[net.religion.jewish] Nausea ad Nauseum

samet@sfmag.UUCP (A.I.Samet) (07/08/85)

> ...  The point being:  you have based your views on
> what is right on the content of Torah.  But who on earth are you to say
> that other people are obliged to hold that same view?  You feel bound
> to those laws for yourself, and that is fine.  But to claim that OTHERS
> *must* adhere to them because you do is ludicrous.

1 - Believe it or not, I don't expect anyone to accept the  Torah
without proof of its validity.

2 - As I have explained previously, it is virtually impossible to
do justice to the issue of proof of the validity of Torah  within
the limits   of net discussions. I therefore  suggested   reading
material on this extensive and complicated subject for anyone who
is genuinely interested in exploring it.

3 - If there were a  net.atheism  or  net.antireligion   I  would
consider it inappropriate to harass contributors of that net with
my beliefs. There would be no purpose in  this,  and  no  genuine
dialogue   would   be   possible,   unless   I  were  willing  to
painstakingly prove my axioms to to all the  atheists  and  anti-
religionists for whom that net was dedicated.

4 - When addressing net.religion.jewish, I feel free  to  express
Torah views, as such, without having to prove the axioms of Torah
belief as a precondition for expressing these views. If there are
atheistic  contributors, I  would hope that they remain cognizant
of  the context of this net, just as I would if I were writing in
net.atheism.

5 -  Within  net.religion,jewish,  I  am  willing  to  engage  in
discourse  with  anyone  who is sincerely interested in exploring
the Jewish religion.

6 - Unfortunately, I made the mistake of debating someone who has
no  interest whatsoever in the Jewish (or any)  religion and  who
argues solely for the sake of malicious antagonism.  I  apologize
to   net  readers   for  my  role  in  encouraging  the  endless,
cyclical, redundant monologues which have ensued.  I will try  to
restrain myself from being baited into exchanges with people  who 
are  not  seeking  real discourse. I  hope that  others  will  do
likewise so that we can get away from the nauseating  and  futile
word contests that we have been witnessing.

                                Yitzchok Samet

rlr@pyuxd.UUCP (Rich Rosen) (07/08/85)

>> ...  The point being:  you have based your views on
>> what is right on the content of Torah.  But who on earth are you to say
>> that other people are obliged to hold that same view?  You feel bound
>> to those laws for yourself, and that is fine.  But to claim that OTHERS
>> *must* adhere to them because you do is ludicrous.

> 1 - Believe it or not, I don't expect anyone to accept the  Torah
> without proof of its validity.

Yet you would advocate killing those who don't.  I don't understand...

> 2 - As I have explained previously, it is virtually impossible to
> do justice to the issue of proof of the validity of Torah  within
> the limits   of net discussions. I therefore  suggested   reading
> material on this extensive and complicated subject for anyone who
> is genuinely interested in exploring it.

Methinks you could have ended that first sentence prior to the word "within".
Your "proof" is no better or worse than those of any other religion, so whom
are we kidding?  Such religious "proofs" only prove things to those who
already believe.  Given that, your claims that you could through additional
reading strike me as hot air.

> 3 - If there were a  net.atheism  or  net.antireligion   I  would
> consider it inappropriate to harass contributors of that net with
> my beliefs. There would be no purpose in  this,  and  no  genuine
> dialogue   would   be   possible,   unless   I  were  willing  to
> painstakingly prove my axioms to to all the  atheists  and  anti-
> religionists for whom that net was dedicated.

Which I'd just love to see you try to do.  ("Prove" your axioms?)  Originally
there was a group called net.religion to discuss ALL relevant topics
surrounding religion.  Then n.r.christian was created to get the bulk of
Christian/non-Christian debate traffic out of the main group (a move I
was wholeheartedly against, as I was against the further isolationism
of n.r.jewish).  The subgroups are not "havens" where people can expect
no disagreement with their views.  As you may have seen in my "reconfiguration"
article, the only subgroup in which there will be no disagreement is
net.sfmag.samet (and I have my doubts about that!).

> 4 - When addressing net.religion.jewish, I feel free  to  express
> Torah views, as such, without having to prove the axioms of Torah
> belief as a precondition for expressing these views. If there are
> atheistic  contributors, I  would hope that they remain cognizant
> of  the context of this net, just as I would if I were writing in
> net.atheism.

