[net.women] Perchild and other Stupidity

ellis@spar.UUCP (Michael Ellis) (05/14/85)

>> There are plenty of words ending in "man" that have no good equivalent.
>> Such as "human".  (Oh, NOW I'm going to get flamed!  :-) )
>
>No flame here, but you're right.  We once had a great time evolving
>a friend's name:
>
>	Beckerman		sexist - "man"
>	Beckerperson		sexist - "son"
>	Beckerperchild		ageist - "child"
        ....

    Groan!! NO! She was not right! {Frankly, I think she was kidding...}
    
    Advocates of non-sexist language who say such foolish things
    are behaving as stupidly as their worst critics suggest.

    Or would you suggest, as your critics believe you propose, that 
    every word containing -man- -men- -son- be deleted from the
    vocabulary? 

    Why is `man' in a word like `repairman', etc. considered sexist? Because
    it REALLY DOES CONTAIN the word MAN. You can tell, because it has the
    prefix `repair', and its plural is `repairmen'. `Human' is not such
    a word. There is no such prefix as `hu-'; furthermore its plural is
    not `humen'. Apparently, it needs to be stated again -- human derives
    from Latin `homo', NOT English `man'.

    And please, leave `person' exactly as is -- it cannot possibly
    be derived from per+son. For the zillionth time, this word comes from
    Latin `persona', meaning `mask' -- `sona' is related to `sound' (NOT 
    `son') and combines with `per' to mean `that thru which one voice
    emanates'. Roman masks originally doubled as voice amplifiers...

    Furthermore, I believe that `person' and `human' are totally free
    from masculine associations. Check out the list below:

    a person's life		a human's life
    personal			humanism	
    personage			humane		
    personality			humanity	
    impersonal	

    Contrast the total lack of sex identification in the above with the 
    decidedly masculine connotations of:
    
    a man's life
    manly
    manlike
    mannish

    If you are opposed to sexist language, please note that `perchild' and 
    and its ilk the are the tools of your opponents used to ridicule
    your viewpoint.

-michael

eric@parallel.uucp (Eric Griswold) (05/15/85)

In article <244@spar.UUCP> ellis@spar.UUCP (Michael Ellis) writes:
>
>    If you are opposed to sexist language, please note that `perchild' and 
>    and its ilk the are the tools of your opponents used to ridicule
>    your viewpoint.
>
>-michael

Not only that, but the whole notion of abolishing sexist (or racist,
or ageist or..) language has rather strange overtones of Orwell.  Granted, 
enriching our language so that we can avoid gender reference if we
care to is a good idea, but not at the sacrifice of losing useful
aspects of our language.  

As an example, I've had the term 'young man' thrown at me in a negative
manner more times than I care to recall.  When somebody actually
used it recently to pick me out of a group of older people, I almost
got angry because of the associations I have with the term.  Then
I realized that it was the best term to use.  I understand that this does not
solve the problem of the female professional being called a "whatever-man"
against her liking, for the description is indeed erroneous.  I've
read several books where the feminine was used as the generic.  Although
it seemed a bit forced, it was hardly offensive.  

In short, words or phrases of this nature are undesirable based on 
context, not on etymology.  Let's all work on issues like equal pay
and equal opportunities based on merit and leave the details of how
we say it to follow.

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chabot@miles.DEC (Bits is bits) (05/15/85)

What is this, a lack of humor among some of the male participants here?

I thought the Beckerperchild etc derivation entertaining.  As the article said:
"We once had a great time evolving a friend's name."  "Great time" to me also
means the evolvers thought it amusing.

If playing with words is "behaving ... stupidly", well, I guess a lot of writers
should consider themselves idiots.  :-)

If I can't take myself not-so-seriously sometimes, what business do I have 
taking anything else lightly?

L S Chabot   ...decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-amber!chabot   chabot%amber.dec@decwrl.arpa

ran@ho95b.UUCP (RANeinast) (05/17/85)

>>> There are plenty of words ending in "man" that have no good equivalent.
>>> Such as "human".  (Oh, NOW I'm going to get flamed!  :-) )
>>
>>No flame here, but you're right.  We once had a great time evolving
>>a friend's name:
>>
>>	Beckerman		sexist - "man"
>>	Beckerperson		sexist - "son"
>>	Beckerperchild		ageist - "child"
        ....

>    Groan!! NO! She was not right! {Frankly, I think she was kidding...}

>    Why is `man' in a word like `repairman', etc. considered sexist? Because
>    it REALLY DOES CONTAIN the word MAN. You can tell, because it has the
>    prefix `repair', and its plural is `repairmen'. `Human' is not such
>    a word. There is no such prefix as `hu-'; furthermore its plural is
>    not `humen'. Apparently, it needs to be stated again -- human derives
>    from Latin `homo', NOT English `man'.
>
>    And please, leave `person' exactly as is -- it cannot possibly
>    be derived from per+son. For the zillionth time, this word comes from
>    Latin `persona', meaning `mask' -- `sona' is related to `sound' (NOT 
>    `son') and combines with `per' to mean `that thru which one voice
>    emanates'. Roman masks originally doubled as voice amplifiers...
>

Uh, oh.  Then we'd better get rid of the word "woman".  It comes almost
directly from "wife (of) man", as if that's all that counts.
More seriously, I usually gauge these things by the image they confer
in my mind.  "RepairMAN" seems sexist because I subconsiously think
of a man.  Even though "woman" is derived as above, due to the evolution
of the language, it doesn't mean that anymore.  That's not the case
with "repairman".

-- 

". . . and shun the frumious Bandersnatch."
Robert Neinast (ihnp4!ho95b!ran)
AT&T-Bell Labs

daemon@decwrl.UUCP (The devil himself) (05/18/85)

Re: Perchild and other Stupidity________________________________________________

> If you are opposed to sexist language, please note that `perchild' and and
> [sic] its ilk the are the tools of your opponents used to ridicule your
> viewpoint.

	I used to feel that way, but the way I see it now, there are so many
more important things to spend my time being concerned about.  (For example,
there are still people out there who think there is a correlation between wear-
ing "provocative" clothing and being a rape victim.  There is, in fact, abso-
lutely no correlation.)
	I recognize that some so-called witty critics (jerks like George Will
and Billy Buckley come immediately to mind) have used ridiculous constructs
like "perchild" to ridicule the goal of nonsexist language; but most of the
people I meet who do these things in jest are just plain folks trying to have
a few laughs in a changing world.  When I hear somebody saying or see somebody
writing these things, I tend to give them the benefit of the doubt and not
see them as "opponents" unless and until they prove otherwise (as Messrs. Will
and Buckley have).
	I will note, however, that I've heard just about every one of these
stupid constructs already; that like most jokes, their humor decreases with
repetion; and that they weren't \all/ that funny to begin with.
	Now can we please talk about something else?
		<_Jym_>

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