[net.women] Genderless Pronouns

sam (04/15/83)

I agree that the genderless pronoun is long overdue.  I'm partial to
the pronoun used j
the pronoun used in Joanna Russ' novel The Female Man - "per".
"Per" was used as the third person singular for all cases. It
didn't take long to get used to, and I found myself using it in
conversation, much to the confusion of my friends and famliy.

ajk (05/09/83)

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     My wife and I have run into some confusion in this area
with  regard to our first child, which we are expecting in a
few months.  We've had some confusion with how to  refer  to
the  fetus.   He,  she,  it, all seem inappropriate.  'He or
she' is just too unwieldy.  A friend of ours referred to his
unborn  child  as  'shim', a contraction of 'she' and 'him'.
We felt that to be a bit pretentious and thought of the con-
traction  of 'she' and 'it' as a possibility.  I don't think
our kid will appreciate learning about  this  nickname  when
s/he  is ten years old, though, so we decided to 'she/it'can
this idea.

     Any suggestions on this?   Ziggy  Zygote?   Cletus  the
Fetus?  Nah . . .

     Allan Kuchinsky - Hewlett Packard Design Aids

bentson (05/12/83)

ihuxn!ewp has trouble with the following:

      A bunch of us were trying to decide where to go for lunch.
      One guy said, "I've got a taste for pizza," but then one
      woman said, "Anything but pizza.  I hate pizza."

because '"Woman" sounds much more formal than "guy"'.  This may
be so, but I have an additional problem with the example. How many
have noticed that in some regions that "guy" need not refer to
the male gender?  I have seen "guys" refer to just a group of people,
and (less often so) "guys" refer to a group of females.

In any event, since the sex of the actors in the above example
seem to be of no significance, I would suggest the following:
    
    A bunch of us were trying to decide where to go for lunch.
    One said, "I've got a taste for pizza", but then another
    said, "Anything but pizza. I hate pizza."

Randy Bentson
Colo State U - Comp Sci
csu-cs!bentson
303/491-7016

firby (05/13/83)

    One of my old profs. called his baby-to-be "Badger", or "the Badger".
  Then again, he was from Britain, too.

                      joanne

jefff@cadovax.UUCP (Jeffery H. Fields) (01/09/85)

     The suggestion of  using  genderless  pronouns  like  "they"  and
"their"  instead  of  "he/she" and "they/their" is lauded by some as a
positive social  action  to  eliminate  sexism.   Some  linguists  and
English  purists  point  to  the  grammatical  error of using a plural
pronoun for a singular antecedent in doing so.
     There is a grammatical solution to  this  dilemma  that  has  not
appeared  on the net.  This solution would involve using "one" and the
possessive "one's" for a singular  antecedent  and  using  "they"  and
"their" for plural antecedents.

-- 

				Jeff Fields
				{ucbvax,ihnp4,decvax}!trwrb!cadovax!jefff

Pax Vobiscum.

features@ihuxf.UUCP (M.A. Zeszutko) (01/11/85)

From: jefff@cadovax.UUCP (Jeffery H. Fields)

>     The suggestion of  using  genderless  pronouns  like  "they"  and
>"their"  instead  of  "he/she" and "they/their" is lauded by some as a
>positive social  action  to  eliminate  sexism.   Some  linguists  and
>English  purists  point  to  the  grammatical  error of using a plural
>pronoun for a singular antecedent in doing so.
>     There is a grammatical solution to  this  dilemma  that  has  not
>appeared  on the net.  This solution would involve using "one" and the
>possessive "one's" for a singular  antecedent  and  using  "they"  and
>"their" for plural antecedents.

While the use of "one" and the possesive "one's" may be grammatical,
there are times when that construct would add unnecessary distance
between the writer and the reader.  The grammatically correct
"one" has connotations of being too proper, too precise.  If one is
hoping to give the impression that one is "just folks", the
ungrammatical use of "they" and "their" for the singular is much
more in keeping with the vernacular.
-- 

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