Continuing what I was saying above, as with all newsgroups, n.r.j is a
PUBLIC forum where people submit varying opinions and not just party lines.
If you don't like disagreement, discussion with people with different
points of view, why are you posting to the net?

> 5 -  Within  net.religion,jewish,  I  am  willing  to  engage  in
> discourse  with  anyone  who is sincerely interested in exploring
> the Jewish religion.

I consider my questions and statements to be very sincere exploration,
even though you might not.  I am very curious as to why someone who was
raised in the Jewish faith and heritage would be interested in carrying
forth the same brand of intolerance against others that he and his people
have been subjected to for centuries.  It strikes me as very odd.
Doesn't it strike you that way?

> 6 - Unfortunately, I made the mistake of debating someone who has
> no  interest whatsoever in the Jewish (or any)  religion and  who
> argues solely for the sake of malicious antagonism.  I  apologize
> to   net  readers   for  my  role  in  encouraging  the  endless,
> cyclical, redundant monologues which have ensued.  I will try  to
> restrain myself from being baited into exchanges with people  who 
> are  not  seeking  real discourse. I  hope that  others  will  do
> likewise so that we can get away from the nauseating  and  futile
> word contests that we have been witnessing.

It would seem that anyone who does not hold the same point of view as
you do is engaging in "malicious antagonism", anyone who disagrees
with your position has "no interest whatsoever in the Jewish or any
religion".  On the contrary, I have a great deal of interest.  Maybe
not the type of interest you would like, but who are you to determine
what varieties of interest are acceptable?  I'd say it is YOU who is
not seeking real discourse!  Real discourse to you would seem to mean
wholehearted agreement.  That ain't the real world, my friend, and if
you think your views are so sacrosanct as to be above suspicion,
you've got another thing coming.  I've gotten my share of mail from
people who've tangled with you and your adamant orthodoxy for its own
sake in the past, who are glad I am willing to continue something that
they tried of:  arguing with a brick wall.  If you're only interested
in "real Jews" talking about Judaism and its tenets as unquestionable
fact, perhaps a discourse with Martillo would do you good.  Maybe then
you'd really get your hair mussed.
-- 
Like aversion (HEY!), shocked for the very first time...
			Rich Rosen   ihnp4!pyuxd!rlr

abeles@mhuxm.UUCP (J. Abeles (Bellcore, Murray Hill, NJ)) (07/08/85)

Samet says,
> 3 - If there were a  net.atheism  or  net.antireligion   I  would
> consider it inappropriate to harass contributors of that net with
> my beliefs...
> 4 - When addressing net.religion.jewish, I feel free  to  express
> Torah views, as such, without having to prove the axioms of Torah
> belief as a precondition for expressing these views. If there are
> atheistic  contributors, I  would hope that they remain cognizant
> of  the context of this net, just as I would if I were writing in
> net.atheism.
> 5 -  Within  net.religion,jewish,  I  am  willing  to  engage  in
> discourse  with  anyone  who is sincerely interested in exploring
> the Jewish religion.
>                                 Yitzchok Samet

In response, I will say that I am profoundly upset by the language
used by Samet here and during past postings which is offensive to
those who are not "orthopractic" like Samet and who disagree with
his ripping-off (along with others of his ilk) of the word "torah"
to describe only his narrowly-practiced "orthopractic" brand of
orthodox Judaism.

I would hope it to be obvious to all who read Samet's comments that
net.religion.jewish should not, as Samet claims, serve as a protected
area for only one form of Judaism.  Samet would like to equate Judaism
with his beliefs, and those of his cronies.  But Orthodox Judaism
of today (if indeed he is really representative of it, which I question)
is only one form of Judaism.  It cannot, as Samet has claimed in the
past, be considered as the only true heir to historical Judaism, but
rather formed during the past approximately 150 years as Ashkenazi
Jews in Europe had to decide whether to shut themselves off from
secular society as transportation and communication technologies
began to integrate societies.  Samet's orthopractic form of Judaism
strives both to be true to traditional values, and also to prevent
the dissolution of orthopractic culture (only a subset of which is
actually Jewish culture) through total separation to the maximum
degree possible from secular culture.  The fact that he participates
in the activities of this net is, for him, a troubling break from
this separation which explains why people like him are in such
small representation.  Economic factors explain the increasing
participation of orthopractic Jews in workplaces involving computing
which allow in certain ways a maximum of separation from the
secular world compared to other types of work.

