[net.motss] Is the term lady sexist?

slb@drutx.UUCP (Sue Brezden) (01/16/86)

>I think that people object to the use of the word for the following
>reason:  "lady" is a term defined by society [still dominated by men]
>to describe women who behave properly, as defined by society.  This is
>a way of oppressing women and limiting what they can and cannot be. 
>			Gerry Fisher

That is certainly one reason it is disliked.  Another is that it is
often used as an insult.  As in a truck driver yelling "Hey, lady, get 
out of the way" or  the old term "the little lady".
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                                     Sue Brezden
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