[net.women] Frank Adrians views on Children

mem@sii.UUCP (Mark Mallett) (09/13/83)

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Re: Frank Adrian's views on children.

I have always prefered to work at home - before and after having
a child.  There has never been a case where the "company" has
been opposed to this.  Some of the time, they have provided me
with equipment; later, I used my own.  They have always recognized 
that the extra 4 hours per day they got out of me as being
worth the nominal price of what Frank seems to view as immensely
expensive support.

Where I am contracted now, the company estimates the AVERAGE cost
of each software person to be $100,000.  A major part of this is
office space.  Timeshared offices or nonexistant offices can
save lots of that money.  And compared to this figure, what is the
cost of an extra terminal and modem?  eh?

As for the rest of the employees subsidizing the right of some
people to have children: maybe you have it back to front.  Do
you view your work as something that supports your life, or
your life as something that supports your work?  Is it having
children that is unnatural, then?  Choosing NOT to have children
is the norm?  Something is wrong with this opinion.  I wonder
if you dispute the necessity of all taxpayers to provide for
public education?  what is the difference?  I have never lived
in a house that burned down - I have always supported the
fire department.  I could go on and on.  

The above paragraph tends to indicate that I agree with the
comment that those who do not work at home subsidize those
who do.  It of course does not.  The comment about supporting
two people to do the work of one is absolutely ridiculous.
How can you bring yourself to say such a thing?

You know, advances in technology ought to (and do) lead to
better lifestyles and more personal freedoms.  This is a
technological industry.  My presence is not required at
every moment.  I don't work a loom or feed a paper folder.
You know, one criticism of capitalism is that it places
too much power (the means of production and the means of
support) in the hands of too few people (recognize that?).
The retort is that this is true of abuse of power in general.
Related to this issue: the abuse is that there are those who
want to dictate working conditions for no reason other than
the power of being able to dictate.

In summary: I do NOT believe that choosing NOT to have children
(hey you in net.nlang - a sentence with two nots) is the
normal course.  I do NOT believe that allowing people to work
at home or to have flexible or creative working hours is
counterproductive, in fact I think the contrary is true.
I DO believe that the placing of requirements relating to
working hours and conditions upon people such as myself
is no more than an exercise in power.

Mark E. Mallett
decvax!sii!mem

pjm@pyuxll.UUCP (PJ Maioriello) (09/23/83)

BRAVO, Mark: As a new father with a 6 week old daughter, I can only add
that anyone who considers children a burden for any reason can not have
much hope for the future of humanity.



					Paul Maioriello
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paulp@tekcad.UUCP (09/29/83)

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tekcad!paulp    Sep 28 09:36:00 1983

A child is merely a cat substitute that takes way too long learning how
to use the cat box.

				    Paul Pomes

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