[net.religion] Discussion moved from net.singles

ab3@stat-l (Rsk the Wombat) (05/26/84)

	Hi.  Ok, this is an attempt to move an ongoing discussion from
net.singles to net.religion...let's see how it goes...

	Ok, Jeff, here's some responses:

> In fact, anyone reading the New Testament will see that one of the main 
> emphases of Christ and Christianity is removing discord between people.
> 'Tis a shame that many, believers as well as non-believers, have 
> forgotten that.

	Christ, yes...Christianity no.  The Christ-character in the biblical
myths certainly had a lot to say about being nice to one another, and said
it pretty well.  Just fine and dandy.  Christianity has had a lot to say about
non-tolerance of other faiths ("Believe what we believe or rot in hell" 
and, sometimes, "Believe what we believe or die") and in modern times, a
lot to say that seems to me very negative about people's lifestyles.
("Don't have sex for fun.  Don't drink.  Don't read this.  Don't watch
that. Etc, ad infinatum)

> It's curious, and ought to be a little disturbing to civil libertarians, that
> in this day and age, it's the Christians who seem to be denied the right to
> speak their beliefs.  
>
> I'm not doing any arm-twisting, so why not just not let it bother you?

	Not denied; just told to shut up when intruding inappropriately.  I'm
sick of hearing our President refer to his god in his speeches; I'm sick of
seeing public-funded nativity displays; I'm sick of reading "In god we trust"
on our currency; and I'm sick of Christians' thinly-veiled attempts to
inject theology into the classroom via creatonism.

	It's about time those of us that believe in the separation of
church and state got good and mad about this, and stood up for *our* right
not to be confronted with someone elses' religious beliefs at every turn.

	To paraphrase Lazarus Long:

	Religion is fine; but do it in private, and wash your hands afterwards.

-- 
Rsk the Wombat
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aeq@pucc-h (Jeff Sargent) (05/26/84)

>> = Sargent
>  = Rsk the Wombat

>> In fact, anyone reading the New Testament will see that one of the main 
>> emphases of Christ and Christianity is removing discord between people.
>> 'Tis a shame that many, believers as well as non-believers, have 
>> forgotten that.

>	Christ, yes...Christianity no.	The Christ-character in the biblical
> myths certainly had a lot to say about being nice to one another, and said
> it pretty well.  Just fine and dandy.  Christianity has had a lot to say
> about non-tolerance of other faiths ("Believe what we believe or rot in
> hell" and, sometimes, "Believe what we believe or die") and in modern
> times, a lot to say that seems to me very negative about people's
> lifestyles.  ("Don't have sex for fun.  Don't drink.  Don't read this.
> Don't watch that. Etc, ad infinatum)

My strong suspicion is that a great deal of the corruption of the Christian
message, its transmogrification from the message that you are loved and
accepted irrespective of who you are or what you've done and that God can,
wants to, and will (if you let Him) change you from the inside out into the
image of His Son -- to the idea that one MUST believe (or claim to believe)
a particular set of dogma, or to the idea that one must or must not perform
certain actions (cleaning the outside of the cup but inside full of corruption
like the Pharisees) -- came from the church organization being co-opted by
those who were hungry for temporal power.  Indeed, Constantine may well have
done more harm than good by making Christianity the state religion.  The
medieval Catholic Church (from what little I know about it) seems to have had
some similarity to the modern Soviet government; the popes and cardinals had
it nice, just as the Politburo members have their dachas and their Black Sea
vacations, while the ordinary people were and are in poverty and fear.
Similarly, some modern legalists seem to wish to control every detail of
people's lives by force.

Christ, on the other hand, wants to change every detail of your life, yes; but
He wants to bring you to the point where you voluntarily choose the optimal
course for your life.  I happen to believe that the optimal course involves
some things which differ from what most people nowadays consider optimal, the
prime example being that sex was designed not only for fun, but for the
building of a deep communion between a man and a woman who are totally
committed to each other, who therefore trust each other implicitly, and who
can thus be totally free and open with each other physically, emotionally,
spiritually -- that it is truly a means of becoming one, and the shared fun
is part of that.  (There's nothing wrong with having fun per se; it's making
that your goal, or if you will, your god that is the error.  Believe it or
not, I am not of those who disapprove of having a few drinks with friends;
I have done it myself within this very month; but centering one's life
around that sort of activity is going too far.)  If you wish to do something
sub-optimal, that's your choice, and I won't say that you MUST not do that;
I'll just say that it might be wiser, and better for you in the long run, if
you didn't.  And I believe that this is Christ's approach.

(Incidentally, do not infer from the above that I never desire to have sex
without bothering with the commitment of marriage.  I'm human too, though
it's not always obvious....)

>	To paraphrase Lazarus Long:

>	Religion is fine; but do it in private, and wash your hands afterwards.
Wasn't that Pontius Pilate? [1/2 :-)]
-- 
-- Jeff Sargent
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"...I've got to be where my spirit can run free..."

ab3@stat-l (Rsk the Wombat) (05/26/84)

	Well put, Jeff; but--what's wrong with being (partially) a hedonist?

