[net.women] self-defense and screaming

anderson@ittvax.UUCP (Scott Anderson) (04/17/84)

>From Daniel LaLiberte, University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign
on self-defense for women:

>    Here's a good one that helped a friend of mine out of a tight spot:
>
>    SCREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAM
>
>    It builds Chi too.

I saw a videotape of a lecture on thwarting rape.  The speaker had
many success stories for his techniques/philosophy.  He specifically
recommended against screaming.

As that incident in New York where a young woman screamed for some
fifteen minutes or so, and no one called the police ("someone else will
do it," or "I don't want to get involved") (she was killed), or the New
Bedford rape case, where dozens looked on dispassionately, indicate
(ah, finally the verb!):  Screaming is only good when someone else will
help you!!  Otherwise, you could very quickly turn into one of the
(alas, many) cases where a non-fatal crime (e.g. rape) turned into
murder because the assailant vigorously tried to shut the victim up.
A scream sets up a race between some would-be rescuer and your attacker,
and your attacker will usually be able to hurt you many times over
before any rescuer arrives--assuming one does (*sigh*).

Of course, you can argue that to risk death resisting is better than
being raped.  You are entitled to believe so, as that is a philosophical
question.  However, I know someone who was raped once, and
I'm glad as hell she's alive.

Lastly, "Chi" or "Ki" is only good if you know what to do with it.
Study Aikido for a while--that too might help you out in a tight spot.

Good luck, one and all, against the forces of evil!

Scott D. Anderson
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