our (white, masculine-mostly, Euro-American) culture:
>that there are Man and Nature, and nature exists for the benefit of
>Man.

First, it is possible to have the belief that some taming of nature is
good without having the belief that nature exists for the benefit of
man.  In my case, (since I'm atheist) don't believe there is a reason
nature (or humanity, or the sun, or anything else) exists.  However,
as long as humans exist, it seems that trying to have a good life is a
reasonable thing.  Consequently I will build dams to prevent flooding,
grow crops, and domesticate animals to have a reliable food supply.

Now I will concede that some of these things are currently being done
in a way that is short-sighted.  Damming the river might wipe out a
species that is interesting in some way, the pesticides used to
increase crop productions might eventually poison me, and eating meat
will shorten my lifespan.

>  So, in some very significant senses, the fact that humans are
>"subject" to "natural laws" is looked upon as a challenge and an
>obstacle.

Isn't it true?  Gravity is an obstacle if I want to get to the top of
a mountain, and the fact that I will die is an obstacle if there is
something I want to do before I die.  The fact that circumventing
these obstacles isn't trivial makes them a challenge.  (or should we
just give up if we want to do something difficult?)

>  As we "advance" and "make progress" (see, hardly anyone's
>asking about the destination of this movement), more and more of
>nature falls under our power.  We "tame" wilderness and build nice
>little ordered subdivisions; we "harness" rivers and get electricity;
>etc.  If we don't harness and tame and subdue and exploit, we won't be
>"top dog," won't be "first in the pecking order."

I dispute the usage of the word exploit.  Also in some cases, if we
don't harness and tame nature we will be dead.  What we are trying to
achieve is a state where we don't have unpredictable threats to our
life or welfare.  Is that unreasonable?

>  And quite a few
>feminists are noticing this "oppress or be oppressed" model that
>(mostly male-gender) humans have in fact imposed on everything that
>isn't mostly-male-gender-human.

1) I'm not oppressing nature, and don't think of it that way.
2) I also attempt to control "male-gender-humans", or haven't you
heard of laws?

>  The implications of the model are
>amazing,

true, but I find it difficult to believe that your model is widely
believed.

-mike

gcf@mydog.UUCP (10/17/90)

>[This is drifting off the subject.  Followups should probably go to somewhere
>else, maybe talk.politics.misc.                                         - MHN]

It seems to me that the question of what rights are, and how they
are worked out, are directly on the subject; the supposed ill effects
of feminism on men have been mainly discussed here in terms of 
conflicts of rights.  

[I think it's relevant, but we need to be careful to avoid drifting into a
mire of philosophy without the application, which could go beyond the charter
of this newsgroup.  In general, I try to give a liberal interpretation to
relevance to feminism.                                             - MHN]


In regard to "ill effects" I notice with relief the disappearance 
of the theory that feminism, by encouraging women to be more assertive 
sexually and otherwise, has destroyed men's sexuality.  (This was the 
theme of _Sexual_Suicide_, was it not?)  Onward....

In <87443@aerospace.AERO.ORG>, gcf@mydog.UUCP (Gordon Fitch) writes:
> 
> Does feminism oppress men?
> 
> Well, what is oppression?  We might say that it is the reduction
> of the victim's freedom -- freedom being the ability to do what
> one wants.  Perfect freedom would be the ability to do anything
> one wanted, but such freedom runs into a problem on the social
> plane: people's wills impinge upon one another, and often 
> conflict.  Those who prevail impose upon, oppress, those who
> don't.

dwp@willett.pgh.pa.us (Doug Philips):
>I think your definition is too general to be very useful.  My working
>definition of Oppression does not speak merely of the dominance of one
>individual over another.  It speaks to the systematic domination of
>groups of people by other groups, explicitly for the advantage of
>those "oppressing" groups and the detriment of the "oppressed" groups.
>One reason your definition "the reduction of freedom" is too general
>is that in encompasses non-human restrictions ...
>             ...  It also fails to distinguish between situations in
>which there is and in which there is not a benefitting subgroup. ...

