[soc.religion.christian] Sexuality, morality and the church

mark@uunet.uu.net (Mark Richter) (05/18/91)

OK, time to stir things up. I've seen numerous quotes from
1 Corinthians 6 in this place, and they are frequently used
to justify ejecting or rejecting certain persons from the
church based on their sexual preference. When I read this
chapter, Paul seems to be pretty clear. 

*But*, what I am struggling with (in the process of understanding
the hubbub currently underway in the Presbyterian church) is 
how all the Biblical references I can find on sexuality and sin
stack up against the ministry of Jesus. So, in hopes of getting
a constructive discussion going, I posit the following: Taken
as a whole, the ministry of Jesus is one of inclusion, not exclusion.
In fact Jesus sought out sinners, not believers. I posit that Paul's 
seemingly clear treatise on the subject of sexuality and sin is 
not clear at all, and, moreover, that Jesus *never* would have preached 
such things in the same way Paul seems to have. Consider the story of 
the adultress and the casting of the first stone and the command
of Jesus "go and sin no more". (He didn't say, "Get out.")

Please, sombody tear into me and show me where I'm right or wrong.

Mark D. Richter
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mark@apexsc.com


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[In every case I can think of, Jesus asked the sinners he sought out
to repent.  I can't think of any examples where he dealt with
unrepentant sinners, except perhaps the rich young ruler, who he dealt
with a certain show of discipline I think.

Church censure has always been a ticklish issue, and whenever it was
used, there have been questions of how it should be used.  One view in
the patristic period was that public sins should be censured publicly,
and private sins dealt with privately.

A situation happened not long ago in a church far enough away that I
think I can describe it without violating any confidentiality.  (It's
not in my denomination nor anywhere near here.  A friend described the
situation.)  One church employee began having an affair with a church
member.  At least one was married.  The church suspended the employee.
This led him to get counselling, and seems to have helped facilitate a
happy ending.  This is an example of a situation where the church had
such an obvious and public involvement that to avoid doing anything
would be visible countenancing of the sin.  Election of church
officers would seem to be another case.  No one expects them to be
perfect.  But they are examples.  Thus their character does seem
relevant.

On the other hand, no one wants the church to start encouraging
members to be busybodies.  Nor do we want to develop into a kind of
hypocrisy where there are certain visible sins that people have a
particular aversion to, and we only pay attention to them.  

There is a special danger in using church discipline where there are
disagreements about standards.  Church discipline is most useful to
help people who have been become thoughtless or lax, but accept the
relevance of the standards.  When there are disagreements about
standards, church discipline is unlikely to lead to healing.  You may
still use it if the majority believes it is an unacceptably bad
witness to allow the action to be present in the church.  But this is
a horse of a rather different color than the example I gave above.

The question is where to draw the line.  It seems that this is going
to depend somewhat upon the expectations of the members.  Church
discipline is only useful if members accept its use as helpful rather
than intrusive.  Any church is going to have to develop a strategy
that is appropriate to its members' expectations and standards, fits
in with an overall strategy of pastoral care for members, and that
everyone accepts as being done in love.  This is clearly a difficult
problem.  Many churches (including mine) seem to prefer not to do
anything.  Perhaps members from churches that do practice church
discipline would like to describe their policies and (to the extent
that confidentiality allows) some of their experiences.

--clh]

hudson@athena.cs.uga.edu (Paul Hudson Jr) (05/19/91)

I disagree with the "posit"ion that Jesus would not condone Paul's
stance on excluding certain members for sexual immorality.  1.  Jesus
associated with sinners.  Jesus ate and drank with tax collectors.
One time he even stopped the stoning of a woman who had been caught in
the very act of adultery (but for some reason, the guilty man was not
with her, as he should have been.)  Notice his words to her.  "Neither
do I condemn thee.  Go and sin no more."  Jesus forgave her sin.

At one time, he said to the Pharisees that they that are whole need
not a physician, but they that are sick.  Jesus was a phisician to the
spiritually sick tax collectors and prostitutes.  But notice that
Jesus harsh words were to the Pharisees, who were supposed to be the
people of God, but were filled with unrighteousness.  They did not
keep their own burdensome laws that they put on others.  They loved to
recieve the honor of men, but did not care as much about what God
thought.  Jesus called many of them hypocrites.  In the same way, Paul
was harsh on those who claimed to know the truth, but lived in sin.

Look at I Corinthians 5:9-10, "I wrote to you in an epistle not to
company with fornicators: Yet not altogether with fornicators of this
world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters: for
then we must needs go out of the world."  In other words we can eat
with sinners, just as Jesus did!  Yet the next verse says that if a
man claims to be a brother and does these things, we should not keep
company with him, or even eat with him.

Look at Matthew 18:15-17.  I know that it applies specifically to when
one sins against another, but we can make application to this
situation.  If one sins agaisnt us, we are to go to him and tell him.
If he listens, we have gained a brother.  If he will not, then we are
to take one or two more with us, so that every word maybe established.
If he will still not listen, then finally we take him before the
church.  If he will not listen, then we are to treat him as a heathen
and a publican.

back then, when the disciples were still ruled by the Pharisees, they
were taught that they were not to eat with the heathen and tax
collectors (as we see formt he Pharisees words to Jesus in the passage
I previously refered to.)  The disciples were told not to associate
with the man.  Of course, after the ressurection, it was revealed that
it was okay to associate with heathens (Gentiles) and the disciples
had the example of Jesus in witnessing to sinners.

I think that Jesus and Paul were in perfect agreement.  Associate with
sinners, but not it they claim to be Christians and will not hear the
truth.  Maybe we can get into a discussion about dust-shaking if we
stay on this topic.

Link Hudson

tas@pegasus.com (Len Howard) (05/22/91)

Mark, here is one vote in support of your position.  I also believe
Jesus taught an incusionary philosophy.  He came to the world, not to
hob-nob with the priests and pharasees, but to save sinners.  He WANTS
sinners to repent and become part of the body of Christ.  We do not
make them part of the body by excluding them from participation.