[net.women] Wedding Party: Brides what would you have done?

eagan@phoenix.UUCP (Marianne D. [Sarno] Eagan) (07/17/84)

I have a question that I would like opinions on.
What if you were supposed to be in a freidn's wedding party and you ended
up wearing a cast wich would have to be on during the wedding, and you already
put a deposit down on the outfit you were to wear ...would you
expect your freind to drop you from the party because you were going
to "ruin the photographs" of this "once in a lifetime" affair?
If dropped, would you expect a refund on your deposit from the friend?
Would you still go to the wedding as a guest? (what if they had been in
YOUR wedding party prior to this incident?).

Now, for alittle switch in the question.
What if the party was wearing a certain style shoe and you informed your 
friend that you couldnt wear that style (about 5 months notice),
and said you would have to drop out if you had to wear that style. If your
friend said NOTHING about your warning, then 5 weeks before the wedding said
you HAD to get a similar style (and you looked but couldnt find any that 
style to fit your Hard-to-Fit feet) would you expect your friend to
drop you from the party? (assuming you could get a shoe
in the same COLOR, and a nice one at that?).