[net.women] fights

harkins (04/14/83)

wrt to greg woods' comment about (essentially) getting it off your
chest early (as opposed to later); i was going to make more or less
the same comment, because i used to be much more reticent myself and
would typically wait until the blowup point before saying anything, but
over the years have found it useful in managing my own stress to say
whatever about the irritation before it became major.  i only wish that
i really always did it that way...   btw, i essentially agree with you
andy, but maybe that's because i'm a bit on the caustic side too.  ernie