[net.kids] Suggestions wanted - Europe with kids

greg@olivee.UUCP (Greg Paley) (09/28/85)

We are planning (fairly leisurely) a trip to Europe with our
kids, probably for summer of 1987 (they'll be 4 and 6).  We
are planning to fly, via London, to Gothenburg, Sweden where
we'll pick up a car.  From there we plan to drive to Copenhagen,
Odense, through Germany (stay with friends near Munich), onto
Vienna, back to Munich, and then to Paris, Calais, ferry to
Dover, and then drop off the car in London to have it shipped
back, before flying back from there to San Francisco.  We plan
to take 6-7 weeks altogether.

We have Leila Hadley's "Fieldings Guide To Europe with Children"
but would be interested in other suggestions for "must see"
sights and hotels/inns/private homes that are comfortable for
families.  We know Southern Germany (the Rhine area and on
down) fairly well, and will be able to stay with friends for part 
of our time there.  However, we've never been to Sweden, Denmark,
or Germany north of Hannover.  We've been to Vienna, but only
briefly and weren't too happy with our accommodations there.  
As for Paris, we've heard good things about the Hotel Place des
Vogues, but would like other suggestions.  Same applies to London.

This is, therefore, actually a request for all kinds of info, and
I'd be very grateful for any pieces of info someone might have.
I speak fluent German and fairly good French, so for the areas of 
northern Germany (maybe someplace near, if not in, Hamburg) 
Vienna, France between Strasbourg and Paris and Paris itself,
we'd like to know about comfortable hotels even if no English 
is spoken there.  To us, comfortable means that we'd like 
our own bath or shower and WC, and that the people be friendly 
and open to having children stay there.
I've heard that private homes are a good bet in Copenhagen - any
experiences someone wants to share?  We were thinking of hanging
around Gothenburg, Sweden for only a day or so (to recover a bit
from jet lag before driving off) and then heading on down the
southwest coast and ferrying (from Helsingor) to Denmark.  Is
it reasonable to try to drive Gothenburg -> Copenhagen in one
day with kids, or are we better to count on stopping off (maybe
someplace like Bastad)?  Right now, these are names and routes
on maps to us, rather than real places and highways.

Plans we have, based on areas we know, for Germany include trying
to get a reservation at "Auf Schoenburg" in Oberwesel (on the
Rhine, beween Koblenz and Wiesbaden), staying a couple of nights
in Rothenburg ob der Taube before going to our friends' house
just South of Munich.  From there, we plan day-excursions to
Ludwig's various castles and to the Zugspitze, near Garmisch-
Partenkirchen.  We'll probably stop overnight in Salzburg on our
way to Vienna, and someplace in upper Styria on our way back.  These
plans are all very loose now, and we'll gladly modify them if someone
knows of a particularly worthwhile place to stay or see in or around
any of these areas.

By the same token, I'd also be grateful for places people would
advise that we AVOID.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions, criticisms or comments.


	- Greg Paley

rchrd@well.UUCP (rchrd = Richard Friedman) (09/30/85)

The biggest mistake you are about to make is that you are
doing too much.  Kids dont like to be moved around so much.
Too many changes of environment.
WHen we take our kids (at various ages) we tend to stay in
one or two places and travel in and out from there.
THis gives the kids time to get used to the new place
and to grow some attachment to it.  After 2 weeks and 10
diferent hotels/restaurants etc. the kids are reduced to
neurotic rubble and the parents are about to kill.
Take it easy.  Do things slowly.  Pace yourselves and
plan to do one or two things a day and spend alot of time
with the kids as a family.
Save the trekking for a time when the kids can be left
at home or at camp (stateside with their friends) and
you and spouse can do it at your own pace.
(...just a minor flame...  I've seen too many vacations
ruined this way... a trip to europe (or anywhere) with
the kids SHOULD be rewarding for everyone.)

-- 
     
    [rchrd] = Richard Friedman
              Pacific-Sierra Research, 2855 Telegraph #415
              Berkeley, CA 94705 (415) 540 5216
    UUCP: {dual,hplabs,ptsfa,apple}!well!rchrd

greg@olivee.UUCP (Greg Paley) (10/01/85)

> 
> The biggest mistake you are about to make is that you are
> doing too much.  Kids dont like to be moved around so much.
> Too many changes of environment.
> WHen we take our kids (at various ages) we tend to stay in
> one or two places and travel in and out from there.
> THis gives the kids time to get used to the new place
> and to grow some attachment to it.  After 2 weeks and 10
> diferent hotels/restaurants etc. the kids are reduced to
> neurotic rubble and the parents are about to kill.
> Take it easy.  Do things slowly.  Pace yourselves and
> plan to do one or two things a day and spend alot of time
> with the kids as a family.
> Save the trekking for a time when the kids can be left
> at home or at camp (stateside with their friends) and
> you and spouse can do it at your own pace.
> (...just a minor flame...  I've seen too many vacations
> ruined this way... a trip to europe (or anywhere) with
> the kids SHOULD be rewarding for everyone.)
> 
> -- 
>      
>     [rchrd] = Richard Friedman
>               Pacific-Sierra Research, 2855 Telegraph #415
>               Berkeley, CA 94705 (415) 540 5216
>     UUCP: {dual,hplabs,ptsfa,apple}!well!rchrd

I appreciate the advice and didn't take this as a flame.  In
planning our trip, we've been concerned about just this.  What
we want to do is strike a balance so that, on the one hand,
we're not dragging ourselves wildly from place to place but,
on the other hand, seeing enough to feel we're getting our
money's worth out of the flight costs.

