[net.religion.jewish] Mixed marriages, Jewish Mothers, and other questions

avi@pegasus.UUCP (Avi E. Gross) (02/26/84)

Steve Kramer (axiom!smk):
	The reason Jews are Jews if their mothers are Jews is simply (and
	this is true) -- you know who your mother it -- you can't always
	be sure of the father.

Me:
Steve is right. Alas, modern medicine does not cooperate very well with the
reasons for Jewish Law. Due to recent advances, it is very possible that a
woman can deliver a baby -- without even knowing who the biological parents
of her child (sic) are. It is even possible to have a "virgin birth"!!!!
(Well, at least until the hymen is broken during birth (unless done by
Caesarian section -- which leaves a scar) :-)

The implantation procedure can be done without leaving a scar or other
traces. Currently, paternity tests can only prove that you are NOT the
father. They can never prove that you ARE the father, unless it is proven
that you do not have an identical twin somewhere, and you test the entire
male population of the world!!! Maternity tests would suffer from the same
limitations. I don't even want to talk about cloning, which would raise an
entirely new set of issues.

How would this affect hallacha? Should we lock up a woman for several
months before and after conception -- to keep any doctors away from her
womb? Is it really fair to Jewish men to not allow their children to be
considered Jewish if they claim that the child is their own? I know that
this issue has driven wedges between the Orthodox Jews and some elements of
the more liberal Reform Jews. I accept the fact that Orthodoxy can probably
never change this rule for themselves.

As long as I am on the issue, what are the religious views on other
reproductive issues in various flavors of Judaism? Remembering that, as Andy
said, the only form of Judaism that is truly related to classical Judaism is
the Orthodox variety, please qualify your remarks by stating which branch of
the faith, as well as which authority, allows you to make your statement in
their behalf.

The specific issues I am curious about include, but are not limited to:
   +	Allowable birth control methods.
   +	(I shudder to raise the issue again) Abortion. I don't want to start
	a (de)moralizing debate about this issue. I just want to know if
	your local congregation/group feels it is never/always/sometimes
	allowed.
   +	Is artificial insemination allowed? If so, any restrictions on
	who the donor can be?
   +	Is voluntary sterilization allowed?

I know many of the answers for some groups, but I am willing to bet there is
a wide divergence of Jewish opinion on this topic -- particularly among the
large number of Jews that are not affiliated with an organized religion.

For the record, my fiance'e is Jewish, although past girlfriends have been
non-Jewish, or converts, or had only a Jewish father. Had I married anyone
else, my parents would not consider their grandchildren Jewish. Amazingly,
some people rationalize these things away once the children are born,
especially if the mother and/or the children "convert".

P.S. I would like to ask those of you who post articles asking about things
of "local" interest, like "knishes in NJ" to consider using the DISTRIBUTION
feature of postnews to limit it to a local geographic area -- if your
version of the news software allows it.
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