peterson@vaxwrk.DEC (Bob Peterson) (09/04/85)
<The married bisexual (which sometimes means married gay person) in which <that person hasn't come out to the spouse, yet is actively pursuing <entanglements with the same sex. This is a very sad and nerve-wracking <situation for everyone involved. Now, how does this differ from hetero- <sexual infidelity? ... <Like it or not, this describes a lot of people who identify themselves <as bisexual. I am naive enough never to have heard of this being called "bisexual", amongst some of the other attributes and beliefs lumped under that term. I guess another way of expressing this is that the term is bandied about beyond just the simplistic sexual preference/Kinsey Scale idea, and thus deserves caution. With that warning in mind I certainly will act no different: I still will qualify the person with whom I am entering a relationship with my expectations of the relationship. \bob usenet: decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-vaxwrk!peterson /\ arpa: peterson%vaxwrk.DEC@decwrl.ARPA