We've already been to Europe once with the kids - last year,
when they were 3 1/2 and 1.  At the time, we found that the
kids (at least the 3 1/2 year old, the 1 year old didn't seem
to care) had already adjusted to what was around and were ready
to move on to something else before my wife and I had quite
gotten our bearings.  Nonetheless, we'll consider your advice
seriously.

Two points I want to emphasize, though:

 (1) We will have a full 6-7 weeks to play with.  This should
     allow for a fairly extensive itinerary without forcing us
     to be on the move every day.  Along this line, we will be
     staying a few weeks with friends south of Munich (in
     Wolfratshausen, to be specific) where we were last year.
     From there, it's less than an hour to Garmisch-Partenkirchen,
     a half an hour to Linderhof, and just about an hour to
     Fuessen (Neuschwanstein and Hohenschwangau), which does make
     several day-excursions feasible in the course of a couple of
     weeks.
 (2) At this point, we're trying to gather info along the broadest
     lines possible.  We don't seriously think we'll do everything
     we have in mind but will, when the time comes for concrete
     plans and reservations, reduce our plans to what seem to be
     the best bets.

Again, thanks for the advice.

	- Greg Paley

9234dwz@houxf.UUCP (Nomad # 73299651) (10/01/85)

I somewhat agree with Richard Friedman(sp) in that that's an
awful lot of change of environment until I rechecked the 
original posting and noted that you'll be taking 6-7 weeks.
However to cut down on travelling and presuming the major
reason that you're seeing Denmark,Sweden & N. Germany is that
they are on your way whilst heading south. Alternatives include
exploring how much/little more it would cost you to pick up the
car in other cities, Schiphol airport used to be real big on
this several years ago. You could probably offset these added
costs by getting a better rate on your air travel + you've 
saved yourselves 350 miles of driving south  (including tolls,
ferries and ar least one overnight stay).



    Dave Peak
    @  ihnp4!hotel!dxp

"All the net's a stage and all the men and women merely ham actors !"
- Rev Peak (apologies to Bill S.)

greg@olivee.UUCP (Greg Paley) (10/03/85)

> I somewhat agree with Richard Friedman(sp) in that that's an
> awful lot of change of environment until I rechecked the 
> original posting and noted that you'll be taking 6-7 weeks.
> However to cut down on travelling and presuming the major
> reason that you're seeing Denmark,Sweden & N. Germany is that
> they are on your way whilst heading south. Alternatives include
> exploring how much/little more it would cost you to pick up the
> car in other cities, Schiphol airport used to be real big on
> this several years ago. You could probably offset these added
> costs by getting a better rate on your air travel + you've 
> saved yourselves 350 miles of driving south  (including tolls,
> ferries and ar least one overnight stay).
> 
> 
> 
>     Dave Peak
>     @  ihnp4!hotel!dxp
> 
> "All the net's a stage and all the men and women merely ham actors !"
> - Rev Peak (apologies to Bill S.)

Thanks for the suggestion.  We do, however, really want to see 
some of the north countries.  You're right about questioning the
cost difference:  to pick up the car in Frankfurt would cost us
an extra $300.  I'm certain it will cost us a good deal more than
that for hotels, meals, gas, etc. to drive down from Gothenburg.
However, we've never been in the north and that will be one of the
few really new parts of the trip for my wife and I - southern Germany,
Vienna, Paris and London will be repeats of old favorites.

What we're most likely to knock off of the itinerary is the trip
to Vienna.  If we do that, we'll make a horseshoe-like loop from
Sweden down through Denmark to Southern Germany, across to Paris
and then up to London.  However, if someone comes up with an
absolutely wonderful idea for something to do or see in Vienna
or its environs, we may in fact take your suggestion and decide
to forget about Scandinavia and northern Germany and go that route
instead.

	- Greg Paley

boren@randvax.UUCP (Pat Boren) (10/08/85)

> 
> ...However, if someone comes up with an
> absolutely wonderful idea for something to do or see in Vienna
> or its environs...


I just returned from a super trip to Europe, and one of the
highlights was Salzburg.  This is my first day back on the net,
so I'm don't know how old your kids are.  But if they know anything
about The Sound of Music, then this is the place.  We took a bus
tour of Salzburg and surrounding areas, and saw all the sites from
the movie.  The tour had a "surprise" -- a stop at a toboggan run.
Touring the salt mines and seeing the marionette puppet shows would
be suitable for kids, too.

As for Vienna, the Prater amusement park has the world's largest
ferris wheel, the Riesenrad (seen in The Third Man Theme movie).

And then there's Switzerland, and...and...!

Hope I haven't thoroughly confused you.  But Salzburg comes with
my highest recommendations!  And it's only a couple hours from
Munich et al.
-- 


		Patricia Boren
		decvax!randvax!boren
		boren@rand-unix.arpa