[soc.feminism] Book Review: Femininity

tittle@ics.UCI.EDU (Cindy Tittle Moore) (05/22/91)

Review by Cindy Tittle Moore
May 8, 1991

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Femininity
by Susan Brownmiller
Fawcett Columbine, New York, 1984
ISBN: 0-449-90142-4 (trade paperback)
Library of Congress: 84-91664

All page numbers given are from the trade paperback version.


This book is straightforward, easy to read and easy to review.
Brownmiller explores the various ramifications of ``femininity.''
There are no flashy pyrotechnics, no dazzling theories, no shocking
exposes.  She tells of the facts and consequences of women trying to
match the feminine ideal.  I have only several comments.

Given Brownmiller's reputation for advocating censorship of
pornography and suppression of sadomasochistic behavior, it is
surprising that neither of these themes were expounded upon in this
book.  To be sure, some analysis of pornography is included, but
analyzing pornography is separate from censoring it.  The analysis is
confined mainly to illuminating aspects of pornography that reinforce
(undesireable, from the feminist point of view) popular notions of
femininity; very standard stuff.  In addition, given her prior and
subsequent tendency to exemplify women and demonize men, she offers in
this book a surprisingly balanced view of women and men.  E.g.:

  ``When nuturing acts are performed by men, they are interpreted as
  extraordinary or possibly suspect.  When nurturance is provided by
  maids, housekeepers, kindergarten teachers or practical nurses, its
  value in the marketplace remains low.'' (pg 222) [Notice the gender
  free occupational designations (except for maid).]

  ``The human sentiments of motherhood (goodness, self-sacrifice and a
  specialty in taking care of the wants of others) are without question
  desirable characteristics for the raising of children, but I would
  argue strenuously that women do not possess these traits to a greater
  degree by biological tendency than men.'' (pg 230)

Unlike her previous work in    Against Our Will , Brownmiller does
not try to present women as perfect:

  ``That a sizeable number of mothers have no genuine aptitude for the
  job  of motherhood  is verified by the records of hospitals,
  family courts and social agencies where cases of battery and neglect
  are duly entered---and perhaps also by the characteristic upper-class
  custom of leaving the little ones to the care of the nanny.  But
  despite this evidence that day-to-day motherhood is not a suitable or
  a stimulating occupation for all, the myth persists that a woman who
  prefers to remain childless must be heartless or selfish or less than
  complete.'' (pg 214)

In sum, this is a competently written book, but there is little new
material here for the person already familiar with the basic feminist
objections to feminine ideals.  It is a good and readable book for
those just beginning to familiarize themselves with this area of
feminist thought.  The simple and straightforward presentation of the
material in particular makes it non-threatening for those who want to
find out more about the subject without feeling like they are being
attacked (either for being men or for being ``feminine'' women).


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