[soc.feminism] Book Review: Don't Bet on the Prince

muffy@remarque.berkeley.edu (Muffy Barkocy) (05/01/91)

Title: Don't Bet on the Prince
Editor: Jack Zipes

This is a book of "feminist fairy tales."  I've always been a big fan of
fairy tales, and I never really saw them as sexist.  Even after reading
this book, I'm not sure that I do.  I went back and re-read several
books of fairy tales, and I think that they, like people, vary widely.
However, this book also points out biases towards money, beauty,
marriage, etc., and those are certainly visible in the other books of
fairy tales.  Unfortunately, there seems to be a consistent bias in this
book, with the men frequently being portrayed as evil, stupid, vain,
etc.  It's not unrealistic in the portrayals, but it could have been
more balanced. The stories are very enjoyable, though.

The book consists of a fairly long introduction, sixteen fairy tales, by
various authors, and four "feminist literary criticism" essays.

The introduction is well worth reading, particularly for the references
to other books, several of which are on my list for my next trip to a
good bookstore.

The fairy tales vary quite a bit.  They're by many different authors;
most of them female.  Some that I recognize (mostly from SF/Fantasy) are
Tanith Lee, Jane Yolen, Joanna Russ, and Margaret Atwood.  Some of the
stories are not what I think of as fairy tales, but I don't know what an
exact definition of a fairy tale would be.

A non-exact definition is a story which involves magic or monsters,
mostly humanoid, such as ogres, giants, elves, fairies, witches, etc.
One of the stories in particular, Margaret Atwood's "Bluebeard's Egg" is
a story which contains a reference to fairy tales rather than a fairy
tale itself.  However, this is one of the best (and longest) stories in
the book; the characters are drawn very well and I was drawn along by
the story; I wanted to keep reading it.

One of the other very good stories was also "not a fairy tale."  "The
Green Woman" by Meghan B. Collins.  Again, though, it was well-written
and kept my attention.  The only story I really didn't like much was "A
Fairy Tale for Our Time" by the editor of the book, Jack Zipes.  In it,
the "message" seemed much more important (to the author) than the story.
If anything, this book points out that the messages in fairy tales are
fairly subtle, concealed in the story, and in the impact of a series of
similarly-biased stories.  Anyway, I just don't like stories that try to
force their ideas and messages down my throat (or whatever the
equivalent is in my brain...*smile*).

I suppose the other main deviation from my idea of a "fairy tale" is the
rather dark aspect of many of the stories.  They are, perhaps, more
"realistic" than the standard fairy tales provided for children; I only
remember a few fairy tales that seemed particularly dark to me.
Actually, on considering it, I'm really thinking of the western European
fairy tales as being less dark, but the fairy tales in this book are
also from North America and England.

The essays were all very interesting.  I didn't always agree with the
writers, but their ideas were presented very clearly, and not angrily or
vehemently, which I would find hard to read and take seriously.
Particularly interesting was an analysis, by the editor of the book, of
the pictures used to illustrate Little Red Riding Hood over the years.
I am not sure whether or not I agree with it (I think I don't), even
after reading it several times, but it certainly caused me to think.

Reading this book was worthwhile and has encouraged me to read and learn
more about fairy tales, particularly the new ones that are being written
by people who find the old ones unsatisfactory.  I would like to find
more stories that strike me as unbiased, both for myself and for reading
by my children, if I ever have any.

Muffy