I believe I mentioned groups as well as individuals competing for
rights, and I thought it was clear that I was speaking about social
or political relationships.[1]

I'm assuming by "systematic" you mean "organized as a system."
If we insist that oppression mean "systematic domination by 
groups imposed for profit on other groups", we run into 
problems analyzing, for example, class oppression.  The members 
of an oppressing class often act in an unorganized way, and 
often to their own disadvantage, in perpetuating oppression.  It 
is very hard for some people to understand that the class of 
(for example) whites may oppress the class of blacks, because 
they know many whites who do not personally oppress blacks and 
they know of no conspiracy against blacks among white people, as 
systematic oppression would require.  (Sometimes the analogy of 
cellular automata, where many small, unrelated actions add up to 
large patterns, may explain this kind of situation to the 
unbeliever.)

Another problem with _oppression_ in a context of rights conflict
is that it is a pejorative, and therefore we must find a kind of
ideal judge to determine whose rights are oppressive (bad), and 
whose aren't.  An ideological struggle then ensues for the 
possession of this judge, and that is how people can seriously 
assert that feminism oppresses men -- it is competing for the 
right to determine what is oppression and what isn't.  Instead 
of getting rid of domination, we have only extended the arena 
of conflict.

I think this is especially important to the feminist perspective
because if, as Engels hypothesized, the saturation of human
society with domination-relationships began with the enslavement
of women, then we might look for a dissolution of that burden in
the reestablishment of freedom and dignity for the feminine side
of humanity (whether you think this means the female human beings
or the female _in_ human beings).  This means going deeper and
further than naming one or another _the_oppressor_, although
certainly those who are being leaned on must lean back enough to
get their balance.
--
[1] Although it is possible to regard Nature as an oppressed
political class.  See the article on ecofeminism.
--
Gordon Fitch  |  uunet!hombre!mydog!gcf

gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) (10/17/90)

In article <1990Oct15.210918.7972@ora.com> mydog!gcf@hombre.masa.com writes:

>In the 1950's, it was widely believed that if Yale, Harvard, and Princeton
>admitted students purely on the basis of merit, a majority of their
>student bodies would have been Jewish.  For various reasons this was
>thought undesirable.  The rules were adjusted accordingly[1], probably
>without overt discussion.  

My *impression* is that they decided that "better Jews than asians".

>wanted to level the playing field, we would devise an engineering
>certification test, and say that anyone who passed it was an engineer,
>whether they got their knowledge from RPI or the public library.  

The drawback of this method is that the screening may be 
based on criteria that have little to do with engineering.

I'll give you an example:
I know a student who is in the bottom 13% in GRE Verbal score,
and in the top 3% in the GRE CS advance test.  If admission to graduate
schools in CS were based on knowledge of computer science, then people
like him will take some of the best places.  Therefore, it was decided
that the Verbal score is much more important than the CS score.

If you would let a central government agency to decide what an engineer
should know, then we may end up with Verbal score, African studies
and some feminism...   (Stop laughing; I met Russian engineers who
knew very little about engineering.)

In short, the field will not be leveled, but an engineering degree will
not be worth very much anymore (for companies that need *engineers*).

>practiced by others.  Out-groups are involved in a structure of
>discrimination or prejudice, or they wouldn't be out-groups.  There
>would be no "out."  It is silly to require them to be egalitarian when
>there is no equality.  

I don't ask them to be egalitarian (I'm realistic...), I ask them to
be honest.  If they want to discriminate then they can call their
laws "Discrimination Against Asians and Poor Whites Act 1990" 
and not "Civil Rights Act 1990".

>I'm tempted to say this is "just tough" -- that it's the inevitable
>outcome of a competitive system -- but in fact I'm not much taken with
>the just-toughness of things.  I think we can ask whether things have
>to be this way.  

I have no objection to other models, just please try them on someone else
first.  I don't object to socialist ideas (e.g. I would prefer to have the 
Canadian health care system, and not the American one), I just object to
socialist (and non-socialist) ideas that have never succeeded,
but people keep trying them on me.

>Gordon Fitch  |  uunet!hombre!mydog!gcf

Hillel                                         gazit@cs.duke.edu                 
"...13 of 17 valedictorians in Boston high schools last spring were immigrants
or children of immigrants." --  US. News & World Report, May 14, 1990

morphy@truebalt.cco.caltech.edu (Jones Maxime Murphy) (10/17/90)

judy@altair.la.locus.com (Judy Leedom Tyrer) writes:

>Some feminists (me) also believe in minimum federal government and actually
>believe that such things as ERA and Abortion Rights legitimately belong
>at the State level.

