[net.women] asymmetric nature of physical molestation

oaf@mit-vax.UUCP ([Oded Anoaf Feingold]) (05/21/85)

>>	When was the last time you were physically molested?
			(Sarah E. Dugan)
>	You have a point.  This behavior is juvenile.  I have had it 
>	happen (VERY rarely) and while it WAS annoying, I didn't get 
>	particularly upset about it.
			(Geoff Sherwood) 
That reply doesn't wash.  Males molesting females convey a threat of further
molestation and violence, and the message that the woman has no security
except their mercy.  It virtually never happens the other way round.  Women
live in fear of such violence, constantly reinforced.  Men don't.  No wonder
you didn't get upset.  The analogy for _your_ carcass would be groups of
bikers or teenagers, or (what the hell?) cops who take "semi-friendly" slaps
at you as they pass.

>	I have met numerous women (mostly college age) who seemed to take great
>	delight in teasing men as far as they can, and then shutting them down.
Probably says more about the audience than the performer.
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