In spite of the strong language I don't know Samet personally and
wish to emphasize that I bear no personal dislike of him.  I am
offended by his continuing ripping-off of words like "torah" and
"Judaism" to refer only to his brand of "orthopractic" Judaism.

--J. Abeles

jho@ihu1m.UUCP (Yosi Hoshen) (07/09/85)

> > ...  The point being:  you have based your views on
> > what is right on the content of Torah.  But who on earth are you to say
> > that other people are obliged to hold that same view?  You feel bound
> > to those laws for yourself, and that is fine.  But to claim that OTHERS
> > *must* adhere to them because you do is ludicrous.
> 
> 1 - Believe it or not, I don't expect anyone to accept the  Torah
> 
I think you miss the point.  The issue is not whether the Torah is
valid or not valid.  The question is whether others *must* be forced
to adhere to it.
it
> 
> 4 - When addressing net.religion.jewish, I feel free  to  express
> Torah views, as such, without having to prove the axioms of Torah
> belief as a precondition for expressing these views. If there are
> atheistic  contributors, I  would hope that they remain cognizant
> of  the context of this net, just as I would if I were writing in
> net.atheism.
> 
> 5 -  Within  net.religion,jewish,  I  am  willing  to  engage  in
> discourse  with  anyone  who is sincerely interested in exploring
> the Jewish religion.


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-- 
Yosi Hoshen, AT&T Bell Laboratories
Naperville, Illinois,  Mail: ihnp4!ihu1m!jho

jho@ihu1m.UUCP (Yosi Hoshen) (07/09/85)

I am reposting this.  My previous posting misfired.
> > ...  The point being:  you have based your views on
> > what is right on the content of Torah.  But who on earth are you to say
> > that other people are obliged to hold that same view?  You feel bound
> > to those laws for yourself, and that is fine.  But to claim that OTHERS
> > *must* adhere to them because you do is ludicrous.
> 
> 1 - Believe it or not, I don't expect anyone to accept the  Torah
> 
I think you miss the point.  The issue is not whether the Torah is
valid or not valid.  The question is whether others *must* be forced
to adhere to it.
> 
> 4 - When addressing net.religion.jewish, I feel free  to  express
> Torah views, as such, without having to prove the axioms of Torah
> belief as a precondition for expressing these views. If there are
> atheistic  contributors, I  would hope that they remain cognizant
> of  the context of this net, just as I would if I were writing in
> net.atheism.
> 
> 5 -  Within  net.religion,jewish,  I  am  willing  to  engage  in
> discourse  with  anyone  who is sincerely interested in exploring
> the Jewish religion.

Let me remind you  that this is net.jewish.religion and not
net.religion.jewish.orthodox (or net.religion.jewish.torah).
Please do not define other people Jewishness.
-- 
Yosi Hoshen, AT&T Bell Laboratories
Naperville, Illinois,  Mail: ihnp4!ihu1m!jho

elb@mtx5d.UUCP (Ellen Bart) (07/10/85)

I have been staying out of the discussions for various reasons but
J. Abeles's posting bothered me sufficiently to respond.

I think your attack on Samet was uncalled for.  If you disagree with
his views then it would have been sufficient to say "Net readers -- I
would like you to know that others feel differently than Samet.  Here
is my view .. etc"

You may not agree with Samet's brand of Orthodoxy, but he is always
careful to state that these are his views and he does not force
them on anyone else (UNLIKE MANY OTHER POSTERS WHO WOULD DO WELL
TO FOLLOW HIS EXAMPLE).

I agree with his statement of expectations from net.religion.jewish.
If an Orthodox person wants to state that he/she believes/practices/
accepts something because he/she believes the torah says so,  the
basis for the use of the torah as an authority should not be called
into question.  Is it unreasonable to expect readers of this group to
*understand* the  basis for some Orthodox viewpoints even if they
don't *accept* those viewpoints??

Note that I am NOT saying discussions about particulars of the practice
or varying opinions would be unwelcome. BUT, some axioms are a given
in this newsgroup.  The easiest example is that we understand that we
are talking about a monotheistic religion here.  As Samet said, if this
were net.religion.atheist he couldn't expect to have that statement
as a given. 

One of the things that is most distressing/depressing to me as a Jew
is that there is so much contempt for others who draw the lines in
a different place than they do.  And make no mistake, we ALL draw
lines somewhere.  Is it so hard to understand that others are just
drawing different lines?  Is it surprising that people will try to
spread their views to others?  Is Samet passing legislation to make
you believe what he believes?  Isn't he just expounding/explaining
his view, trying to find others who agree, trying to convince others
he might be right?

