[soc.feminism] Post-divorce quality of life

turpin@cs.utexas.EDU (Russell Turpin) (11/27/90)

In article <kaveh.658769285@s.ms.uky.edu> kaveh@ms.uky.edu (Kaveh Baharestan) writes:
> That's true only if he pays alimony, and then not really.  A
> while back I got some stats on divores.  The man's quality
> of living goes up 30% and the woman's (who usually has the
> kids) goes down 60%.  Note: I could be wrong on the
> percentages but I am not wrong on the unevenness of quality
> of living. ...

Most likely, you're dead wrong.

Like all such statistics, before knowing what it means, one has to
know how it was created.  Did the study look at divorces resulting
from the judgments in one area at one time, or just at a broad
collection of divorced couples?  (Divorce judgments have changed
a lot in the last fifteen years in some states.  Lumping together
divorces that took place in Texas fifteen years ago with divorces
that take place today in California is guaranteed to generate
useless numbers.)

Most importantly, one has to ask how the study defined "quality
of life".  Many men would say that in the only regard that is
really important, to wit, whether they can continue a parental
relationship with their children, they lose hands down almost
every time the issue is contested.  Of course, if the study is
designed so that custody is viewed only as a cost, then women
seem to lose.  For example, I have no doubt that many divorced
men have more "free time" than their ex-wives.  The problem is
that they would rather have their children back than the "free
time" that absence creates.  Thus, a "well designed" study can
show that the losers are winners and winners are losers.

Russell

ma@hpclove.cup.hp.COM (Megan Adams) (12/07/90)

In article <kaveh.658769285@s.ms.uky.edu> kaveh@ms.uky.edu (Kaveh Baharestan) writes:
> That's true only if he pays alimony, and then not really.  A
> while back I got some stats on divores.  The man's quality
> of living goes up 30% and the woman's (who usually has the
> kids) goes down 60%.  Note: I could be wrong on the
> percentages but I am not wrong on the unevenness of quality
> of living. ...

To the above, Russel Turpin addresses the following (valid) questions:

> Did the study look at divorces resulting
> from the judgments in one area at one time, or just at a broad
> collection of divorced couples?  (Divorce judgments have changed
> a lot in the last fifteen years in some states.  Lumping together
> divorces that took place in Texas fifteen years ago with divorces
> that take place today in California is guaranteed to generate
> useless numbers.)
>
> Most importantly, one has to ask how the study defined "quality
> of life".

I've read the same stats. My recollections are that they were drawn
from California only, and they were intended to measure the effect of
california's no-fault divorce laws. 'Quality of life' wasn't being
measured; income subsequent to divorce was. That is, the study found
that subsequent to divorce the standard of living of the (ex) wife
fell around 60%, while the (ex) husband's rose about 30%. The results
were published in a book, whose title unfortuneately I forget. As a
result of the study, questions were raised about the fairness of
no-fault in some cases.

megana.

dhw@ncar.ucar.EDU ("David H. West") (12/07/90)

In article <kaveh.658769285@s.ms.uky.edu> kaveh@ms.uky.edu (Kaveh Baharestan) writes:
| A while back I got some stats on divores.  The man's quality
| of living goes up 30% and the woman's (who usually has the
| kids) goes down 60%.  Note: I could be wrong on the
| percentages but I am not wrong on the unevenness of quality
| of living. ...

Hmm.  Anyone have corresponding figures broken down by kids/no kids?
Anyone have corresponding figures for the effect of *marriage* on
standard of living?

-David West    dhw@iti.org