minow@decvax.UUCP (Martin Minow) (10/20/84)
What about "If you really loved me, you'd ..." or "If you want me to take you to the prom next week, you'd ..." or maybe even, "If you want me to take care of our kids, you'd ..." and work up from there. Psychological rape does not necessarily imply a threat of violence, but rather a feeling that one did something which one did not wish to do. (I'm not implying, by the way, that the above would stand up in court.) Martin Minow decvax!minow