[net.kids] Preventing Child Abductions

lute@abnjh.UUCP (J. Collymore) (04/11/84)

This information is taken from a newsletter I recently received from Senator
Bill Bradley (New Jersey).  I felt that those of you on the net, with children
or young relatives, would appreciate having this information.


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			HOW TO PREVENT CHILD ABDUCTIONS


	- Teach your child their full name, address (including city and state)
	  and telephone number (including area code).  Make sure that your child	  knows how to make a long-distance call, and how to call 911.

	- Keep a file with your child's photographs (taken at least once a 
	  year), fingerprints and dental records.  If your child is under 2,
	  take pictures 4 times a year.

	- Teach your child to avoid strangers, especially those who offer them
	  presents or ask to take their pictures.

	- Never leave your child alone in a car.  Always accompany your child 
	  to the bathroom in a public place.

	- Tell your child never to answer the door while home alone or tell
	  anyone over the phone that they are alone.

	- Explain to your child what to do in the event that the two of you
	  become separated.  If you are shopping, for example, tell your child
	  never to go to the parking lot, but to go to the nearest checkout
	  counter and ask a clerk for help.

	- Make sure that your child's school or day care center will not
	  release him or her to anyone without your permission.  If you must 
	  send an unfamiliar adult to pick up your child, have a prearranged
	  code with your child to use as a signal.

	- Give your child permission to say "no" to an adult.  Emphasize that
	  no one has the right to touch them or ask them to keep a secret
	  from you.

	- Try to be more aware of children in public places.  If you see a
	  child that appears to be lost or frightened, DO NOT approach the
	  child.  Since children are being taught to avoid strangers, you will
	  only frighten them more.  Get someone to locate a policeman or
	  security guard for assistance while you make sure that nothing 
	  happens to the child.

	- If a child APPROACHES YOU and says that they are lost, or has been
	  abducted, act as quickly as you can in getting help.  There have
	  been cases of children who have appealed for help and adults failed
	  to act in time before the abductors returned.


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I hope the sharing of this information will be useful to you.


					Jim Collymore