[net.religion.jewish] Sephardim - Ashkenazim

elb@hou5e.UUCP (05/03/84)

I have been supressing this for about two months but have decided
to get it off my chest ---

My distinct impression is that Mr Martillo should not be taken as
an authority on Sephardi Ashkenazi history, customs, background, etc.
Although I admit I am unable to provide specifics (I will try to
check my sources if asked),  I disagree with nearly everything he
says --- not so much that his facts are incorrect because they may
be true--- but his interpretation of them and philosophy surrounding
them is decidedly warped.

I post this mainly as a way of saying  HEY NETLAND not everyone (and I
almost want to say no one...) agrees with what Mr. Martillo is saying.
He presents many things as being true and universally accepted when
many are neither.

It pains me to see a fellow Jew informing the world of much that is 
nonsense.

Ellen Bart

trb@masscomp.UUCP (05/04/84)

I now have something to get off my chest, I don't like the cheap shots
Ellen Bart took at your friend and mine, Yehoyaqim Shemtob Martillo.

She says that he shouldn't be taken as an authority, and I don't
recall that anyone claimed he should be.  To make such a statement is
only to sling mud at him.  She then says that she disagrees with him -
"not so much ... his facts ... but his interpretation ... and
philosophy."  Is he not entitled to his opinion?  Is he not entitled to
share it?  Would your rather have him give us your opinion?  She says
"his interpretation ... and philosophy ... is decidedly warped."
Using the passive voice (WHO DECIDED?) is really low class here, she
didn't even have the guts to say that she decided.

Then she says:

	I post this mainly as a way of saying  HEY NETLAND not everyone (and I
	almost want to say no one...) agrees with what Mr. Martillo is saying.

Ellen, why not just say "I don't agree with what Martillo is saying?" I
can respect that.  I don't agree with (many of) Martillo's opinions.
So what? What if hardly anyone agrees with what he says?  What if no
one does?  Should we have a rule that you have to be seconded before
you can present an opinion?  I hereby offer a standing second for
Martillo.

Ellen concludes with:

	It pains me to see a fellow Jew informing the world of much
	that is nonsense.

Gee, I find that Martillo is quite lucid.  Hardly nonsensible.
Disagreeable maybe, nonsense, no.

It pains me to see a fellow Jew taking unsubstantiated shots at
another.  Ellen, if you want me to believe that much of what Martillo says
is nonsense, then show us that with lucid examples.

I'll say this for the second time in 24 hours (see my note in
net.motss): when one person calls another person an asshole, that is
the act and responsibility of the caller, not the callee.  Ellen, the
burden of proof is on you, and you've already lost points in my book
for having taken shots at Martillo without evidence in hand.

I'd prefer to see discussion of Jewish issues in this group, but
I find that people taking potshots at Martillo is far more offensive
that people making fun of gays or women or Jews in general.  (Certainly
far more offensive than Martillo's odd viewpoint.)  For one thing,
Martillo is an individual, and second, people with common sense in
today's society know that it's a "bad thing" to belittle women or gays
or other popular minorities.  On the other hand, it seems to be ok to
sling mud at people you disagree with, especially if you're in the
company of people who share your viewpoint.  Feh.

	Andy Tannenbaum   Masscomp Inc  Westford MA   (617) 692-6200 x274

dsg@mhuxi.UUCP (GREEN) (05/04/84)

[any golems or dybbuks eating this line???]

"In my younger and more vulnerable years my father gave me some advice
that I've been turning over in my mind ever since.
	"Whenever you feel like criticizing any one," he told me, "just
remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that
you've had.""

	from "The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald
Copyright, 1925, by Charles Scribner's Sons:
Renewal Copyright, 1953, by Frances Scott Fitzgerald Lanahan

