levasseur@morgan.DEC (Castro Street Shuffle) (04/01/85)
From: RHEA::MAILER-DAEMON 1-APR-1985 15:01 To: morgan::levasseur ! Castro Street Shuffle Subj: Unable to deliver mail to decwrl::net,motss Bad recipient name syntax or no such user Date: Monday, 1 Apr 1985 11:54:46-PST ------- Returned Message Date: Monday, 1 Apr 1985 11:35:03-PST From: morgan::levasseur (Castro Street Shuffle) To: decwrl::net,motss Subject: Apartments and Roomies Since I left for vacation there seems to have been a lot of flaming done on the subject of choosing roomies. I placed an ad in net.motss last Fall trying to find a *gay* roomate in the inner Rte 128 area; what I got was a lot of irate mail from heterosexuals telling me I was pre- judgiced toward straights. "Not at all" I reply. If I had an apartment for rent and said "only gays accepted" I can see where I could get into trouble with the law but no-one is gonna tell me who will share my bath- room, kitchen, and living room with. I've lived with straights before and it didn't work at all. It was alright for him to have girlfriends over but not ok for me to have gay male friends spend the night. I know there are heteros who are more liberal but by and large give me a gay male or female roomate any day. At least having a gay roomie, I can share feelings that a straight co- habitator might not understand or want to hear. We can also vacation together in Provincetown, have dinner parties for gay friends and in general be ourselves. So why not specify who you want to live with; there's nothing wrong with it? If I were a born again Christian, I'de want to live with other born agains so we could have prayer meetings, etc or whatever they do in the privacy of their homes. A lot of the responses to my earlier ad argued that I was seriously limiting my choices by specifying *Gay* roomate. Perhaps; but I was also looking for the alternative which offered the least tension since the workday has enough in it already. Ray (who's found a roomate but needs an apartment in the Waltham area by 5/1) ------- End of Returned Message