[soc.religion.christian] Eden and Relations between the Sexes

kilroy@gboro.glassboro.edu (Dr Nancy's Sweetie) (04/18/91)

OFM wrote that the "derangement of relations between the sexes was a
consequence of [the first sin]," and Jim Green replied:

>Derangement???  What 'derangement between the sexes'?  What is he 
>talking about???  Any derangement here is belief that the so called
>sin of the Garden of Eden had anything to do with sex.

While I would not put words into our Moderator's keyboard, I see two kinds
of "derangement" in relations between the sexes: problems with the ways men
and women interact, and sinful abuses of sexuality.

For the first, one need only look at TV shows and movies which are based on
men complaining that women are capricious, or women complaining that men are
insensitive.  Many magazine articles purport to explain "what makes your man
tick" or "ten things men should know about women".  These programs, movies
and articles are immensely popular: many men and women are apparently quite
lost when relating to each other -- even when they are spouses, according to
divorce statistics.  This confusion does not seem consistent with God's plan
to make Adam a "suitable" helper (Genesis 2:18); I believe that these
problems are a result of Original Sin -- and therefore the sin of Eden.

For the second, consider sins like adultery, child molestation, and rape.
As I see it, using one of God's gifts to betray, abuse, and assault other
humans constitutes "derangement" of that gift.


I believe that all these problems between men & women result from humans
being fallen, sinful creatures.  In Romans 5:12 it says "sin entered the
world through one man," and it seems a natural conclusion that the problems
which plague relations between the sexes result from that sin.

I do not know what Mr Green means by his comment that "Any derangement here
is belief that the so called sin of the Garden of Eden had anything to do
with sex."  If the sin in Eden did not cause the problems men & women have
interacting (including the sinful abuses of sexuality), what did?


kilroy@gboro.glassboro.edu      Darren F. Provine      ...njin!gboro!kilroy
"The first thing that strikes the careless observer is that women are unlike
 men.  They are `the opposite sex' -- (though why `opposite' I do not know;
 what is the `neighbouring sex'?).  But the fundamental thing is that women
 are more like men than anything else in the world.  They are human beings."
                                                        -- Dorothy L Sayers

grossg@patriot.rtp.dg.com (Gene Gross) (05/03/91)

In article <Apr.18.03.14.18.1991.7239@athos.rutgers.edu> kilroy@gboro.glassboro.edu (Dr Nancy's Sweetie) writes:
>
>I do not know what Mr Green means by his comment that "Any derangement here
>is belief that the so called sin of the Garden of Eden had anything to do
>with sex."  If the sin in Eden did not cause the problems men & women have
>interacting (including the sinful abuses of sexuality), what did?

I dont't want to put words in Mr. Green's mouth, but I think that what
he was saying was simply that sex, per se, was not the act of sin that
caused the fall.  Rather, the fall was caused by disobedience to God
by eating the "forbidden fruit."  The "forbidden fruit" was not sex;
otherwise, how could Adam and Eve have been obedient to the command to
be fruitful and to multiply if sex was sinful.

jclark@sdcc6.ucsd.edu (John Clark) (05/10/91)

In article <May.3.03.29.46.1991.24578@athos.rutgers.edu> grossg@patriot.rtp.dg.com (Gene Gross) writes:
+by eating the "forbidden fruit."  The "forbidden fruit" was not sex;
+otherwise, how could Adam and Eve have been obedient to the command to
+be fruitful and to multiply if sex was sinful.

The 'sin' could have been enjoying the processing of getting to the
multiplication tables.

It seems that Augustine cemented the concept of "original sin" and
sexual congress is thereby "sin", for if sex is not sinful how could
the result of sex, procreation, become inately sinful. There has in
the past been debates as whether one(probably the man) should
'enjoy' the act or perform a prefunctatory duty, to be done with all
due hast. Until recently, one might surmise, the woman was to
dutifully submit but not particularly enjoy the proceedings.
-- 

John Clark
jclark@ucsd.edu

mcorbin@scicom.AlphaCDC.COM (Michael Corbin) (05/19/91)

Perhaps procreation would have been similar to the experience that Mary
had when "overshadowed" by the Holy Spirit, and the birth of Jesus.  I 
tend to agree that the original sin had something also to do with the possible 
relationship or communion that Eve had with the "serpent."  In turn, she 
persuaded her husband to commit an act with her.

Mike
 

hudson@athena.cs.uga.edu (Paul Hudson Jr) (05/22/91)

In article <May.18.22.56.45.1991.14219@athos.rutgers.edu> mcorbin@scicom.AlphaCDC.COM (Michael Corbin) writes:
>Perhaps procreation would have been similar to the experience that Mary
>had when "overshadowed" by the Holy Spirit, and the birth of Jesus.  I 
>tend to agree that the original sin had something also to do with the possible 
>relationship or communion that Eve had with the "serpent."  In turn, she 
>persuaded her husband to commit an act with her.
>
>Mike
> 

Do you think that if Adam and Eve had not fallen, that they would not
have had intercourse?  Do you think that this was the sin that they
commited together.

Before Adam fell, then God created him and Eve he said, "Two shall be
one flesh."  What was this refering to?  hmmm.  I think in part, it
was refering to a sexual union.  Why?  Look at how it is used in I
Corinthians 6.  Paul quotes this and tells the people not to commit
fornication because they should not try to join Christ with a harlot
(sexually, of course.  I am sure he was not saying anything against
preaching to prostitutes.)  Here we see "one flesh" being used to
refer to the sexual union.  If you will look at Matthew 19, Jesus
shows that that two becoming one flesh was ordained by God.

Also look at the Scriptural attitude in Hebrews 13.  'Marriage is holy
in all, and the bed undefiled; but whoremongers, adn adulterers, God
will judge."

It remnants of certain aspects of Western culture that give us the
idea that the marital union is inately bad.  God created it.  Only the
perversion of it is bad.  Link Hudson.