frye@cuuxb.UUCP (frye) (10/13/86)
Except that I'd have to say that the whole mess of who'd going to sacrifice carreer and such should be discussed before the wedding. This and lotsa other things should be talked over before the knot gets tied. But beware, once its all down in concrete how yer gonna handle things, some wise ass will come along with an air hammer and bust up the slab for ya...Dontcha just hate that?!? And I'd have to agree that it wouldn't be too bright to ave kids if both parties didn't want to have kids...I'm sure a body could find a partner who's feelings match on that score if he/she looked long enough. Oh, BTW, its nice to see this topic in here (even if it has been discussed before...). Goes to show that people know that 'Beaver Breath' isn't the most important topic(8-). One other thought on fairness in regard to career goals vs. family life. Life was never promised to be fair...So hedge yer bets, people. Discuss all those important topics before ya tie the knot...Your conclusions may not be a 50/50 split in the fairness department, but if ya got a good headstart on the subject...''s better than just taking what life shakes down to ya. Then too, I don't care whether the rest of the world thinks what you and your wife/husband do is fair as long as the two of you can get along with what you decide. Make any sense? No, huh?(8-) I'll try again later, if I'm awake... Regards, Ol' Grizzly (hibernatin'...ZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZZzzzzzz)