[net.abortion] Smugness & Consequences

act@pur-phy.UUCP (Alex C. Tselis) (12/06/84)

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>	Some interesting points are brought out in that posting,
>but I think the argument that abortion prevents future suffering
>is fundamentally flawed.  Abortion also prevents a future geniuses
>although, perhaps, to a lesser extent.  Two wrongs do not make a right!
>Child abuse, malnutrition, lousy school systems, etc. are 
>terrible things, but the cure, hopefully, is not more abortions.
>These problems need to be solved separately, both with and without
>state aid.
>	Abortion may indeed be a practical solution to many problems,
>both personal and social, but the essential issues are moral and
>legal.

Note: My husband's response to the "lost geniuses" point
expresses my attitude as well, although I would like to add
that the world has probably lost more geniuses from 
racial, religious, economic & sexual discrimination than from abortion. A
hefty number of potential geniuses also *die* from abuse and
neglect after they're born, too, and while we're looking at
where all the geniuses have gone, let's not forget that great
male pastime of war... 

I agree that abortion is a practical solution to many
problems, but I also think that it is a *moral* one. What Mr.
Hummel doesn't address is my point about parenthood being a
commitment. Look at the number of divorced fathers who don't
pay child support and/or who don't remain active parents to
their children. Many of these men are failing in their
commitments to children they *chose* to have. If people who
*choose* to make a commitment frequently fail in keeping that
commitment, just what are the chances of people keeping a
commitment they never voluntarily made? Is it *moral* to
*force* someone to be a parent? Is that fair to either the
parent or the child? If you, Mr. Hummel, force someone to bear
a child, who really should be responsible for that child? The
person who bore it or you?
And the problem of *forcing* parents to feel a commitment to
their children is one that no government can solve. That is
something that has to come from within & voluntarily, or it
isn't valid.
My biggest problem with anti-abortionists is that they don't
seem to care about parenthood or children or at least they
don't seem to think about it very much. I'd give more thought
to adopting another cat than anti-abortionists imply is
necessary in bringing a child into the world. Is that *moral*?
Anti-abortionists are a very active, very forceful group.
And all of their activity (or all of it that *I* can see) is
directed at forcing more children to be born not in helping
those children who are already here or trying to keep children
from being born by means other than abortion.
As I said earlier, I have to run a gauntlet whenever I go to
Planned Parenthood. The anti-abortionists want to intimidate
*everyone* who goes to that clinic. They don't care if you're
trying to *prevent* an abortion (by getting a contraceptive),
or if you're trying to *prevent* death &/or disease (by
getting a PAP smear or VD test), or trying to help your baby be
healthy (by getting pre-natal advice), or if you're really going for
an abortion. No matter what business a woman has in that
building, she has to walk through a double line of protesters
who scream "Nazi" in her ears & throw pamphlets at her & try
to block her access to the building. Now I happen to be fairly
tall for a woman & 26 & very sure of myself, so they don't
keep me out. But I think they do keep younger or even older or
more frail women out, until those women are driven by real
desperation (like they're pregnant).
Not only are these people contributing to the number of
abortions, they're directing a lot of energy into fetuses that
could be better spent helping the children who are here now.
If human lives are sacred to them, then why don't they go help
a few humans? Why aren't *they* dispensing contraceptives? Why
aren't *they* opening shelters for battered women & children? Or
organizing support groups for parents who are in stressful
situations that contribute to child abuse? Some of the right
wing groups that are close to Ronald Reagan have actually
tried to make it *illegal* for the government to act against child abusers
when the abuser is the father because such laws offer
what they see as unconstitutional "interference with a *man's
right to control his* family." (See the package of legislation
called the "Family Protection Act of 1981.")
There are sins of omission as well as of commission. If you
devote the preponderence of your energy and your time and your
money to save fetuses when there are already far too many (one
is too many & there are *millions*) starving and/or beaten
and/or neglected children in the world, then you are choosing
the unborn over the living. In my opinion, that is not the
most moral choice. And when you want to *force* people to have
children but refuse to take responsibility for those children,
then that is being irresponsible.

					submitted by Alex Tselis 
					for C. Elizabeth Jackson
					(...ihnp4!lznv!cja)