Yeah. Some blacks (me) believe in minimum federal government and actually
believe that such things as the Emancipation Proclamation and the Civil
Rights Act legitimately belong at the state level. Really.

Jones
Physics Dept.
Caltech

gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) (10/17/90)

In article <17931@oolong.la.locus.com> (Judy Leedom Tyrer) writes:
>Some feminists (me) also believe in minimum federal government and actually
>believe that such things as ERA and Abortion Rights legitimately belong
>at the State level.

And in how many states you lost the vote on state ERA, even though
the popular support before the debate started was quite high?

And how many abortion right laws did you pass, at state level,
in the last 15 years?

cedman@lynx.ps.UCI.EDU (Carl Edman) (10/17/90)

In article <kaveh.654726806@s.ms.uky.edu> kaveh@ms.uky.edu (Kaveh Baharestan) writes:
   judy@altair.la.locus.com (Judy Leedom Tyrer) writes:

   >There is a strong tendency among some feminists to blame men for everything
   >that they don't like about our society while giving them no credit for
   >anything right.

   That's because so little is right. And what is is generally an accident.

Yes, it is very chic to blame all terrible things which have happened
on men. It is not without ground as most terrible and criminal acts
throughout history were committed by men. So some people deduce from
this that all men are basically barbaric , uncivilized, brutal, stupid
and generally inferior.  One thing these people fail to see is that
most good things which have been done in history were done by DWM
(dead white males).  I could now write down a list of 200 DWMs who
have created more beautiful things , had sharper minds, and greater
energy than almost all people who ever lived, but as everybody could
do that for himself , I restrain myself. But from this it can be
concluded that white males are generally superior than everybody else
and deserve to be treated as such and granted preference in all
things.

Both of these arguments are, of course, equal fallacies. And ,
ironically, the same fallacy that those who use them are most
prone of accusing others of: Ignoring social circumstance.

By mechanisms which I needn't go into here, and pure chance it
happened that this group came into a situation were it's actions had
far wider reaching consequences (and stronger consequences in this
time and place) than any other group, so every act tends to be seen as
larger. I have no doubt that any other group which you care to define
sexually or ethnically would have (on average) done the same thing.

So, yes, DWMs are largely responsible for the state of the world, but
that is more by chance than by the fact that DWMs are so different
(inferior or superior) than everybody else.

	Carl Edman


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king@kestrel.edu (10/18/90)

In article <11109001:30:33RA04@lehigh.bitnet> RA04@Lehigh.UCAR.EDU writes:

}One of the issues Doug's post brings up is the predominant view
}supported by our (white, masculine-mostly, Euro-American) culture:
}that there are Man and Nature, and nature exists for the benefit of
}Man.  So, in some very significant senses, the fact that humans are
}"subject" to "natural laws" is looked upon as a challenge and an
}obstacle.  As we "advance" and "make progress" (see, hardly anyone's
}asking about the destination of this movement), more and more of
}nature falls under our power.  We "tame" wilderness and build nice
}little ordered subdivisions; we "harness" rivers and get electricity;
}etc.  If we don't harness and tame and subdue and exploit, we won't be
}"top dog," won't be "first in the pecking order."  And quite a few
}feminists are noticing this "oppress or be oppressed" model that
}(mostly male-gender) humans have in fact imposed on everything that
}isn't mostly-male-gender-human.  The implications of the model are
}amazing, and they account in part for the threatened, fearful, and
}almost entirely arbitrary (!) responses by some men and man-identified
}women to feminists' demands for a change.  According to the "oppress or
}be oppressed" model (and only that model), men will have to lose power
}if women lose their oppressed status.  Thing is, that's an eighteenth-
}century, closed-system approach: one way to conceptualize, not THE way.


Fact: On the average, men are stronger than women.  I doubt there
      would be a lot of people disputing this. 

