ken@birtch.UUCP (Ken B) (03/05/86)
I took the liberty to cross-post this to net.women, so the women their could see this question. Please, if I screwed up, don't flame me too much! In article <492@ssc-bee.UUCP> fuji@ssc-bee.UUCP (Glen T Fujimori) writes: >[...] > >Re: the discussion on saying or having someone say 'no' to you; > >First of all, thanks, Pooh, for bringing up an interesting topic. > >[...] > >Conversely, if I get turned down the first time, I let it drop right there. >I am astounded (perhaps naive) that someone would (or could) say 'no' when >they really mean 'yes'. Would some of the women out there who use this >technique please explain to the newsgroup the rationale behind it? This is not ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE EXPLAIN IT TO US CONFUSED MEN!! (I bet the unconfused ones would like to know, too) >a flame, I would genuinely like to understand; if I could learn to recognize ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ understanding is something I want, also! >it then I just might ask a second time! :-) > >glen fujimori >ihnp4!uw-beaver!{ssc-vax|ssc-bee}!fuji Are glen and I alone is this thought? I don't think so. Hopefully their is a women on the net who uses/has used this 'technique', and will try to explain it to us! (then again, do we {men} want these kinds of women on the net? :-) <-- note the smiley face!! --> If the women on the net do not want to write their why's on the net, I would be happy to have them e-mail them to me, then, re-post them without their names/addresses, if they so desire. Ken Brown -- uucp: ...{!glacier!oliveb,!ihnp4!trwrb} !felix!birtch!ken These ramblings are my own, and are surely not those of my employer.