[net.women] \\"Why not send the men home?\"\

chabot@miles.DEC (Bits is bits) (05/14/85)

Mark, you're taking this discussion too seriously if you haven't seen any 
levity.  If *I* remember correctly, this started from the posting about the
problems caused by foreign women working in the mideast.  I posted something
I thought pretty silly about if the men are having problems with women, it's
the men who should be kept home.

What proposal could be more ridiculous?

What's wrong: paranoid?  :-)  Don't worry, I don't have a knife, or even the
deadly spoon.  :-)

And all the time there are net postings offensive to women.  Am I supposed to 
allow jokes about rape go by just because they might be funny to men, but they
can shut off my jokes about locking men up?

L S Chabot   ...decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-amber!chabot   chabot%amber.dec@decwrl.arpa

chabot@miles.DEC (Bits is bits) (05/18/85)

Hmm, Greg has a point about bad neighborhoods, but I live in a "nice"
neighborhood--high rent, mixed races and religions.  I haven't had any scary
experiences, except for those times that a strange man catches up with me and
makes conversation (and sometimes proposes something more intimate) and reminds
me that I shouldn't be walking home alone.  I realize they're just being 
friendly (and probably beer-filled), but why do they feel they have to remind
me I shouldn't be out alone after dark?  The ONLY time I get hassled is by
people like this.  So nice of them to remind me to be scared in an environment
I've walked safe in for 10 years; their behavior is certainly reinforcing of
their reminder.

Fools' paradise, maybe.

L S Chabot   ...decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-amber!chabot   chabot%amber.dec@decwrl.arpa

mom@sftri.UUCP (Mark Modig) (05/19/85)

> Mark, you're taking this discussion too seriously if you haven't
> seen any levity.  If *I* remember correctly, this started from the
> posting about the problems caused by foreign women working in the
> mideast.  I posted something I thought pretty silly about if the men
> are having problems with women, it's the men who should be kept home.

I was responding to the discussion around another article in which
someone else said that her sister thot there should be a curfew for
men, since the current status quo was pretty much a curfew for
women imposed on them by men.

Your jokes I can take (barely :-)), and I sympathise with your
feelings about certain jokes posted to the net, but I don't thibk it
was really your article I was responding to.

Mark Modig
ihnp4!sftri!mom

Seriously, what's the deadly spoon?  Is this some sort of new
martial arts technique? :-)