[net.women] Use of person vs. man/women

mgp@uvacs.UUCP (05/04/84)

<The USDA has concluded that eating lines is hazardous to your health>

I agree with Phil Ngai in using "I know a person who..." instead
of "I know a man who..."
Jeff Winslow argues that since a *specific* person is being referred
to, the second format is okay.  He concludes by saying

> please don't tell me it's all about "being human" being more important
> than being a man or a woman. It's kinda hard to be human without being
> one or the other.

But the point here is, that it in most cases, the gender of the person
being referred to is unrelated to the purpose at hand.  If that is not
the case, the second form is acceptable.  Otherwise, this usage
perpetuates the male/female stereotypes.  Maybe this isn't very clear,
but here is a related example.  If I said "I know a black man who ..."
"I know a white man who ...", I am viewing people by their color
instead of by their own qualifications.  In the man/woman case
I am placing people in an irrelevant category that conveys and
perpetuates male/female stereotypes.


                            Mark Pleszkoch
                            University of Virginia
                            decvax!mcnc!ncsu!uvacs!mgp

ntt@dciem.UUCP (Mark Brader) (05/08/84)

To this reader, "I know a person who..." sounds contrived.
I would be quite likely to say "I know *someone* who...", though
I might also substitute "a man" or "a woman" or "a guy" or ...

Mark Brader