[net.women] Net-Bullies, Food-Fighters, Cynics, and Armchair Critics

edhall@randvax.UUCP (Ed Hall) (08/22/85)

There've been a whole lot of fightin' words exchanged here recently,
raising the temperature even more of what is usually a pretty hot
newsgroup.  Some folks are acting like school-yard bullies, putting
a chip on their shoulder and daring the net to knock it off.  Others
are getting into intellectual food-fights, trying to outmatch each
other in terms of outrageous opinions.  Still others are sitting
on the sidelines trying to see who can be the most cynical about
the whole mess.  (It's ``The Net'' after all, ya know?  Whadaya expect?)
The latter are often bored versions of the amatuer critics that seem
to hang about merely to find flaws in other arguments--rather than
offer any substance of their own.  (Hey, guess which catagory I've
sometimes fallen into?)  And, of course *everyone* has to be right
and *everyone* has to have the last word.  (I've no illusions that
I will.)

The light-to-heat ratio is at an all time low, with about the only
current exception being a discussion of reading matter (though if it
follows past trends this, too, will precipitate a shouting match after
a while).

Of course, I know what happens when people decide to say things like
this on the net--they get pummeled and crowned ``Tin God of the Net''
by all those who get their yuks seeing just how much anarchy they can
create.  And now that we've a mushrooming ``turf'' fight developing,
I suppose I'll get fried by some men for ``sticking up for the women'',
and by some women who think I'm sticking up for them and thus implying
that they somehow can't do it for themselves.

Well, I'm not sticking up for anybody but myself.  I happen to believe
quite deeply that if we can humanize the relations between the sexes,
we'll have done more for advancing civilization than we've accomplished
since we came down from the trees.  You may not share this belief, and I
welcome any calm discussions upon it.  But whatever your point of view,
you aren't going to get very far if you insist upon an attitude of
confrontation.  If we've settled nothing else here, we've certainly
empirically verified that.

		-Ed Hall
		decvax!randvax!edhall