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mom@sftri.UUCP (M.Modig) (12/22/84)

>>From Sunny Kirsten:
>>
>> When in doubt, ASK!  There is NO substitute for openness and honesty.
>> If you give these, and presume the same, you won't be wrong.

>Reply by Jeff Sargent:
>Just hurt.

Well, gee, Jeff, life's just like that sometimes.  It's not fatal
(it shouldn't be, anyway). If you're expecting the woman of your
dreams to knock on your door one day, good luck.  You have to ask,
and be prepared to get turned down, becuase chances are you will
some time.  If you don't ask you may have missed a great
opportunity.

Yeah, it hurts, but you've got no corner on the market.  I've been
hurt, too, but after a time of pain and (sometimes) anger, I realised
that it was time to get on with things.  Being hurt over being
turned down is natural, but you can't let it grow out of proportion,
and you've got to try to remain optimistic.

So don't sweat it.  Be prepared for the worst and hope for the best;
sooner or later things will work out!  Never give up!

Mark Modig
ihnp4!sftri!mom