	Outside of the obvious drain on one's finances, that is. :-)

	(Oh...about Pontius Pilate: touche'!)
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jejones@ea.UUCP (05/29/84)

#R:stat-l:-7300:ea:11300024:000:767
ea!jejones    May 28 18:19:00 1984

/***** ea:net.religion / pucc-h!aeq / 12:30 am  May 26, 1984 */
Christ, on the other hand, wants to change every detail of your life, yes; but
He wants to bring you to the point where you voluntarily choose the optimal
course for your life.
/* ---------- */

Admittedly off the subject, but it connects with the problem of evil:
this is exactly the way that many think that humans should have been
created, if God is indeed good. One often sees this state denigrated by
Christians who want to weasel out of the problem of evil as that of
being a "mere automaton" (and thus for some reason not capable of
"true" worship, love, etc., so that God creates humans that will mostly
fry instead). So, why aren't humans created that way in the first place?

					James Jones

dyer@wivax.UUCP (Stephen Dyer) (05/29/84)

It IS appropriate for this discussion to be moved out of net.singles.
But I simply cannot understand the fanaticism that "Ask the Wombat"
manifests whenever Jeff Sargent (the most frequent "offender") brings up
the role of Christianity in his life.  These vituperative attacks against
public expressions of personal belief outside of net.religion seem as
wrong-headed to me as the behavior of the Inquisitors in the Middle Ages.

Listen: Jeff Sargent seems to be a very religious person.  As we've seen,
his faith is more than the ordinary person's convenient Sunday-morning
country-club--it permeates all of his postings, and at the very least,
we can say that Jeff's news items are unique and give us a pretty good
idea of what he's like.  I find it refreshing to read someone so guileless,
so willing to say what he feels, even as he recognizes that his opinions
are outside the mainstream.

One might take issue with some of the things he says, one might
not believe what he believes, but it is absurd to simply say to him or
anyone: "keep your religion private."  It would make as much sense to say to
Wombat that he should keep his obviously atheistic opinions to himself.
One's belief system is intimately woven into one's presentation of self,
and it would be a pretty boring world if that were otherwise.
So, Wombat, if you don't like what Jeff says, you can always type 'n',
or you can take issue with particular articles that he posts, either
publically or privately.  But don't ask someone to suppress his expression
of opinions just because you don't agree with them.
-- 
/Steve Dyer
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ab3@stat-l (Rsk the Wombat) (05/30/84)

	Ok, Steve; first of all, it's "Rsk the Wombat", not "Ask the Wombat";
and secondly, as I've stated, I'm not an atheist, so quit calling me one.
Or I'll eat all the bark off your trees.

	Thirdly, I see no reason whatsoever to keep *my* opinions to myself;
you obviously have no qualms about speaking up, why should I?  I'm really
not being sarcastic here; I'm just wondering why I can't bitch and moan about
religious intrusion -- *if* someone else can bring it up in the first place.

	Did that make sense?
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dyer@wivax.UUCP (Stephen Dyer) (06/01/84)

	>Ok, Steve; first of all, it's "Rsk the Wombat", not "Ask the Wombat";

Oops.  Corrected.  I'll have to turn off my mental spelling checker.

	>and secondly, as I've stated, I'm not an atheist, so quit calling
	>me one.

You misunderstand me (prob with reason)--my use of the phrase "obviously
atheist" was just sarcasm referring to the issue at hand concerning
Christianity.

	>Thirdly, I see no reason whatsoever to keep *my* opinions to myself;
	>you obviously have no qualms about speaking up, why should I?
	>I'm really not being sarcastic here; I'm just wondering why I can't
	>bitch and moan about religious intrusion -- *if* someone else can
	>bring it up in the first place.  Did that make sense?

I was expecting such a reply even as I was sending mine.  I guess the issue
comes down to this: USENET is a public forum where all sorts of opinions
are offered.  Thus, all things being equal, one likes to err on the side
of freedom of speech.  At the very least, I think it is better to say to
someone "I don't agree with your point" than to say "Hey, keep your opinions
to yourself (or out of this newsgroup.)"  The first response is in the
spirit of discussion and debate; the second serves no purpose at all except
to alienate the other person and to close off discussion.  In the case of
Jeff Sargent, his early postings on the subject mentioned Christianity
as a component of his mental and emotional condition regarding SO's--
it sure sounded relevant to me, since we were discussing Jeff Sargent.
It all comes down to "appropriate behavior", something which is impossible
to define or legislate, but the lack of which is pretty easy to spot.
Evangelizing outside of 'net.religion' isn't appropriate behavior, but
I don't think Jeff was doing that--merely saying what is true for oneself
is always appropriate, don't you think?

Now, you have every right to your opinions, and to express them as you wish,
(as do I) but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't be open to persuasive
arguments for tolerance.   My article wasn't the analog of yours to Jeff;
I wasn't saying "stuff the religious intrusion bit", I was asking for
you to listen to my arguments for tolerance--maybe this article expresses
some points better.  You are free to do with this what you will.
-- 
/Steve Dyer
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