[net.women] Wedding Party

dag@tellab2.UUCP (Donald Graft) (07/18/84)

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You asked for our opinions, so here goes.  I think anyone that
would drop a person for the reason that a cast would ruin the
photographs is a jerk supreme.  Would they also drop you if you had a bandaid
on your forehead?  Would they not select you if you were handicapped in
a visible manner (e.g., scoliosis, cleft palate, etc.)?  How far away is
dropping (or not selecting) someone because they are not "pretty" enough?
If this friend was truly concerned and sensitive, s(he) would at least
arrange the photographs so that the cast was hidden or at least not
prominent (personally, I wouldn't care if it showed).  A compromise can
always be made.  I think there are probably other motives and this is a
convenient excuse.  As for the shoe question, I think the answer is the same
(but then you should probably be exclude because you have an "abnormal" shoe
size :-).  You should question whether this person is truly a "friend".

Donald Graft         ...ihnp4/tellab1/tellab2