Fact: A large part of "harness[ing] nature" consists of applying
      measures to the way we do things that makes strength less
      important.  Women can have blue-collar jobs in a world with
      forklifts and steam shovels and ..., and there come to be fewer
      of them; white-collar jobs are undeniably androgynous.


I think that on the whole technology is or should be feminists' best
friend. 

-dk

watson@spock.UUCP (Steve Watson) (10/19/90)

I've been skimming this thread and have belatedly remembered the following:

Last year the Ontario College of Art instituted a policy according to which
teaching vacancies will only be available to WOMEN.  This will continue
until the faculty is 50% women.  At current turnover rates, this should
take 10 or 20 years.  (I may have some details wrong, corrections welcome)

Now, I am in NO WAY a male chauvinist, sexist, misogynist or whatever.
My views are in agreement with many of the definitions of feminism posted
recently.  According to some people, I am a feminist.  I don't even object to
the principle of 'affirmative action'.  However, I find this extreme form
reverse discrimination to be more than I can quite swallow.  It constitutes
a clear case of oppression of men by (an aberration of?) feminism.
If you are a young male art teacher in Ontario, you are automatically
disqualified from competing for a job at the province's most prestigious
art school (I believe most of us would accept denial of employment for which
one is otherwise qualified as constituting 'oppression'?).

Some would say that past injustices need to be rectified.  I agree. But you
cannot correct an old evil simply by committing a new one in the opposite
direction.  And yes, we probably need women art teachers to give a female
perspective on art (I don't think it's healthy that there are so many female
nudes painted/sculpted by men, but relatively few examples of other
artist/subject gender combinations.  It suggests a skewed viewpoint)
But the men who are locked out at OCA are NOT, in general, the ones who
created the situation: it is not fair to them.  

Now before I get flamed, two disclaimers:
1) I'm NOT an art teacher, I'm a EE who admits to knowing diddly-squat about
art.  So this in no way threatens me personally.
2) I'm not saying all feminists, or feminism-in-general are doing this: I
take it as an example of feminism gone crazy.

-- 
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cel@cs.duke.edu (Chris Lane) (10/23/90)

In article <1990Oct18.154041.6433@ora.com> king@kestrel.edu writes:

>I think that on the whole technology is or should be feminists' best
>friend. 

This is the position Shulamith Firestone takes in The Dialect of Sex.
She's in the school of Engels and, hate to say it, dialectical
materialism.  When technology allows men to bear children and women to
screw around with no worry of getting pregnant, gender will
effectively, materially, be dissolved.  She has a little chart with the
progress of history, through the final victory and the end of history.
She criticizes Engels' for making means of production of goods and
services the "ultimate" dialect (marxism, the politics of class),
rather than the reproduction of labor the ultimate dialect (feminism,
the politics of sex, in her view)

Of course, she didn't address race in a meaningful way, and in fact, race
tends to contradict this rosy view of history.  There is no meaningful
physical distinction between the races, not really, in a biological sense,
meaningful races even.  Nonetheless, there is tremendious racism and
power imbalances along race lines.  

Nowadays, it seems that reasonable people recognize that, since there is no
rigorous understandning of people, whether as individuals or in groups, there
is no good to be gained by making this or that aspect "fundamental."  Racism,
sexism, class bias, homophobia, blindess to "nature", etc., are all
sapping the vitality and joy of living on this planet.  None of them is
acceptable (tho all of them are tolerated by their victims).

Chris
-- 
"Life's a bitch and then you die."      cel@cs.duke.edu
Down with Gender!  
Enjoy today.  

RA04@Lehigh.UCAR.EDU (10/23/90)

Re: dk's two facts (1-men are on avg stronger than women; 2-technology
can compensate for women's lesser strength), I accept without argument,
for I think that women's use of machines can liberate both women and
men.  But the point I was making is that our culture's "man against,"
"conquest of," and similar conceptions are unnecessarily competitive
yet valued, whereas cooperative conceptual models are unnecessarily
devalued as "weak."  The valued and the devalued are by false analogy
connected to notions of "strong / masculine" and "weak / feminine"; in
this context, feminism can encourage world-views in which humans work
within natural systems without trying to dominate or annihilate them.

