[net.kids] Money for toofs

slb@drutx.UUCP (Sue Brezden) (11/19/85)

>In my day, it was a nickle or dime.  But Ra, (his name) 
>told his mother and myself that "ALL THE KIDS receive at least 50 cents 
>when they loose their toofs." 

I give my daughter 75 cents or $1.00.  That's pretty high, but she's
12 now, and has more ways to spend more money.  A dime doesn't mean
much at that age.  Besides, she's losing fewer teeth now...

>And for what it's worth, the best way to pull his teeth ....

I've never really understood this.  Why do people pull kid's teeth
that are loose?  They come out all by themselves.  I never had any
of my baby teeth pulled, nor did my daughters.  We just wiggled them
with our tongue until they came out.  (Makes nice little sucky sounds,
and gives you something to do in Math class!)  

However, a friend told me that if you are pulling a kid's tooth, to
grasp the fleshy part of their hand, between thumb and index finger,
and press HARD.  Says they won't feel the tooth being pulled that
way.
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                                     Sue Brezden
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sidney@faron.UUCP (Sidney Markowitz) (11/21/85)

One more datapoint for the survey -- My daughter gets $0.25 for a
tooth. We made the mistake of thinking it was cute when she asked the
tooth fairy to leave her second tooth -- Now she has a collection of
her old baby teeth (Which I think is yucky, but at least she keeps it
in a closed up box. :-) I expect someday she'll find out that a friend
gets more and ask for a raise, especially since she finally got around
to asking if there really *is* a tooth fairy or if we sneak the
quarter under her pillow at night.

By the way, I see no indication that a reward for a lost baby tooth
could lead to lack of dental care. Quite the opposite, the positive
focus on natural physiological processes and signs of growth and
maturation should lead to greater incentive for her to take care of
herself.

>> And for what it's worth, the best way to pull his teeth ....

Hey, people, that's what professionals are for -- I don't mean to pull
a loose tooth, I mean your child's dentist is probably a good person
to ask for advice on this topic. I would not have thought of
interfering with the progress of a baby tooth that will fall out quite
naturally by itself -- Why cause the child any pain at all, and why
try to speed things up? I was concerned over one of my daughter's
teeth when it got loose, didn't come out, and then the secondary tooth
started growing out of the gum above it, at a slight angle. The
dentist encouraged her to wiggle the baby tooth regularly, and told us
not to worry about it -- That the secondary tooth would drop to normal
position after the baby tooth finally comes out. It's been a pretty
long time, now, but the dentist has checked the tooth at her and my 6
month cleanings and has advised us to let it be, though he is ready to
pull it if it really does go too long. The moral of the story is --
Don't pull teeth unnecessarily, and check with your dentist about
dental questions.

> However, a friend told me that if you are pulling a kid's tooth, to
> grasp the fleshy part of their hand, between thumb and index finger,
> and press HARD.  Says they won't feel the tooth being pulled that
> way.

I tried that on myself -- I squeezed my hand in that spot, and while I
didn't feel anything except pressure on my hand, none of my teeth fell
out, either :-)

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					Sidney Markowitz

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ajs@hpfcla.UUCP (12/03/85)

> I would not have thought of interfering with the progress of a baby
> tooth that will fall out quite naturally by itself -- Why cause the
> child any pain at all, and why try to speed things up?

I urge you NOT to pull your children's baby teeth unless there is a damn
good reason, like a dentist telling you to, in which case he or she
should probably be the one doing it.  My parents, for whatever warped
reasons, routinely dropped everything, no matter how inconvenient, to
pull a loose tooth as soon as they thought the time was right.  (For
example, in the bathroom near a dining room during dinner on an ocean
liner.)  They also, more than once, instructed dentists to pull teeth
without warning me first -- including one wisdom tooth.

Believe me, this is NOT the way to teach your children love, respect,
and confidence in your wisdom.

Alan Silverstein