[net.women] Toilet seat position

arnold@ucsfcgl.UUCP (Ken Arnold%CGL) (06/14/85)

[ am I really posting this? ]

In article <183@fear.UUCP> neal@fear.UUCP writes:
>o	On Men and relieving themselves:
>   	Men: Lift the damn seat (Lower it when you're done.)

I always lift the damn seat.  However, I see no reason to lower it
again afterwards.  The only possible argument I could see for doing
this is to make it so that the toilet seat is always left in position
for the women, who never need it raised.  I have found that women are
just as capable as men at lowering the toilet seat before use.  So, for
the same reason I don't open doors for people just because they are
women, I don't see any reason to lower toilet seats for them.

Of course, if you are one of those people who means by "lower the seat"
lower the cover which covers the hole entirely, then my comment makes
no sense, since this has nothing to do with who will use it next, but
involves an aesthetic judgement about how the toilet looks with the
cover up or down.  However, as boorish as many men are about using the
toilet, I have never seen one who didn't bother to lift the COVER.
Yech.

		Ken Arnold

P.S.  I remember this being a big discussion a couple of years ago.  I
mostly ignored it then, and I suspect I will start doing so very soon
again.