[net.women] on support groups

saquigley@watdaisy.UUCP (Sophie Quigley) (01/22/84)

I have not never been a member of any support group, but in the two universities
I've been to (McGill and Waterloo) there has been some kind of women
organisation.  The role of these organisations has been mainly educative,
organising seminars on pornography, women health issues, courses in self-
defense, keeping a list of women gynecologists as well as a well-stacked 
feminist library (at McGill).  Here at Waterloo, they have organised "walking
home" groups for women who are afraid to walk home alone.  I think that these
groups provide very useful services which would not have been provided through
a more general group such as the Federation of Students (at Waterloo) or its
equivalent at McGill.  So there are many useful things that women can do other
than hate men, when they get together.  Of course most of these groups have an
ideological basis, and one of the purpose of the group is to promote this
ideology.  The important point is that one does not need to support that ideolo-
gy in order to use the facilities offered, but if one goes to the group for
"support" of any kind, one should expect to receive advice consistent with the
group's ideology.  As far as I see, there is nothing wrong with that; after all
I think that each person should be free to seek whatever sort of advice one
wants to get.