[net.women] Women are not cows

sam@phs.UUCP (04/21/84)

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    >This is a misunderstanding on their (feminists) part showing their
    >ignorance of the English language.

English is my first language.  I have spoken English for about 25 years,
been able to read English for about 23 years, and been able to write
English for about 21 years.  I hardly think I am ignorant of the English
language, as Ted Becker claims.

   >Unfortunately, some people (primarily FEMINISTS) have a SEXIST
   >attitude and automatically assume any use of "man" excludes female humans.
   (emphasis mine)

I fail to understand what is
sexist about wanting to remove sex bias from job titles, forms of address,
even our precious English language.  The analogy Ted Becker draws between
words used to distinguish male and female animals and the masculine generic
used for humans is a false one in that female animals are not oppressed
because they are female.  Human beings have evolved far beyond the
instinctual "division of labor" between the sexes, yet men consistently
compare the situation of the human female to that of females of other
species.  I AM NOT a duck, a goose, a cow, a mare, a sow, a bitch,
nor a chick.  I AM a human being, I have the capacity for speech,
for language, for reason, for ambition, for desire, for hope.
English IS MY LANGUAGE.  I am painfully aware of the use
of language as a tool of oppression used against women.  I will
continue to fight sexism in language along with the sexism I face
in all other areas of my life.
Femiminists, Mr. Decker, are by definition those who fight sexism,
not contribute to it.

And now for a small flame.
How many of the people reading this have ever read any of the following:

The Second Sex, by Simone DeBeauvoir
The Feminine Mystique, by Betty Friedan
Born Female: The High Cost of Keeping Women Down, by Caroline Bird
Sisterhood is Powerful, edited by Robin Morgan
Our Bodies, Ourselves, by The Boston Women's Health Book Collective.

All of these books were published before 1971.  That's 13 years ago, folks.
In an effort to prevent further devolution of this news group into
a course in remedial feminism, I would suggest that those of you who
think you are truly interested in women's issues but have never read
any of these books to pick up any one or all of them and read it.  Then come
back and we'll talk about sexism, feminism, and the oppression of women.
At least then we'll be starting from the same basic premises.
If you get through these and are looking for more, try:
Women and Madness, by Phyllis Chesler
In a Different Voice, by Carol Gilligan
Men, Women, and Rape, by Susan Brownmiller
Men and Women Speaking, by Chaeris Krammerae

This is by no means a complete list; perhaps other "veteran feminists" out
there would like to suggest their favorites.