[net.women.only] Stanwyck's reply to "sexist" surgery

plaskon@hplabsc.UUCP (Dawn Plaskon) (01/06/84)

Thank you for a very well written rebuttal.  I had been planning to
respond for a couple of reasons, but you have taken care of one
of them.  I did not have the source of the studies of circumcision/
cervical cancer anyway, and I do not like to make references I can
not support.

To the original article which started this.  I think many of the
hysterectomies, tubal ligations, etc. which are performed needlessly
may be the result of the "it is more trouble than it is worth to
fix this up, I'll remove it" syndrome.   Having been through two
bouts of major surgery for genital problems, I am thankful that
my doctor did not fall into that category.  I was on the table 
for more than three and a half hours the first time, and more
than two and a half the second as my doctor carefully rebuilt
my tubes, removed layer upon layer of adhesions, repositioned my
uterus, and otherwise put me back together again internally.   
Put this time against the hour it would have taken to simply remove
everything and I find it easy to see why many doctors can't be bothered.

It is unfortunate that such a thing is so, but I think it can be
partially avoided by finding a doctor who will communicate with you.
Do not let yourself be put aside with the "I know best" attitude.
Ask questions, if your doctor won't answer them, or answers them
in a manner that dissatisfies you, perhaps you need to find another
doctor.  Dr. Dragonas was very good about telling me exactly what
he was doing and why he felt it to be necessary.  Now, four years 
after my second operation I am having regular menstrual cycles for the
first time in my life.  It is a wonderful feeling to know your
body's schedule after years of never being sure and I am grateful
that I found a caring physician while I was still naive enough to
not ask questions.

I think that if people begin asking questions of their physicians
and refusing to be put off, eventually the physicians will be forced
to respond with answers and not platitudes.

				Dawn(plaskon.hplabs@RAND-RELAY)