                                                                  r.a.

jan@orc.olivetti.com (Jan Parcel) (10/26/90)

In article <4955@watson> uunet!mitel!watson!watson@ncar.UCAR.EDU (Steve Watson) writes:
>Last year the Ontario College of Art instituted a policy according to which
>teaching vacancies will only be available to WOMEN.  This will continue
>until the faculty is 50% women.  At current turnover rates, this should
>take 10 or 20 years.  (I may have some details wrong, corrections welcome)

>2) I'm not saying all feminists, or feminism-in-general are doing this: I
>take it as an example of feminism gone crazy.

This reminds me of stories I hear from my sister.

My sister knows of organizations that put off and put off their self-examination
as to why they're not getting minority applicants until 9 out of 10 positions
are filled, just like my kids put off starting their term papers.  Then,
at the 11th hour, they start telling whites that they can't be hired 
*because* they are white, when a large part of the story is that they have
been ignoring AA methods such as posting and advertising fairly, have been
hiring through the old boys' network, and only because of AA do they have to
even make an effort to find 1 minority applicant.  If they had been doing
their job all along, the "minority" position would have been filled along with
the first 9, by interviewing a varied pool.  And they would have already
found enough variety that that 10th position would be "available for"
whoever came along, regardless of race and gender.

AA is supposed to be a committment to tracking one's progress in
overcoming conscious and unconscious institutional discrimination.  When
institutions start telling white males "sorry, we're only hiring women
and minorities now" they are usually trying to INCREASE sexism and racism,
not overcome it, IMHO.

If the org you mentioned only gets 1 opening every 5 years, and has an
all-male staff, and is looking for a woman to round it out *as* a *teaching*
institution, then only considering women might be fine.  If it has
100 positions, 99 male, and interviews for, say, 8 positions a year, then they
should recruit like hell for the qualities they need, including an
insider's expertise on women's art (which is not a given just because
the teacher is female), and if they find exceptionally qualified men
occasionally, then hire them.  I would expect this to yield at least
50% women new-hires for quite awhile without having to ban the hiring of
men.

The problem is often that the old order *defines* qualified as
"has the same viewpoint and information I have," which makes it a catch-22 
for obtaining people with diverse viewpoints and knowledge.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ jan@orc.olivetti.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
We must worship Universal Consciousness as each of the 5 genders in turn
if we wish to be fully open to Yr glory.
						-- St. Xyphlb of Alpha III

judy@altair.la.locus.com (Judy Leedom Tyrer) (10/26/90)

In article <20109001:45:10RA04@lehigh.bitnet> RA04@Lehigh.UCAR.EDU writes:
>....  But the point I was making is that our culture's "man against,"
>"conquest of," and similar conceptions are unnecessarily competitive
>yet valued, whereas cooperative conceptual models are unnecessarily
>devalued as "weak."  The valued and the devalued are by false analogy
>connected to notions of "strong / masculine" and "weak / feminine"; in
>this context, feminism can encourage world-views in which humans work
>within natural systems without trying to dominate or annihilate them.
>
>                                                                  r.a.

Your statement seems to boil down to "men have ruined the earth because they
are inherantly competetive and women will save the earth because they
are inherantly cooperative."  This is a prime example of the "everything evil 
is caused by men" diatribe which I think is so detrimental to the feminist 
movement.  It is sexist, patently false, and overly simplistic.

Cooperative conceptual models are necessary for team sports such as football
(male) and the conversion of rain forest to cities (bad for the environment).
Not to mention that women are as competitive, uncooperative, and selfish
as men.

Judy

judy@altair.la.locus.COM (Judy Leedom Tyrer) (10/26/90)

In article <656123957@lear.cs.duke.edu> gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) writes:
>In article <17931@oolong.la.locus.com> (Judy Leedom Tyrer) writes:
>>Some feminists (me) also believe in minimum federal government and actually
>>believe that such things as ERA and Abortion Rights legitimately belong
>>at the State level.
>
>And in how many states you lost the vote on state ERA, even though
>the popular support before the debate started was quite high?

My apologies.  The ERA calls for a constitutional ammendment and that
is legislation at the federal level, therefore I am not distressed
that the ERA did not pass.

[Constitutional amendment calls for ratification by 2/3's of the
states, which was why ERA got voted on in each state although it was
federal level legislation.  --CLT]

>And how many abortion right laws did you pass, at state level,
>in the last 15 years?

