[net.women] women's movement and equality

debray (05/08/83)

Considering how much we've been talking about sexism, the women's movement
and equality of the sexes, I wonder if others out there in netland have
noticed a certain double standard that seems to exist with regard to this:

It's been my experience that the selfsame people who will rant and rave
and foam at the mouth at the smallest mention of words like "chairman",
"spokesman" etc., will also expect me to hold doors open for them - only
once have I come across a woman who would return the favour and hold the
door open for me. They will expect me to help them with heavy packages,
but rarely return the favour. It seems to me that *some* (please note this
qualification) people want to take advantage of women's lib to have their
cake and eat it too!

						saumya k debray
						suny at stony brook
						...allegra!sbcs!debray