emneufeld@watdragon.UUCP (Eric Neufeld) (03/07/86)
Recently read something like the following: A great disservice is done to marriage by the current popular psychological notion that relationships are supposed to be fulfilling. This institutionalization of self-centredness has contributed greatly to the breakup of many families. ... only by identifying love with the idea of performing service to the family ... just because I perform some work (i.e., earn money) that does not mean that I get out of other jobs ... love does not take holidays ... comments? if there is any interest, I will look for the complete quote and exact source: the above is fairly close.