None were necessary in the past 15 years.  Now the right of abortion
will be discussed at the state level where, I believe, it belongs.

-----

Herein lies the problem.  I believe that it is important to have a
consistant political philosophy and not base your philosophy on "in
this case it should be this way and in that case that way".  So, while
I believe that discrimination based on gender is detrimental to our
country, I have a hard time believing that a constitutional ammendment
is the correct or best method of achieving this result.  Yes, I want
this kind of protection at the federal level, but I don't want the
kind of government which is created when everything is legislated at
the federal level.  The same applies to abortion.

So, I must ask myself, what is worse - a strong federal government
that legislates the lives of a divergent group of people, or the
possiblity that some smaller, more heterogeneous group of people might
legislate differently than I believe they should.  I think the former
is more dangerous and less desirable, so I must, to remain politically
consistant, accept that my special interests also do not belong in the
hands of our federal government.

I am not a libertarian.  I believe in government.  But the federal
government should only provide for a common defense, legislate
interstate commerce, determine foreigh policy, and collect taxes for
these functions.  I do NOT want them legislating speed limits, drug
laws, building codes, welfare, education, art, abortion, etc.

So, I am one feminist, and suspect I am not the only one, who believes
that the special interests of feminism do not outweigh the need for a
representative government as I believe ours was originally conceived
to be.  Our country is just too diverse for people to be best
represented by a central agency.

Judy

gcf@hombre.masa.com (10/27/90)

judy@altair.la.locus.COM (Judy Leedom Tyrer):

>So, I must ask myself, what is worse - a strong federal government
>that legislates the lives of a divergent group of people, or the
>possiblity that some smaller, more heterogeneous group of people might
>legislate differently than I believe they should.  I think the former
>is more dangerous and less desirable, so I must, to remain politically
>consistant, accept that my special interests also do not belong in the
>hands of our federal government.

>I am not a libertarian.  I believe in government.  But the federal
>government should only provide for a common defense, legislate
>interstate commerce, determine foreigh policy, and collect taxes for
>these functions.  I do NOT want them legislating speed limits, drug
>laws, building codes, welfare, education, art, abortion, etc.  ...

Many people who do not believe in a large role for the Federal
government nevertheless believe that it is advantageous to have
it protect rights.  The writers of the Constitution would seem
to have agreed.  According to Roe v. Wade, the right to abortion
is part of a right to privacy which is similar to, say, the right
of free speech, that is, it is a right which the Federal
government ought to protect.  It is not some kind of special
program or benefit for a selected group of people, and the only
expenditure involved is that which is already being used to 
support the political primacy of the Federal government (that is,
the courts and sufficient military and police forces to compel
compliance, if necessary).

If you are saying that the Federal government has no role in
rights protection, I find this an interesting point of view;  I
believe you would also have to favor going back to the Articles
of Confederation to find a governmental structure which would
conform to this view.

Otherwise -- if the Federal government ought to protect rights --
assigning the abortion question to the separate states implies
that it is a lesser right, or perhaps not a right at all, but
something a state may license some of its citizens to do, if it
chooses.

A similar set of observations could be made about ERA.

May I remind our moderators, who are about to advise us to take
this discussion to talk.politics.theory, that rights protection
has been repeatedly portrayed here as the sole thesis of feminism 
(although not by me); what these rights are, and how they are to
be protected, is therefore a feminist issue.
--
Gordon Fitch  |  uunet!hombre!mydog!gcf

RA04@Lehigh.UCAR.EDU (10/31/90)

The Ontario College of Art's women-only hiring criteria mentioned here
sounds suspiciously like an "affirmative action" taken chiefly so that
it can be thrown out as obviously unfair.  I know of such a situation
in an American university; several departments were all men, and the
university had a bunch of federal dollars coming in, so some kind of
AA had to be instituted, so the guys in dept ---- were unfairly beat
on because their field was kind of wimpy, y'know, not EE or CE, and so
the top men in that dept made a point of hiring some very mediocre
women as new asst profs, with the intention of terminating them for
not meeting department standards before the tenure decision rolled
around.  And ya wonder why some feminists feel paranoid?

                              r.a.