[net.kids] first aid & panic

smuga@ahuta.UUCP (j.smuga) (04/09/85)

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Let me bore you with a true story.  One lovely summer's evening my husband
and I were in a park near our home with our two preschoolers and an adult
friend, when my younger child (almost 3) fell from the monkey bars and
landed flat on her face.  Good mother that I am, I was right there to help
her sit up and brush the dirt off her tongue.  Only, the funny thing was
that she didn't cry.  Her pupils dilated.  They dilated all the way; her
eyes were a beautiful and mysterious black.  They swam.  Her head wobbled,
and as she slumped over unconscious I finally managed to gasp, "She's not
breathing!"
Our friend took one look at my blue, unconscious child and ran off "to get
some water."
Panic does funny things to me.  A lot of cliches came true.  The passage of
time was altered so that seconds passed like hours.  The world narrowed
to the spot of ground we stood on; I know my other daughter was somewhere
nearby, but I did not see or hear her then.  A single thought ran through
my mind repetitiously: "She can't die like this."  My husband tried to carry
her away, but I stopped him; there wasn't time to leave the park and look
for help.  Then he said something that triggered my memory: "Maybe something
is caught in her throat."  Suddenly I could hear the voice of the man who
taught my life-saving class (10 years since) telling me what to do, and,
without thought, I began to follow his instructions.
You might suppose it would be easy to open the mouth of an unconscious 
person, but Claire's jaw was clamped shut tight.  I never needed to
resuscitate her, because, as soon as I managed to pry open her mouth she
began to scream.  I nearly wept with relief.
Afterwards, my pediatrician explained that Claire had suffered "clonic
shock" and that she would have come around on her own if we done nothing
at all.  That's reassuring, but it's even more reassuring to know that,
even though I seemed to react incredibly slowly, I could have saved her
life if I had to.  Maybe first aid training should be added to the
curriculum for the child-birth classes so many people attend; every
parent should have it.
By the way, my daughter is now 6, and has shown no ill effects as a result
of her accident.