The thing I feel most about going to Boro Park is not contempt for
others with differing views.  Mostly I feel uncomfortable because of
the stares, the condescending looks, the comments and behavior which
are signs of their contempt for me.  Sometimes I feel I just want
to go over to them and say " Look, we're all Jews, we have different
ways of looking at things but why does there have to be
fear, and hatred."

I think certain posters on the net have a tendency to say "you show
contempt for my viewpoint -- that makes you worthy of my contempt"
Isn't that just a little ridiculous?

ellen bart

dave@lsuc.UUCP (David Sherman) (07/11/85)

In article <1176@pyuxd.UUCP> rlr@pyuxd.UUCP (Rich Rosen) writes:
||						Originally
||there was a group called net.religion to discuss ALL relevant topics
||surrounding religion.  Then n.r.christian was created to get the bulk of
||Christian/non-Christian debate traffic out of the main group (a move I
||was wholeheartedly against, as I was against the further isolationism
||of n.r.jewish).  The subgroups are not "havens" where people can expect
||no disagreement with their views.

For the record, that is not what happened. At the time I proposed
(on behalf of a large number of interested people) that this
newsgroup be created, there were no subgroups under net.religion.

Rich, maybe YOU are against the "isolationism" of n.r.j.
If you're primarily interested in discussing religion in
general, go right ahead in net.religion. I, and many other
Jews on this network, are NOT interested in other religions.
We have a certain basic set of beliefs, and are interested
in discussing Judaism.  I unsubscribed to net.religion long ago.

If you are interested in legitimate discussion about Judaism, this
is the place for it. If you are interested in general discussion
about the validity of religion, it does not belong in this newsgroup.
Your postings about Judaism do belong here, but at the same time
observant Jews should be free to post articles which
make basic assumptions about the validity of Torah without being
attacked for those assumptions.

Dave Sherman
Toronto
-- 
{  ihnp4!utzoo  pesnta  utcs  hcr  decvax!utcsri  }  !lsuc!dave

tan@ihlpg.UUCP (Bill Tanenbaum - AT&T Bell Labs - Naperville IL) (07/13/85)

> [Dave Sherman in response to Rich Rosen] 
> If you are interested in legitimate discussion about Judaism, this
> is the place for it. If you are interested in general discussion
> about the validity of religion, it does not belong in this newsgroup.
> Your postings about Judaism do belong here, but at the same time
> observant Jews should be free to post articles which
> make basic assumptions about the validity of Torah without being
> attacked for those assumptions.
-----------------------------------------------
Dave, your last sentence is self-contradictory.  Either discussions
of the validity of the Torah and Judaism belong in this newsgroup or
they don't.  If they do, observant Jews should expect to have their
basic assumptions attacked.  If not, most (if not all) of Rosen's
postings about Judaism do not belong in this newsgroup.  As for me, I
vote for Rosen.  For example, where else except in this newsgroup should
someone attack Samet's (or the Torah's) basic assumtions about homosexuality?
-- 
Bill Tanenbaum - AT&T Bell Labs - Naperville IL  ihnp4!ihlpg!tan

rlr@pyuxd.UUCP (Rich Rosen) (07/13/85)

> Rich, maybe YOU are against the "isolationism" of n.r.j.
> If you're primarily interested in discussing religion in
> general, go right ahead in net.religion. I, and many other
> Jews on this network, are NOT interested in other religions.
> We have a certain basic set of beliefs, and are interested
> in discussing Judaism.  I unsubscribed to net.religion long ago.

Isolationism is the separation of oneself or one's group from a larger
group you are "NOT interested in", for whatever reason.

> If you are interested in legitimate discussion about Judaism, this
> is the place for it. If you are interested in general discussion
> about the validity of religion, it does not belong in this newsgroup.
> Your postings about Judaism do belong here, but at the same time
> observant Jews should be free to post articles which
> make basic assumptions about the validity of Torah without being
> attacked for those assumptions.  [SHERMAN]

Let me get this straight.  Orthopracts should be free from "fear" that
someone will question their notions, but my notions should be
questioned, attacked, and squelched?  Hmmm...  Haven't we seen enough
articles on meta-topics?
-- 
Like a turban (HEY!), worn for the very first time...
			Rich Rosen   ihnp4!pyuxd!rlr