David.Alford@f370.n107.z1.fidonet.org (David Alford) (10/26/90)
John's ex finally dumped him, and I believe its because he refused to
take a test with him.
I've somewhat lost my train of thought, and don't even remember what my
initial intention was for writing this message. But I just want to know
the opinions on others, as far as what I should do for John at this
point, and what I should say to him.
My other friend (who was there taking the test) is very knowledgable
about HIV and the existing treatments. He knows how to talk to people
about it. Hes offered to step in and talk to John about it, but I don't
know how we should approach John when bringing in my other friend as a
third-party. It may only upset John more. (my other friend hasnt
talked with John since we all took the test).
I sometimes wish I would have never talked John into taking the test.
But still care for the guy, and I don't want to see him get sick.
In fact, I would be open to a relationship with him even though hes
infected. But hes not interested. Even when I try to give him a
friendly hug, at home or in a bar, he jumps away and tells me not to
touch him. Its really wierd. But hes always been that way, but moreso
with me than others. Some say its because hes is attracted to me, but
is afraid of it going any further.
Anyway, thanks for reading my three-part message.
I hope to get some insight as of what to do next.
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