When I started reading some of Mr. Martillo's postings, I got quite annoyed
at a number of the things he said, and the way he said them.  One of my
*biggest* concerns was "what will the goyim think?".  The truth of the
matter is that it doesn't matter what the goyim think; once I was able
to get that through my thick skull Mr. Martillo's postings started to make
more sense and I've enjoyed almost all of them.  From what I understand
from other people, Sephardim are not treated all that well in Israel ( that
is an understatement ).  In New York/Brooklyn/Queens/Long Island/ the
Syrians *are* goofed on here and there ( take Crazy Eddie...Please! )
My Grandmother, who is now over 90 ( conna hurra ( I know the spelling
is wrong)), was born in Eastern Europe and likes our American "culture"
better than what she remembers "in the old country".  Absence makes the
heart grow fonder, but shtetls and pogroms weren't much fun.  Ashkenazim
is not that great, although some of my best friends are Ashkenazic, including
myself.  Mr. Martillo may be pointing out some not-so-pleasent facts about my
roots, and it is not always heartwarming to read that stuff, but unless
someone can specifically show me where he is wrong, factually, I will
*assume* that what he says is EMMIS.

And now to the point...  Someone requested a book list on Jewish traditions,
culture, observences, etc.;  I thought that Martillo's list was way out in left 
field and not an appropriate answer to the posted request.  To be honest,
when I read his list of books, and some of his comments I nearly threw my
terminal out the window.  Yes, Martillo can still get my normally low
blood pressure skyrocketing.  Well, what was I to do?  Trashing my terminal
or posting a flame was not the answer.  I went home thought about the books
that I would recommend, refined the list, thought some more and posted it.
I learned something, and now I have a list of books to recommend.  I
channeled my energy into something constructive; prompted by Martillo.
Mr. Martillo, keep posting and don't change your style!

The above quote that I started this with is not from the Talmud, but I
think that it is good advice for everyone. Learn from it!

Shabbat Shalom,
David Seth Green  Bell Labs    path {the usuall machines}..mhuxi!dsg
phone 201-564-2290
(Again, I am responsible for all of the grammar, spelling, translations,
etc., please flame on the *content* not my good English or lack of it.)

sher@rochester.UUCP (05/05/84)

While Mr. Martillo is certainly entitled to his opinion, if he or
anyone else wants to communicate then the method of expression used
seems to be inappropriate.  His postings seem unplesantly like someone
yelling at the top of his lungs.  While some may find this refreshing
for the most part I read five lines into the article and give up.  The
use of heavilly emotional words and phrases makes it very difficult to
rationally evaluate the points he is making (which I suspect are
reasonably good from his viewpoint).  Clear concise messages with a
little less emotion would have a much larger audience and thereby
achieve more.  
-David Sher

teitz@aecom.UUCP (05/07/84)

we  are now in the period betwwen pesach ( passover ) and shavuot ( pentacost )
known as s'fira. many jews have a custom of accepting upon themselves a period
of mourning during this time to commemorate the death of 24,000 students of
Rabbi Akiva during the post-Temple period. these students died in a plague
and the reason for their  death is said to be because they did not treat
each other with respect ( i do not remember the exact location of the  quote).
a question can be asked: surely the jews  suffered worse   calamities than this
why do we accept this  mourning ? 
an answer that i heard from a friend ( rabbi  baruch lanner in the name of
Rav Yosef Soloveitchik ) is this: the tragedy occured because the students
did not treat each other with  respect. what does this mean ? because they
did   not say good morning   to each other they  were  wiped out?
no, the reason is that they did not  accept the fact   that there can be
variant opinions in judaism. 
this does not mean that i have to  accept what anyone else says. but as
long as he has some basis for his opinion, i cannot attack him for  his
belief.
the  second temple  was destroyed not because we transgressed against G-D
a much as  because we  transgressed against each other. (again i forgret
the qoute) the temple was destroyed because of unwarranted hatred (sinas
chinam ). the  students of Rabbi Akiva who lived immediately after the
temple did not learn this  lesson and had to be taught a lesson of their
own.
let us learn fromtheir tragic mistakes, and on this the 36 anniversary
of the independence of Israel let us resolve to bury the hatchet forever.
we have differences of opinion. this networkis a forum to air these ideas.
however we must use  caution not to   offend anyone, even if we feel that
we arre just in our  attacks, because of previous injustices.
if we take this lesson to  heart, we may yet have the honor and privilege
to see the rebuilding of the temple, askenazim and  sefaradim together,
bimhayra biyamenu (  quickly and in our days ) , amen.

	hakosayve lichvod hayehudim ( who writes for the honor  of all jews),
			eliyahu teitz.